8 Women Who Are Shattering the Glass Ceiling in Their Industries

In 2019, it’s hard to believe that gender is still a factor in any workplace, but the divide is still existent, and even more prevalent when we call a plumber, roofer, or walk into a butcher’s shop. Now, more and more women are opening their own businesses, especially in skilled trades. According to new research, over 50 percent of those business owners are citing that it gives them the autonomy to call the shots, pay-wise, and eliminate gender-based discrimination at work. Silicon Valley-based mobile payment company Square, Inc. partnered with small business locator Thumbtack in a survey of over 1,000 women who are small business owners in traditionally male-dominated industries. They’re ignoring the gender gap and pushing forward, despite reporting being 10 times more likely than men to be questioned on their knowledge of their specific trades. Here’s what some of these trailblazers have to say about the pride they take in their work.

1. Flight Instructing: Jamie Patterson-Simes is one of the only 6.66 percent of flight instructors that are female in the US She founded SkyTrek Flight Training School in Anchorage, Alaska in 2014 after her contract as a flight instructor with the University of Alaska Anchorage wasn’t renewed. Getting more women into aviation has proven to be a challenge over the years, she says. “It’s a very slow, glacial metamorphosis. I would think that since the 1980s that the ratio of 4.5 percent of pilots being women would have changed, but it really has not budged,” says Patterson-Simes. “It’s difficult to balance family life (being a mother and engaged family member) with the demands of the aviation industry,” she adds. But her hard work and high standards earned SkyTrek the title of number one flight school in 2017 from the Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association. “I have garnered a reputation as a fair and compassionate flight instructor who produces quality pilots, and that’s how I’ve earned the respect of people in this industry,” Patterson-Simes says.

2. Dairy Farming and Cheesemaking: Marieke Penterman is one of 100 women who are licensed cheesemakers, out of just over 1,300 in the state of Wisconsin alone, according to the Wisconsin Department of Agriculture, Trade, and Consumer Protection. She’s the owner of Marieke Gouda in Thorp, Wisconsin, and runs the Penterman family dairy farm — and putting in the time and expertise needed to make cheese is just in her blood. “At first, I didn’t realize or feel the gender difference in this industry. I grew up on a 60-cow dairy farm and always continued my education and work. I quickly became used to the practice that when we work, we work,” Penterman says. She spends her days doing everything from guiding visitors and potential clients through her creamery, to milking the calves with her kids. She would like to see even more women like herself at the helm of cheese companies but starts by making sure there are equal opportunities on her own team. “I am proud of my two other licensed female cheesemaker colleagues and our whole team (both male and female),” she says.

3. Carpentry: Stevie Estler, the founder and Chief Carpenter at BuiltbyStevie in Nashville, Tennessee, turned building, what was once a hobby that she did to help friends and family whose homes needed furniture or fixing, into a full-time, all female-run construction company (which is important especially because only 2.2 percent of carpenters in the US are women). “I decided after creating my business that I wanted to hire only women: We call the staff the CarpentHERS,” Estler explains. “It creates a safe space for women to become confident builders and learn the ins and outs of the business without feeling like they need to prove their worth.” Her creations range in size from a custom wood wall or farmhouse dining room table set to a custom wood Jenga game, and there’s care and skill put into every piece. Stevie’s next project is to create a space to host workshops for women, teaching them the empowering feeling of grabbing power tools and building something like a coffee table tray. “My goal is to inspire more women to know that just because they are girls, doesn’t mean they can’t get comfortable using a miter saw,” she says.

4. Roofing: Letitia Hanke is one of just 2.6 percent of women nationwide who are getting on roofs and getting the job done. She’s the founder and CEO of ARS Roofing in Santa Rosa, California, and despite customers doubting her authority in the early days, she takes pride in being the face of the company. “I made a decision that I was going to show who I was, putting my face on all the marketing materials and being proud that I was a black woman in this industry,” Hanke says. She’s taking her experience and paying it forward, in hopes of seeing other women get started in her industry: She founded The LIME Foundation, an organization that inspires youth through music education and vocational training, and she also mentors young adults through teaching skilled trades at the Community Foundation in Cotatie, California. Of course, she always takes a special interest in women who might want to be roofers. “I had three potential female roofers in my most recent class, and that makes me excited, because we usually have one or two. So to make it to three, that’s an accomplishment — I want to see the numbers grow even more,” she says.

5. Auto Repair: Haylee Sjostrom, co-owner of Crimson Tires in Casper, Wyoming, partners with her husband in the shop, but doesn’t let the fact that she’s in the minority in the industry (only 1.8 percent of all auto repair professionals in the US are women) affect the way she demonstrates her expertise in servicing cars to her customers. Plus, now that she owns her own shop, she can call the shots. “I definitely felt underappreciated at my previous job, and I don’t think I made enough for what I did. Now I can decide how much I get paid — my husband and I both own the shop and we both make the same amount,” Sjostrom says. It’s important to her to simply normalize women working in trades like auto repair, and for this reason, she brings her one-year-old daughter to work with her. “I want women to know they can do this, starting with my own daughter. This is why I bring her to the shop and let her see her mom getting her hands dirty changing oil, rotating tires, and jacking up cars,” she says.

6. Woodworking: Best friends Krista Back and Amy Wall, and co-founders of BuilderChicks in Washington, DC left their full-time jobs in 2016 to start up a custom furniture and small renovation business. After side hustling as handywomen in their community for a long time, they wanted to make a big statement with