A Money Coach Explains Why You Should Ditch Your Budget ASAP

Do you cringe whenever you hear the word “budget“? If so, you’re not alone — Ashley Feinstein Gerstley, money coach, author of The Fiscal Femme blog, and author of The 30-Day Money Cleanse said the negative feelings the word evokes can lead women to feel fear and dread about their personal finances. Gerstley clued us in on a positive new term and cash-saving concept that’s sure to feel like a breath of fresh air when you’re thinking about money matters. Read on for her truly helpful tips.

Brit + Co: We often hear that budgets are hard to stick with because they feel so restrictive. Have you encountered similar sentiments in your work helping women manage their money?

Ashley Feinstein Gertsley: I have. We are all guilty of making budgets that feel restrictive; a lot of this is in the words we use around money and around sticking with a plan. The language is really important.

B+C: Can you tell us more about why you believe “budget” is a word that scares people, or turns them away?

AFG: Budgets are created around the idea of *not* purchasing things, so when we’re on a budget we say things like, “I’d love to go out to dinner with you, but I’m on a budget” or “I really want [insert item here], but I’m on a budget.” The budget is the enemy, keeping us from doing and having the things that we want, much like a restrictive diet.

You know what happens as soon as you’re not allowed to eat something? It’s all we can think about until our willpower runs out and we eat a piece of cake or some chips. That in itself isn’t the real problem. As soon as we make a mistake and break our diet, we decide we failed and we eat the entire cake or the whole bag of chips. The same thing happens with budgets! An inevitable incident where we spend more than we mean to leads to a spending spree or a cycle of out-of-control spending.

Budgets feel like futile battles with ourselves; they just don’t work and they rob from us so much joy in our lives. That’s why even for the small percentage of people who can stick with them, it’s just not worth it.

B+C: We hear you! Tell us more about your idea of a “happiness allocation.” How can adopting the term help us flip the script on how we feel about saving and spending?

AFG: A happiness allocation is what I call a financial plan because I believe it’s a much more fitting term. The whole point of having money is to have and experience what we want in life and that will look different for each of us. No matter how much or how little we earn, we can only spend each dollar once. We might as well maximize our joy per dollar.

A happiness allocation is just an honest look at what’s going in and what’s going out so we can allocate our money in the ways that are going to make us the happiest in both the short and long term. Again, another conscious and powerful language choice makes all the difference.

B+C: So what’s the biggest, most noticeable difference between a happiness allocation and a traditional budget?

AFG: Happiness allocations are about maximizing the joy we get per dollar spent rather than a restricting plan to keep our spending within a certain amount. This will look different for each of us because we value different things.

B+C: How do you use happiness allocation in your life? What difference has it made?

AFG: I created the concept of happiness allocation through my own experience and money journey, and it has made a tremendous difference in my life. It’s been so transformational that I’ve written a book about it! My new book, The 30-Day Money Cleanse takes readers through each step to build a happiness allocation, which is the foundation of my money philosophy.

When I made my first happiness allocation, I found that I was able to improve my lifestyle while also saving much more money for my goals. It was such a win-win! It sounds too good to be true, but when we align our spending with our values, we get so much more joy from the dollars we spend and can let go of the rest.

For example, I realized I could reallocate the $1,600+ I was spending each year on lattes to travel and took a trip to Spain with my cousin because that would bring me more joy. To this day, I still check in with my happiness allocation biweekly and have money parties with my husband each month to talk about our goals, go through our expenses, and tackle any other financial to-dos that come up.

Will you try a happiness allocation instead of budgeting? Tell us what your first one will be on Twitter @BritandCo.

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Loud budgeting may be popular on TikTok, but conversations about money can still be awkward. I've been in romantic relationship for a little over a decade and we're just at a point where we've become aligned on finances. So imagine having random conversations with your family or friends that begin with, "I know I've never really asked before, but is it okay if I can borrow [insert x amount of $] until I can pay you back?" The nature of your platonic and familial relationships will totally determine whether you receive positive or negative responses.

As helpful as money can be, it can fracture even the closest relationships. Why? Well, psychologist Veronica West of My Thriving Mind, head of advice for Wells Fargo Emily Irwin; and Founder of Her First $100K money expert Tori Dunlap have a few ideas!

Keep reading for a few sneaky ways money can ruin your friendships:


1. Talking About Money Can Expose Hidden Feelings

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It's impossible to know how someone feels every second of the day, but we probably all think we have a good understanding of the people we're close to. But people are capable of hiding how they feel about something or burying their discomfort until certain situations 'expose' them. Why does it seem like money has a way of doing this?

Both Irwin and Dunlap agree that "money is taboo," leading people to avoid conversations about it. "Data tells us that we are more likely to talk about any other taboo topic—sex, politics, religion, even death—before we’ll talk about money," says Dunlap. West agrees and says, "Money is like that one friend who’s incredibly helpful but totally untrustworthy—everyone likes what they bring to the table, but no one wants to talk about them directly." Did you think of someone specific? It's okay because I did too!

The problem is that money can make "hidden insecurities come out, old sibling rivalries rear their heads," and more, according to West. "Even something like 'who paid for what' can suddenly become a life-or death conversation," she says. It's strange because Irwin says a Wells Fargo study shows that "many Americans across all ages are worried about money," proving we're all thinking about it, despite our avoidance issues.

2. And Money Can Also Create Unease In Conversations

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"When we don’t have open conversations about money, we’re left to navigate it on our own, which can keep us feeling underpaid, overworked, or unsure about our financial situation," Dunlap points out. She feels "discussing money requires a huge amount of vulnerability" which "isn't easy for everyone." You may have seen how other topics are swept under the rug by family members or friends based on reasons they're not ready to talk about.

Though Irwin believes saying something like saying, "'Here's what's keeping me up at night' or 'here's what my goals are' could strengthen connections," Dunlap knows that "shame, comparison, or fear of judgement" can cause people to remain tight-lipped about their finances.

If you've experienced a weird moment because of money or had to be the unfortunate witness of an awkward conversation, my apologies. It's not fun no matter who's involved because, unfortunately, "money carries layers of emotions, like pride and insecurity, that turn simple conversations into potential minefields," says West.

Dunlap says there's a silver lining if people are willing to be open, however. "The key is respecting each person’s comfort level, and encouraging openness if they're willing to meet you there. It’s not going to be perfect at first, but by starting to share more about your own financial experiences, you can start to break the cycle of shame and fear around money. You might be surprised at how quickly others are willing to open up too."

3. Making Assumptions About Other’s Money Status And Financial Situation Can Lead To Disrespecting Boundaries

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No one's saying you should never lend friends money, but being mindful about the decision is worth noting. West feels "it's complicated" while Dunlap believes the issue "can be tricky." There's a chance a low-key loan becomes an expectation that you should dish out money every time someone needs help, even if you're trying to maintain your own bills. "Lending money to a friend is like sharing your Netflix password—simple in theory, but one wrong move, and things get weird," West forewarns.

Dunlap also says, "When you lend money to someone close to you, there's always the chance that you won’t get it back. You want to be mentally prepared for that! Otherwise, it can strain your finances and your relationship. The emotional toll can be just as heavy, as unpaid loans can lead to resentment or awkwardness." It's not unusual to hear about certain friends being unreliable in more ways than one after you've let them borrow something. Unfortunately, Irwin indicates this happens because some people "don't expect to give something back that they've borrowed."

Because of this, Dunlap thinks "it's best to avoid loans if possible." Should you decide to move forward with helping out a friend who's in a bind, make sure you're both in agreement about repayment and what to expect moving forward. West says "having clear terms" or "gifting a small amount if you can afford it" is like "buying their friendship insurance." The latter is something Dunlap agrees with because it "helps prevent resentment if they can't pay you back as planned." Plus, she feels it also "keeps the loan within an amount you're okay with potentially losing."

4. Lending Money Is A Slippery Slope That Can Lead To Distrust And Resentment

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It's amazing how money can lead to a friendship breakup if boundaries aren't created or respected. "Money is a sneaky little devil who can push everyone’s buttons. It can cause resentment if one person feels taken advantage of or someone’s 'casual loan' becomes an epic saga of unpaid IOUs," West says. Not only that, but Dunlap knows "money can strain relationships between friends and family by highlighting differences in how we value it, expect to use it, or feel about sharing it."

Friends and family members shouldn't take each other's kindness for granted, but human nature is fickle at times. That's not an indicator that someone you love is a "bad" person, but they may feel like you owe them your time and money. However, Irwin says this isn't "de facto that that person is entitled." Still, Dunlap is more than aware how this can play out. "For example, it can lead to resentment if one person is always the one picking up the tab, while another might feel uncomfortable or indebted because they’ve been helped financially," she says.

On the other hand, it can show up a little differently in families. She adds, "Issues like unequal inheritance or constant requests for financial help can lead to deep emotional tension. Money can also become a tool for power imbalances, where one person feels in control and the other feels dependent, and that can mess with trust and respect."

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When certain negative patterns show up in relationships, it can make people decide to take a step back from being available. "And once distrust settles in, it’s hard to shake; nobody wants to be 'that friend' who’s forever dodging a Venmo request or getting side-eye from relatives at every family BBQ," West points out. How many times have you built up a wall with the people you love because of repeated unreliability or the expectation that you're supposed to help them whenever they ask? If you didn't hesitate to think of a moment, you're living proof that distrust can affect even the closest relationships.

Dunlap says, "When money becomes a main factor in a relationship, it can overshadow the connection, making it difficult to maintain genuine trust and understanding. You can avoid this by having open conversations with friends and family about your financial situation. Clear communication can help keep the focus on the relationship, not the money."

5. You Can Worry You're Not A Good Friend Or Family Member For Setting Money Boundaries

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Worrying about how other people feel can keep us from setting boundaries. There's a difference between being an empath and a people pleaser, but it's easy to blur the lines. You can absolutely empathize with someone's hardship while knowing you're not in the position to lend the amount they may be looking for. I'm a huge fan of saying that two things can be true at once — because they can.

Irwin says you need to "address the conversation head on" if a friend does ask you for a loan. Your response may depend on if their ask was "emotionally-charged or "in an uncomfortable environment," but Irwin doesn't recommend ignoring it. If you're not in the space to respond, here's what she suggests saying in a "timely" fashion:

  1. "Hey, I need time to think about this. Let me get back to you."
  2. "We can help you, but here are our boundaries."
  3. "We see and understand you, but we're unable to help because we're trying to pay off debt or save for _______."

Yes, Financial Boundaries Are Essential

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Don't think you need to create financial boundaries for yourself and your friends? Think again. West says, "Establishing some ground rules is a lifesaver—think of it adding airbags to the friendship. Setting boundaries early on, like when you’re still in the happy, non-monetary part of the relationship, can protect both sides if things get sticky."

Here's how she advises you proceed with creating boundaries:

  1. Keep it light and be honest; you’re not making a prenuptial agreement here, just letting them know you’d like to avoid “financial fireworks” later.
  2. Say, “I’m your friend, not your ATM.” It’s funny but helps set the tone that your wallet isn’t a free-for-all.
  3. Set a gift cap, such as, "I'm happy to chip in for brunch or a birthday, but let’s not get into home-loan territory.”
  4. If you do lend, draw up a repayment plan. Think of it as adulting with a side of accountability to avoid “accidentally” becoming their financial fairy godmother.
  5. Limit talk of big financial choices unless you’re genuinely invested together. After all, nobody needs to know how much their friend spends on avocado toast or scented candles, let alone home renos.
  6. A little humor and some boundaries go a long way. You’ll save yourself a lot of awkwardness and keep the friendships intact, one “non-loaned” dollar at a time!

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Tori says, "It's so important to have transparent conversations about money, set clear boundaries, and ensure that relationships are prioritized in any money exchange." Here are a few things you can try:

  1. Communicate about your budget with a “gratitude sandwich.” Say you’re invited to an outing—a dinner, or a sports game—that isn’t within your budget right now. You can respond with the “gratitude sandwich.” The “pieces of bread” are positive, and the “meat” is the money thing you’re scared to say. Thank that person for the invite, let them know it’s not within budget right now, and then offer a cheaper alternative, reassuring them that you’d really love to see them. Offering an alternative reminds that person that declining their invitation isn’t about them, and you still care about them. In doing so, you prioritize your budget AND your relationship in the process.When in doubt, remember that no is a complete sentence. You don’t need to overcomplicate things, and sometimes a simple “no” is all you need.
  2. Set expectations early. When planning trips with friends, discuss the budget and how costs will be split upfront. Having these conversations ensures that everyone is on the same page and helps avoid any misunderstandings. It creates a supportive, stress-free environment where everyone can enjoy the experience together without any added worries!

The Final Verdict:

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Once you've weighed your options and considered what you need, you can decide to loan your friend money. However, Irwin wants you to consider being formal about it. "You can absolutely draft a promissory note or loan agreement so that your friend knows how serious you are about your boundaries. If you want, you can also put an interest rate on it," she says.

It's not to hurt your friend's feelings, but it is a boundary you can put in place so they think to themselves, "This is truly a loan because I'm borrowing money with the intent to pay it back," Irwin says. It could change the dynamics of your friendship, but it's more about being "purposeful about the language being used" so you and your friend can both move in the "right direction," according to Irwin.

If the idea of creating a 'loan agreement' sounds icky to you, Dunlap wants you to seriously consider it as "an extra bit of protection." She says all you need to do, again, is "try setting up a simple contract to outline repayment terms" because it "can help both of you stay on the same page and avoid misunderstandings down the road."

Her ultimate piece of advice? "Only lend what you're comfortable giving and potentially losing, and keep open communication to maintain trust and respect in the relationship."

If you set clear financial boundaries and still find that your platonic relationships are weird, we have tips to help you navigate a potential friendship breakup.

Have you ever wondered why it seems some women always have the best friendships? We're talking about on the level of Sex and the Cityor Insecure. It's debatable whether some of those friends are toxic or not, but that's another story. The point is, it seems like some women have the best luck when it comes to building fun and supportive platonic relationships.

Are there unique qualities women in this position share? According to friendship coach Zoe Asher and licensed therapist Nicolle Osequeda, the answer is yes! Asher is host of the top-rated Accidentally Intentional podcast while Osequeda is the owner and founder of Lincoln Park Therapy Group, giving them an inside look at how people tend to approach all types of relationships!

Let's dive in!

Here are the unique qualities women with lots of friends share.

1. Women with a lot of friends value connection & community.

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The one thing everyone with a solid group of friends can agree on is how it feels like you've built your own supportive community. Friends are often the first people we turn to with good or bad news, or the ones we simply want to go on adventures with. Osequeda says, "Women with strong friendship circles often value connection, community, and the power of vulnerability."

There's a realization that women in this unique position are able to "recognize that life is richer with a support system," says Osequeda. This involves "people who will listen, validate, and be there through both the highs and lows" she adds. From the friend who stayed up with you all night after a bad breakup to the one who cheered the loudest at your graduation, women who have a huge friend circle know that life feels better when we can connect with others.

Based on her experience as a therapist, she's "observed how women start friendships by gradually sharing layers of themselves." This can look like "having children at the same school or bonding over shared interests," she adds. This vulnerability is important because it creates a foundation that signals to women they've found their tribe.

2. Women with multiple friendships are open to vulnerability.

Like Osequeda mentioned, vulnerability can deepen our friendships. "These women are open to sharing the 'messy' parts of themselves which builds a deeper, more authentic bond." Also, she notes women with a lot of friends "aren't afraid to shed layers and be real" because "this vulnerability strengthens their sense of community." The more this happens over time, the more it "helps foster the connections" women with a lot of friends "cherish," according to Osequeda.

Honestly, she says "we’re all wired to seek out connection, and friendships provide that sense of community, validation, and belonging." She believes we truly "crave spaces where we can share our thoughts and feelings about what truly matters to us."

Asher believes women with lots of friends are "usually drawn towards one another in friendship" based on two levels:

  • Level 1: Shared interests, appearance of confidence, a positive energy that they feel (smiling helps with this!)
  • Level 2: (When in conversation) the safety they feel when speaking to another person, [emotional compatibility], how engaged the person is in conversation, and a desire to learn more about them, ultimately to find shared values.

This determines how women move forward in friendships. The approach is often led with "a deep sense of authenticity and care," according to Osequeda. "This is because women want relationships where they can be themselves, sharing hopes, dreams, and frustrations without judgment."

3. Women who have a lot of friends like other people they're friends with.

Again, the fact women with lots of friends actually like the people in their chosen circle is monumental. Asher says, "An interesting Yale study done in 2003 sought to look at 'popularity' in high schools to see if they could find something that all of the most liked and most popular kids had in common (outside of being a jock, etc.,)."

The common thread? "THEY liked the highest amount of people," Asher reveals. I talk about being a people pleaser a lot, but genuinely liking others isn't the same as that. IMO, it's actually admirable when people can respect others regardless of their race, religion, socioeconomic status, or sexuality.

She knows you're likely asking, "How does this apply to women having a lot of friends?" Her answer? "Across the board, the principle here is that women with the most friends are continuously on a hunt to find good and likable things about others."

However, this isn't based on a selfish need or want. "They've determined that the time invested in others is of mutual benefit," says Asher because "the biggest coast in adult female friendships is time — the most finite resource we all share in common."

4. These women also don't mind making new friends.

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While making friends as adults shouldn't be hard, it definitely doesn't mean it comes easily. From overthinking to social anxiety, there's so many reasons why we struggle. Also, this idea we're doing fine without friends isn't exactly helpful or positive. Asher says, "The CDC has said that the impacts of loneliness on our bodies are more harmful than smoking 15 cigarettes A DAY! Making time for quality friendships (and the pursuit of it) is just as important for your physical state as working out is."

Where should you start if you want to forge new friendships? Osequeda says, "Start within communities that already resonate with you — whether it’s your child’s school, your workplace, a gym, dog park or a shared hobby. Places where you already belong create natural opportunities to connect." She even suggests giving "apps like Bumble BFF or local meet-up groups" a chance because they "can also help you find like-minded friends." But don't think you're limited to this!

Though Asher agrees that women tend to approach "friendships by trying to find commonalities right from the beginning," she says you don't have to confine yourself to this formula. "The reason I don't think this is best is because we are boxing ourselves in when we do this. The greatest friends could be on the other side of the stereotypes we're creating," she notes. Taking it a step further, Asher shared her own experience with this. "I watched all 3 of my best friends get married and have kids all before I ever got married. On the outside, most women would think 'They don’t have anything in common.' But on the inside, the character traits and values we each were looking for were mutual, and that became a more important compass for our friendship than the stage in life we were each in."

She was even surprised she'd become close to her best friends because of how things looked externally. "We had nothing in common, but I'm so glad I didn't box myself in," she says excitedly.

Here Are Even More Ways To Make New Friends!

Asher has three ways you can open yourself up to new adult friendships if you're interested.

  1. The most important place to start is our mindset. We have to first decide “I don’t want to be lonely anymore, and I’m worth having meaningful friendships.” When we make that decision, then we give ourselves permission and the courage to step out and take action in that! Important note about this: there was a study done at Stanford that revealed that people are 1.5x MORE likely to accept us than we think they are! So don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back!
  2. Go first. Make the ask, and then make the plans! Saying “We should hang out sometime” is ineffective because “sometime” isn’t a day on the calendar! We cannot wait for other people to want to pursue a friendship with us, because most of us are in this same boat — not knowing where to start! We can pursue connection, get plugged into a community (examples: book club, fitness class, church, etc), or create our own connections by just inviting someone over to our house/apartment. The biggest thing we need to remind ourselves of that is to stop making excuses, or pre-determining how we think people will respond!
  3. Again, don’t box yourself in. Don’t let your preconceived notions of what you think your archetype of a friend will look like stop you from spending time with others who don't fit that label. As addressed above, the friendships we’ve been looking for our whole lives could be right behind the stereotypes we’ve created! It’s more about character traits than it is about the external compatibility of hobbies or stages of life.

Osequeda's last piece of advice? "If you already have a friend group, meeting friends of friends is another great way to grow your circle. They key is taking that first step with a little bit of vulnerability — start a conversation, ask a question, and show interest." She's sure "it's these small moments of openness that create lasting connections!"

Want to know if you've taken on a certain role in your friendships? Discover the 11 ways you can tell if you're an empath!

Budgeting for the year is the last thing most of us *want* to do, but it's probably the most important in order to achieve your life goals. "Whether you want to pay off debt or build wealth, the budget’s entire job is to increase your net worth," says Erin Skye Kelly, author of Get the Hell Out of Debt: The Proven 3-Phase Method That Will Radically Shift Your Relationship to Money. "A budget says that you matter, and your dreams matter — and when we take care of ourselves first financially, we are in a better position to help others." Here are some of the most-Googled questions about debt answered, plus realistic ways to get out of debt in 2025 and starting living your best life.


How Do I Pay Off Credit Card Debt?

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If you're serious about reducing your debt, you'll have to cut back on your nonessential spending by setting a realistic monthly budget for expenses like dining out or entertainment. Come up with a payment strategy that works best for you and your current financial situation. For example, focus on paying off the card with the highest interest rate first while making minimum payments on others. Once the highest-interest debt is cleared, roll that payment into the card with the next highest interest rate. This approach reduces the overall interest you pay and can help you become debt-free faster.

What Is A Debt Snowball?

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A debt snowball is a debt repayment method where you focus on paying off your smallest debts first, regardless of interest rate, while making minimum payments on larger debts. The debt snowball method is popular because it builds momentum and motivation, giving you a psychological boost as you see debts disappearing one by one. Once the smallest debt is paid off, you take the amount you were paying on it and apply it to the next smallest debt. This creates a "snowball effect," where your available payment amount grows as each debt is eliminated, helping you pay off larger debts faster over time.

How Do I Get Out Of Debt?

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When it comes to getting out of debt, the method that works best for you might be different than what works best for someone else. To get started, list all your debts, including balances, interest rates, and minimum payments. This gives you a clear picture of what you owe. Analyze your income and expenses to see where you can cut back and direct any extra funds toward your debt. Avoid new debt: Shift to a cash or debit-only system to prevent accumulating more debt while paying off what you already owe.

There are a variety of factors, from financial situation to income to dependents, but no matter what your life look like right now, here are some realistic ways to help you conquer your debt.

Create An LBD (Little Budget Library)

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A little budget diary is a way to take stock of all your monthly and annual expenses, such as subscriptions, streaming services, and groceries — and write them all down in your LBD, says Brit + Co's Money School instructor Nicole Lapin. "You'll reference this all year — weekly is best — so you'll want to start off on the right foot with an easy-to-reference LBD. Don't make it hard. It's an easy task that will help you get organized quickly," she says.

Be Realistic About Your Expenses

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"Do not be aspirational with your numbers," says Skye Kelly. "Pay attention to how you ACTUALLY live and how you ACTUALLY spend and work from there." Track your expenses for a month to create an accurate budget, review your paycheck and follow the 50-20-30 rule. These are the percentages you should spend on essentials, your future, and your lifestyle (non-essentials) with the goal to live within your means and eventually start saving and investing.

Check out Brit + Co's Teach Me Something Newpodcast with finance pro Tonya Rapley for breaking out of the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle.

Set Your Sights On Big Goals

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Whether it's that dream bucket-list trip or a buying your first home, think about what your long-term goals are and think big when planning a budget. "When we are committed to a massive financial goal (retiring early and traveling the world with your life partner) suddenly the decision between roses or calla lilies as a wedding bouquet seem meaningless, and we are more inclined to find ways to spend less so we can meet our long-term financial goals," says Skye Kelly. She adds: "Create a budget for the milestone, stay resourceful and use points, seasonal sales, and help or hand-me-downs where you can."

Check out Brit + Co's Teach Me Something New podcast with The Points Guy for credit card tips and travel hacks.

"Spring Clean" Your Finances

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Take a moment to organize your expenses. Dedicate a weekend afternoon and delete unused subscriptions, close and consolidate accounts, check in with your savings and retirement plans to make sure they're working for you, reduce auto-renewals, and unload credit card debt byconsolidating them into a single low-interest personal loan. It will feel as good, if not better, than spring cleaning your house, plus think about the money you'll have saved in that afternoon.

Find Your Side Hustle

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Beyond just reducing your expenses, look at ways you can increase your income so you can start saving andinvesting to grow your wealth. "Increasing income might look like side jobs, part-time employment, creating an income stream, selling clutter around the home, or creating a product or service that meets the demands of the marketplace," says Skye Kelly. Look at selling clothes on resale sites, having a garage sale come spring, selling books online, starting an Etsy shop if you have a creative interest... anything that will add some extra cash in your pocket each month.

It's OK If It's Not Perfect

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"Because budgets are rooted in math, we tend to see everything as right or wrong, which *shudder* brings up a lot of grade-school math class shame for many of us," says Skye Kelly. "If you plan your budget at the beginning of the month and at the end of the month it was only 80% accurate, you are likely killin’ it financially. I’ve asked hundreds of financial experts over the years ‘how many times did you get the budget exactly right?’ and every single answer has been ‘zero times.’"

Avoid Making Money Decisions During Hard Times

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Mental wellness plays a big role in how we view our expenses and often we can make decisions in order to make us feel better (retail therapy, anyone?) instead of making healthy long-term financial decisions. "Having a line item in the budget for guilt-free spending is critical if you can afford it," says Skye Kelly. "This guilt-free spending money is there for times you want to splurge even though you might not be able to justify it."

Skye Kelly says it's best to avoid major financial decisions if you can for at least 6 months:

  • After a significant death or when you are grieving
  • While you or a loved one are experiencing a critical illness or at the onset of a new disability
  • After a major breakup or divorce
  • When you’ve entered into a new romantic relationship
  • If you’ve been diagnosed with or suspect you have a mental illness and are awaiting treatment

"During these times we are highly likely to make emotional or impulsive decisions. Give yourself time to regulate some of the higher intensity emotions that might be driving the urge to spend."

Curious about crypto? Check out Brit + Co's Teach Me Something Newpodcast with finance pro Nicole Lapin for a primer on how to make your first crypto investment.

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Similar to finding the best gifts for your sister, I've become a pro at finding things book lovers will cherish. "It takes one to know one" positively applies to this because I'm a bibliophile too. From keeping up with the latest book club picks to seeing what's being praised (or shredded) on BookTok, there's never a time I'm not engrossed in something reading-related.

On that note, prepare your fingers to take screenshots of these fun gifts for book lovers because someone in your inner circle will love them. And if you decide to snag a few of these for yourself, I won't judge you!

Keep reading for the best gifts for every kind of book lover.

The best gift for the book lover who loves collector's editions of books:

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The Perfect Marriage by Jeneva Rose (November 26, 2024)

The Perfect Marriage follows a wild case involving a married couple and their fight for justice. Unfortunately, readers discover that not all is as it seems between Sarah Morgan and her husband Adam. When an affair and the murder of Adam's mistress rocks their marriage, Sarah will have to prove how good of an attorney she is while defending him.

This collector's edition book comes with detailed endpapers, red edges (as seen above), and a brand new chapter that features "courtroom illustrations!" Pre-order it today so it'll arrive in time for Christmas!

The best gift for book lovers who are serious about their 2025 reading goals:

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Book Lovers Journal

The rise of BookTok made room for readers whose strong opinions fueled a renewed interest in reading. Even retailers like Target, Walmart, and Barnes & Noble noticed how powerful it is!

If you know someone who needs a place to organize their books and share their unfiltered thoughts about them, don't be shy about slipping this journal into their curated gift bag.

The best gift for book lovers who always pour a glass of wine when reading:

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Wine Glass Set — Read Between The Wine

I absolutely love fun sayings that play on familiar ones we've grown up with. This cute glass set would be perfect to include with someone's new book journal because the two complement each other well. What's a good book review without a nice glass of wine?

The best gift for book lovers who love coffee as much as they do reading:

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Book Lovers Themed 16oz Glass Cup

Some book lovers may be on a sobriety journey so it's best to steer clear of anything that reminds them of alcohol. Instead, you can buy this cute glass cup for them as a way to acknowledge their love of reading. Although it's technically a coffee cup, the reader you know can put their drink of choice in it!

Between us, I see a lovely golden turmeric tea in my future!

The best puzzle for the book lover who wants to immortalize their bibliophile ways: 

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500 Piece Book Puzzle

Inside of this seemingly massive book lies 500 pieces of pure fun that create the most beautiful puzzle your reader's ever seen. It's less than $15 so you won't go over budget, and will keep that special someone busy in-between their designated reading sessions.

The best book gift to keep a book lover's toes cozy during winter:

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Bookworm Low Cut Socks

One thing any book lover can agree on is that we love cute and silly nods to our reading habits. IMO, these socks bring the 'bookworm' title to life with its cute depiction of a worm sitting on a pile of books. The fact the worm is wearing glasses makes these socks even better!

The best gift for book lovers who love practical jokes and playing pranks on people: 

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Bookie Cushion

Clearly I'm in a jolly (aka goofy) mood because I immediately laughed when I saw this bookmark. I grew up with a brother so I can spot a whoopie cushion from a mile away and this idea? Oh, it's such a delight for book lovers who have a unique sense of humor.

The best gift for book lovers whose bookshelves are happily overcrowded: 

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"I Have No Shelf Control" Sweatshirt

I'd love to write an entire blurb about why this sweatshirt makes sense as one of the best gifts for book lovers, but it's self-explanatory. I already know there's someone in your life who won't stop buying books even though they've run out of space on their bookshelves. Yes, it's plural because I know they have two that are overflowing.

This sweatshirt is definitely for them.

The best book gift for book lovers who love buying themselves flowers:

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Personalized Eco-Friendly Book Vase

How gorgeous is this eco-friendly book vase? I've personally tried to convince myself that I don't need one, but I think I may add this to my list of Christmas demands, er, wants, so my fiancé has an idea of what to get me.

The personalization of this book vase is simple:

  • Choose from two styles of vases
  • Add 10 favorite titles to the personalization box in list form

The best gift for book lovers who still have their childhood library cards:

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Vintage Library Card Blanket

All book lovers know that falling in love with the library as a kid is like a rite of passage. It was the one place where any outside troubles seemed to fade away because you could pick up any book and be transported to another world. If you know someone who still cherishes those day, you should surprise them with this vintage library card blanket.

You have the option of personalizing it for them or you can let the designer choose which dates or authors to place on it!

The best gift for book lovers who are curating their at-home libraries full of banned books:

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Personalized Library Sign

Take things a step further and buy a book lover their own library sign, especially if they're buying as many banned books as possible. Reading can be seen as a form of resistance to the idea that books are causing people to think and live in a harmful way. Book lovers know that's not quite it.

The best gift for book lovers who'd rather be reading:

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Funny Bookish Mug

There may be a pile of laundry on the bed or things to pack if you're moving, but nothing comes before reading. Well, that's probably what you've been telling yourself and I partially agree. At least shower and brush your teeth before you descend into your undisturbed reading time.

The best gift for book lovers who can't stop reading spicy titles:

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Fantasy Book Lover Candle

I'm going to hold your hand when I say this: We know you or your bestie can't get enough of reading spicy romance books. I'm privy to this insider's information because I can't stop reading them either. They've actually made date night more fun and that's as far as I'll go.

Even if you or your bestie aren't in a relationship with anyone, the very act of reading smutty things can be a fun form of escapism from the dumpster fire that's been going on since 2020.

The best gift for book lovers who swear they're going to bed after reading one more chapter:

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Book Lover Candle

You may have heard your best friend or younger sibling say this before: "I'm seriously putting this book down after I read one more chapter." You may have said it to yourself before realizing it's 3:00 in the morning and you haven't slept yet.

Do yourself or another book lover a favor by gifting them this realistic candle. You can choose from the following scents:

  • Rose + Patchouli
  • Mimosa + Pineapple
  • White Tea + Jasmine
  • Coconut + Orange

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A Lip Oil That Comes in Neutral and Deep Shades

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Keep your lips hydrated and glossy with this lip oil. This nourishing formula is packed with plant-based oils that deliver a high-shine finish while protecting your lips from the season’s chilly air.

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An Eyeshadow Stick With a Built-in Brush

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Swipe on a pop of color with this eyeshadow stick. It has a long-lasting cream-to-powder formula that blends like a dream. It's an easy way to add a touch of warmth to your fall makeup.

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A Milky Toner That Promotes Glass-Like Skin

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Sometimes, makeup remover and cleanser aren't enough, and that's why adding this milky toner to your routine is absolutely essential. It helps remove any leftover product or oil, promoting a refreshed and hydrated complexion.

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This Cushion Foundation Blurs Your Imperfections

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A satin finish is just one product away with this cushion foundation that has the internet in a frenzy. This foundation is infused with an anti-aging serum, bringing a radiant finish to your skin with each use. It's easy to apply and creates a timeless look that everyone will love.

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A Three-for-One Lip Plumper Set

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Why purchase one product when you can get three for the price of one with this lip plumper set? It comes with three shades that will naturally plump your lips and give them a glossy glow. It includes a light-colored gloss, a neutral tone, and a dramatic pink that can be accentuated with your favorite lip liner.

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A Toner That Doesn't Dry Out Your Skin

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Even your skin could use some probiotics from time to time making this pH-balanced toner a no-brainer addition to your routine. It helps balance out your complexion, soothe irritation, and refresh your skin throughout the day.

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A Hair Mask for a Deep Repair

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This keratin protein-infused hair mask is perfect for repairing and strengthening fine hair. It helps banish split ends, leaving you with healthy, flowing strands. Plus, it nourishes your scalp to promote healthy hair growth.

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A Niacinamide Serum That Addresses Enlarged Pores

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Give your skin complexion that you'll love and feel confident about with this niacinamide serum. It will help shrink the visibility of your pores and provide relief for redness and any discolored areas on your face. It has a sensitive skin-friendly formula that you can use daily without irritation.

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A Perfume That'll Make Everyone Obsessed With You

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TikTokers claimed that this scent caused strangers to stop them on the street and ask what perfume they were wearing, in a video that currently has over a million likes. This warm, musky perfume smells unique on everyone — try it for yourself and see what the scent develops into with your specific skin pH.

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A Plumping Face Serum With a Plant-Based Formula

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Glowing skin is trending now more than ever, and this plumping face serum will help you achieve it. It’s infused with collagen to prevent signs of aging, along with other natural ingredients to help your skin thrive.

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A Cream Highlighter You Can Apply Anywhere

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Add a stunning glow to any makeup work with this cream highlighter. It has an innovative applicator that is perfect for on-the-go use, and it's even infused with aloe vera and fruit extracts to keep your skin hydrated.

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Unbeatable Value for Wrinkle Control Pads

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Incorporate these exfoliating pads into your skincare regimen for miraculous results. Infused with vitamins B5, C & E, and green tea, these wrinkle control pads will keep your skin smooth and help prevent wrinkles and lines.

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This Body Fragrance Has Millions Of Fans

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You will smell irresistible after one spritz of this Body Fragrance that is at the top of everyone's "most-wanted" list. Whether you're prepping for a day out or setting the mood for a cozy evening, this mist is a light, yet luxurious option that is going to gain you compliments wherever you are headed.

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An Anti-Frizz Cream To Use Daily

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Dehydrated hair often leads to a frizzy texture, but this anti-frizz cream is designed to fix that. It’s the perfect product to apply right after cleansing, as it protects from heat damage while locking in moisture.

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A Skin Tint to Prioritize Hydration

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Keep your skin moisturized and glowing with this skin tint. Infused with hyaluronic acid to help diminish uneven skin tones, it offers full coverage that can easily be used as a primer or foundation on lightweight makeup days.

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A Foundation and Finishing Powder to Use Together

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This two-in-one product is a great way to simplify your makeup routine while still guaranteeing flawless results. Patrick Ta has showcased the power of this foundation and finishing powder on his TikTok channel, and many influencers have adored it as well.

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Get Kissable Lips with Maybelline New York Super Stay Vinyl Ink Longwear No-Budge Liquid Lipcolor Makeup

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Glossy and long-lasting. You'll get seriously kissable lips with this Maybelline New York Super Stay Vinyl Ink Longwear No-Budge Liquid Lipcolor Makeup. I absolutely swear by this product, and soon so will you. The shade "Royal" is a deep wine red, and seriously sexy for a night out. This makeup is made to last through the day, but if you want to know my hack, I put on a first layer, blot, and then reapply to maximize long wear.

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A Vitamin C Serum For Anti-Aging

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With clean ingredients that brighten your skin, this anti-aging vitamin C serum will hit your cart again. It's extra hydrating because of vitamin E, hyaluronic acid, and jojoba oil.

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This Hair Treatment To Transform Your Locks

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Treat your hair to a little vacation with this Hair Treatment that works to repair, hydrate, and add shine to your locks with each use. With a ton of nourishing ingredients from shea butter to keratin, this product will treat your hair to the attention and care that it deserves after this dry winter.

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These Hair Capsules Transform Your Hair

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Strengthen your hair and reduce frizz with these nourishing hair serum capsules made in Italy. Each plant-based capsule provides a boost of amino acids, leaving your hair silky, smooth, and strong.

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This Sweater Falls Off the Shoulder

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There's nothing as timeless and cozy as this sweater that has an off-the-shoulder fit and lightweight, knit fabric. This loose fitting sweater is a must-have for all of your fall coffee runs or casual days lounging around the house.

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Flare Leggings That Will Keep You On-Trend

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Flare leggings are a top loungewear trend, and Black Friday is the perfect time to snag a pair. This style is crafted from buttery-soft, stretchy material that keeps you comfortable, even on your longest days.

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This Necklace for Layering Over Other Accessories

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Complement your everyday, laid-back look with this necklace that adds a dainty and chic touch to any ensemble. This accessory can be layered with all of your other necklaces and pieces, ensuring you always look chic, even in your most casual moments.

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This Bracelet Set for Stacking

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Models are known for their low-key accessories, which is why this bracelet set is a must-have for your "off-duty model" look. These adjustable bracelets come in chunky, flat cable chains and beaded designs, perfect for stacking or wearing alone.

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Carry Your Stuff in a Vegan Leather Tote Bag

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Accessories are a necessity in any capsule wardrobe. This large vegan leather tote bag is great for commuting, traveling, or everyday use.

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Treat Your Feet to Some New Memory Foam Slippers

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Homebodies everywhere will appreciate these memory foam slippers. With a faux fur lining and super soft coral fleece, these slippers will become your new favorite accessory.

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This Blazer Dresses Up Your Look

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The best part about this blazer is that it can be dressed up or down in a variety of different ways. The open front and long sleeves give it a relaxed, yet polished vibe, perfect for throwing over a simple tee or tank like all of the most iconic models do.

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Bell Bottom Pants With Embroidery

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Show off the vibes of the '70s with these bell bottom pants that have a denim fabric and stunning flare finish. The high-rise fit adds a flattering touch, while the floral embroidery adds a bohemian flair.

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Keep It Casual With a Crewneck Sweater

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Add some texture to your wardrobe with this ribbed crewneck sweater. Pick from color options, including pink, beige, brown, green, or orange, to wear with jeans or trousers.

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Elizabeth Mott Thank Me Later Face Primer

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The Elizabeth Mott Thank Me Later Face Primer is a lightweight, illuminating makeup base that helps create a smooth, radiant, and long-lasting foundation for your makeup. This primer helps minimize pores' appearance, control shine, and hide wrinkles and fine lines, leaving your skin looking smooth, even, and glowing. Whether you're looking to create a flawless makeup base or want to improve the overall health and appearance of your skin, this face primer is an excellent choice.

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These Sneakers With Eco-Friendly Material

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A ton of models have been rocking the streets with these sneakers by Veja. The minimalist design makes them an aesthetic piece, while the eco-friendly material provides comfort for long days on your feet. They pair with everything from trousers to sweatpants, making them a go-to in your shoe collection.

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Lounge in Style With This Pajamas Set

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There is no better way to lounge around the house than with a new pajamas set. You'll feel comfortable and relaxed all day long while wearing this cute set.

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These Earrings With a Paperclip Design

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Whether you’re rocking a simple tee or a more dressed-up look, these earrings add a bold and chic touch that will elevate your look. The paperclip link design will blend in seamlessly with your everyday look, allowing you to make a statement everywhere you go.

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A Loungewear Set for Casual Days

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Compromise both comfort and style with this loungewear set. It comes with a matching pair of wide-leg sweatpants and a long-sleeved top that you can easily mix and match with other pieces in your closet.

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Chelsea Boots You Can Wear With Anything

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Chelsea boots are a great way to switch up from your daily sneakers without compromising on comfort. They're perfect for rainy or snowy days, featuring a thick rubber sole and waterproof material.

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New Balance Sneakers You Can Wear Daily

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These New Balance sneakers are great for those who want to prioritize comfort without compromising style. They have a trendy neutral color combination that matches any outfit and enhances your aesthetic.

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Add These Must-Have Baggy Jeans to Your Cart

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You can create an endless amount of outfits with these baggy jeans. Wear them with oversized sweaters, bodysuits, tank tops, or a tuckable tee for casual vibes.

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Rejuvenate Your Skin With This Miraculous Facial Toner

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Spotted: you, glowing like a scandal in the moonlight thanks to this watermelon toner. Even the Sensitive-Skin Society swears by it. PHA, BHA, OMG! Your pores don't stand a chance, darling.

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A Waistcoat Vest Inspired by the '40s

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This waistcoat vest is inspired by the 1940s and has a double-breasted design and a tailored fit. The polished look is perfect for both business settings and casual days, allowing you to layer and style this piece in many different ways.

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This Striped Button-Up Shirt Is a Classic

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Not into sweaters? This striped button-up shirt is another way to be stylish this fall. Tuck it into your jeans or dress pants for a more put-together look.

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Save Money on This Long Sleeve Bodysuit Dupe

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You don't need to spend a ton of money on fall wardrobe essentials. Customers claim this long sleeve bodysuit is a cheaper replica of high-priced options.

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A Jumpsuit With Side Pockets

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Show off that carefree look that everyone carried around in the '70s with this jumpsuit, which has an oversized fit and floral design. This one-piece outfit also has hidden pockets, serving as a practical and chic option for casual days around town.

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A Fleece Jacket You Can Easily Crop

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Adding cozy pieces like this fleece jacket to your wardrobe is a great way to make the most out of the fall season. It features high-quality material that's perfect for casual days or layering over your athletic wear.

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Add a Puffer Vest to Your Athleisure Look

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Wear this puffer vest over a long-sleeved shirt or sweater for a cute and cozy accessory. It offers a comfortable fit and will help you stay warm without overheating.

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This Pullover Sweater With a Fuzzy Fabric

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When the temperatures drop, every off-duty model reaches for a chunky knit sweater. This pullover sweater is an affordable and adorable option that is as cozy as it is chic. The oversized fit is perfect for pairing with leggings and slippers, giving you the laid-back look on the colder days.

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A Polo Sweatshirt With a Collared Finish

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Show off the sporty looks of the '90s with this polo sweatshirt that has been trending on Amazon this fall. The bold stripes and loose fit create a relaxed, comfortable look that's perfect for casual weekends or a chic, sporty outfit. Pair it with baggy jeans or leggings for that classic '90s vibe.

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A Chunky Knit Sweater Made With the Softest Material

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Having a chunky knit sweater to throw on any day of the week is absolutely essential for the fall. This sweater is made from a cozy material that feels like you’re wrapped in a blanket all day long. You can get it in a variety of colors to match any pair of bottoms.

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Get a Flawless Complexion With This Saie Slip Tint Tinted Moisturizer

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A sunscreen and tinted moisturizer in one? Count us in. This Tinted Moisturizer will leave your skin looking dewy, bright, and clean at the same time with its lightweight formula.

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Fall in Love With This Wool Peacoat

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The fall and winter months will be incomplete without a wool peacoat. It offers a mid-long length and notched collar lapel that will remain classic.

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A Quarter Zip Sweater for Casual Days

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This quarter zip sweater is a great compromise for days when you want the comfort of a hoodie but prefer a more polished appearance. It's made from a soft and warm material and features an oversized fit for extra comfort.

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Layer Up With a Flannel Shirt

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Create a warm and fashionable look with this flannel shirt that is available in a ton of color options. Wear it with your favorite pair of denim for casual vibes.

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These street sneakers Broke the Internet

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If you consider yourself to be a sneaker enthusiast, then you've probably heard all about these street sneakers that are quintessential to any streetwear look. They have a classic design and supportive build that will provide your feet with all of the attention they deserve.

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A Multi-Use Lip Pen That's Smudge-Proof

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Create the perfect lip combo with minimal effort using this lip pen. It acts as a liner, stain, and lipstick all in one. Made with a long-lasting formula that's resistant to water and smudging, it comes in a variety of colors, from nude to bold luxe.

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This Trending Belt Bag

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Chances are, you've already noticed the Belt Bag trend making waves, and with Prime Day just around the corner, it's the ideal moment to secure one for yourself. These nifty accessories prove invaluable on those hectic days when you need to stay hands-free while keeping your essentials within arm's reach.

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Dazzle Everyone In This Perfume

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A good perfume is essential for whenever you need a little extra sparkle and good smells for an event. This luxury perfume is a great investment into yourself and your confidence. It's long lasting, from Dubai, and carries a luxurious scent.

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This Pore Mask For Unrecognizable Skin

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Formulated to refine and refresh your pores, this Pore Mask leaves your skin free from impurities with one quick use. Use this mask weekly to transform your skin into a glass-like finish that will become a complexion that you will love.

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Lip Gloss That Comes in the Best Shade for Fall

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Dark lip combos are going to be a huge trend this season, and this Mac lip gloss is the perfect way to achieve it. It comes in a gorgeous cranberry color and features a non-sticky formula with lasting shine.

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Stay Warm In This Chunky Cardigan

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Keep it comfy and cute in this bright pink chunky cardigan. The big knit texture and oversized fit is the perfect balance of all the latest trends.

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Let Your Hair Air Dry With Wave Spray

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Create effortless beachy waves with the OUAI wave spray. This aromatic hair product adds texture, body, and shine to any hair type. It's color-safe and won't damage a keratin treatment.

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A Gel Sleeping Mask for Hydrated, Clear Skin

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This gel sleeping mask refreshes, hydrates, and refines pores while you get your beauty sleep. This is a mask that delivers visible results. One reviewer says, "My skin is glowing & hydrated better than anything else I've ever used. The smell is wonderful! Unfortunately I've gotten very skeptical & cynical about products that promise you so many wonderful things but never seem to live up to those promises.....HOWEVER, this product really does do what is advertised and I'm so happy with the results!"

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This Bougie Hoodie Will Be Your Best Friend This Fall

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Experience the internet's favorite trend with this Hoodie, expertly crafted from a luxuriously thick material that's been taking the online world by storm. Elevating your hoodie game, its superior quality injects a touch of sophistication into the familiar comfort of a hoodie. Embrace the buzz and upgrade your casual style effortlessly with this must-have piece that combines trend and refinement.

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This Sweater Set Is Girly In The Best Way

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There's no easier outfit to put on for errands or other quick trips than a matching set. This pretty sweater set is the ultimate in comfort and style to get through the winter months.

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These Slippers Keep You Smiling

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Brighten up your holidays with these Slippers that are not just a treat for your feet. The soft, cozy material ensures warmth and comfort, while the anti-skid sole keeps you safe on slippery surfaces. Whether lounging at home or stepping out for a quick errand, these slippers combine comfort and style.

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A Shimmery Eyeshadow Palette That's Super Pigmented

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There's something about Fall that makes us want to perfect that sultry, smokey eyeshadow look using warm, glowy shades. This eyeshadow palette helps us accomplish that. With eighteen gorgeous shades, from a neutral khaki to a shimmery, radiant umber, it's easier than ever to create a dimensional eyeshadow look that makes you feel like a million bucks.

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A Tinted Hydrator With Buildable Coverage

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This tinted hydrator provides just the right amount of coverage without looking cakey. The formula is smooth and hydrating as it evens skin tone. The hyaluronic acid and squalane formula lock in moisture for all-day, so your skin feels soft and moisturized throughout the day, no matter how cold and dry the fall weather may be.

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Sparkly Bodycon

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Make a bold statement in this Floerns Sequin Bodycon Dress, complete with a cut-out back and sequin accents.

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A Matching Sweatsuit Set

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Just because you are spending a night at home doesn't mean you can't look fabulous. This Matching Sweatsuit Set will leave you looking your best with its comfortable joggers and crewneck top.

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A Cut Out Bodysuit For Date Night

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This super soft and breathable Cut Out Bodysuit is just what you need for a dinner date. It offers an asymmertical neck that can be accentuated with any type of necklace.

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These Must-Have Sherpa Lined Leggings

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Homebodies everywhere will fall in love with these Sherpa Lined Leggings. They feature a drawstring closure, two pockets and elastic around the ankles for additional warmth.

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The Perfect Lipstick for Every Skin Tone? Clinique Almost Lipstick Is Going Viral.

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Everyone's been talking about Clinique Lipstick and its ability to look good on every skin tone. When two sisters with completely different looks tried it out for themselves, they were both amazed. This versatile shade can be dressed up or down to suit any makeup look.

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Apply This Glow Serum Before Doing Your Makeup

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Hydrating, healthy and flawless are all understatements when it comes to this glow drop serum that releases hyaluronic acid, coconut water and electrolytes into your skin to give you the ultimate radiance. This boosting serum can give you a non-shimmer, dewy finish to your makeup look after each and every use. With it's lightly scented coconut flare and lightweight touch, you will fall in love with the first drop.

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This Perfume Smells Heavenly

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Everyone will be asking what you're wearing with this lovely Lake & Skye Eau de Parfum. This blend of ambers and musk is as refreshing as it is sophisticated. If you're always looking to smell fresh and clean, this is the scent for you. One 5-star reviewer calls it "heaven in a bottle."

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This Shark Blanket Onesie to Cuddle Up In

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Dive into comfort with this Shark Blanket Onesie, perfect for lounging at home. Its unique shark design adds a fun twist to the traditional blanket, making it a great conversation starter. It's an ideal gift for someone who loves to snuggle up in style and is a cozy haven for chilly evenings.

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Blowout Primer That Makes All the Difference

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Blowout looks are the season's style, and this product will surely get you the volume and hold you desire. This Blowout Primer is your secret weapon for attaining the volume and hold that will turn heads. Formulated to defy humidity and conquer frizz, this essential primer ensures your carefully crafted hairstyle withstands the elements.

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A Mini Travel Kit of Beauty Essentials for Hydrated Skin

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This mini travel kit is a great way to sample products that are sure to give you a hydration boost. The set includes a variety of skincare essentials, from a hyaluronic cream to an avocado cleanser, so it's easier than ever to figure out what works best for you. One reviewer says, "I can tell you 100% these live up to the hype and will buy this again."

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Waterproof Eyeshadow Stick Won't Break The Bank

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This Waterproof Eyeshadow Stick is highly pigmented, long-lasting, and smudge-proof, making it the perfect choice for those who want to achieve a flawless eyeshadow look. It's formulated to withstand even the most humid weather or physical activity, so you don't have to worry about fading throughout the day. And the best part? It's budget-friendly, so you can achieve a high-quality look without breaking the bank.

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This Super Serum Will Give You Super Skin

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Olay always knows just what our skin needs, am I right? The cult favorite drugstore brand just released this 5-in-1 Super Serum that will have you instantly hooked. With niacinamide, Vitamin C, collagen peptide, AHA, and Vitamin E, this magical formula improves texture, firmness, evenness, hydration and smoothness all at once. It'll leave your skin feeling refreshed, hydrated and healthy for a glow that others will notice immediately.

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These Sweatpants Are on Another Level

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Discover the allure of these Sweatpants, which exude a level of sophistication that sets them apart. Their refined charm lies in the raw hem stitch detailing and substantial waistband, imparting an elevated touch to your loungewear. Step into a realm of class and comfort as you redefine your relaxed style with these exceptional lounge pants.

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The LED Light Therapy Mask That Makes Your Skin Clearer And Brighter

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People have been going crazy about this mask on TikTok saying it performs miracles for their skin. The LED light therapy mask is suitable for all skin types and uses a number of colors to tackle various problems people have with their skin such as acne, redness and roughness. There is no surprise this product has become viral because the results can be considered almost life changing!

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This Easy To Use Curler

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Simplify your hair routine with this ingenious Curler that takes the effort out of styling. Just hold it, and it does the rest – your arms will thank you! And the best part? It's designed to work seamlessly with all hair types. Say goodbye to the hassle and hello to effortlessly fabulous hair!

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Transform Your Look With This Peel & Reveal Lip Stain

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Surprise them with a long-lasting lip color that’s a hit on TikTok. Ideal for teens and adults, this lip color changes from an indigo shade to reveal the final color, ensuring a fun and unique makeup experience. It's smudge-proof, making it a fantastic gift for those who love experimenting with their makeup.

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This TULA Skin Care Eye Balm is the Worst Nightmare of Dark Circles

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Dark under eyes don't stand a chance. I absolutely adore this TULA Skin Care Eye Balm after long nights and the accompanying rough mornings. This eye balm cools, soothes, and brightens even the most stubborn of dark under eye areas. Small and lightweight, this eye cream is great for traveling or just a quick refresh on the go. If you want a truly cooling experience, keep this eye balm in you fridge overnight.

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Buttery Soft Leggings

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We've got a hunch that these TikTok-famous leggings are on the verge of a fantastic sale – the perfect opportunity to snag a pair! Whether you prefer full-length or capri style, these leggings have you covered. And with fall just around the corner, there's no better time to refresh your wardrobe and pair these leggings with your coziest sweaters.

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These Nostalgic And Fashionable Mini Ugg Boots

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These Mini Ugg Boots will put a smile on any fashionista's face. With sheepskin lining and insoles, these boots will keep anyone warm all winter long whether they are inside or outside.

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Pamper Yourself with these Luxurious Slippers

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Indulge in some serious self-care with these oh-so-luxurious sheepskin slippers. With their Australian shearling lining, they're the perfect accessory to conquer those chilly days in style. And just when you thought it couldn't get any cozier, the memory foam footbed swoops in to ensure you as comfy and snug as can be.

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A Turtleneck Sweater Dress For Your Holiday Party

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Play dress up this winter with this Turtleneck Sweater Dress. Pair it with tall boots, booties or heels for a fancy outfit or dress it down with white sneakers or mules.

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Enhance Your Skin's Natural Glow With Glotion

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Discover the hidden gem in your beauty arsenal - L'Oreal's Glotion, a natural glow enhancer that outshines even the name brand competitors. This illuminator highlighter skin tint guarantees an all-day radiant glow that often goes unnoticed amidst its flashier counterparts. Don't be fooled by labels; this product is destined to become your new favorite. Its subtle yet transformative touch brings a luminous radiance to your complexion, effortlessly blending into your daily routine for an enviable glow that demands attention.

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This Stylish And Dependable Duffel Bag

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Everything you need for a weekend getaway will fit inside this Duffel Bag. It offers a sleek and compact design that features multiple compartments and a USB charging port.

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This Sweater Will Have You Looking Chic

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This is Amazon's best-selling oversized sweater because we're all obsessed with a chunky ribbed turtleneck. Throw this on with a pair of jeans and you've got yourself one chic look!

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These Silk Scrunchies Are a Must Have

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Indulge in the elegance of Silk Scrunchies that not only adorn your hair but also prioritize its health. These scrunchies boast a practical and simplistic size, making them easy to wear and style. Unlike traditional hair ties that can cause breakage and damage, silk scrunchies gently hold your hair without tugging or pulling. They minimize friction, reducing the risk of split ends and hair breakage.

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These Leggings That Are Better Than The Expensive Designer Ones

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For my girls who like to wear leggings literally every day, I got you covered. This leggings pack comes with seven different pairs of leggings that come in different colors and can be mixed and matched throughout the week to create some of the cutest workout looks! No one will ever know! They feel as soft as butter and will make your legs look slimmer than ever.

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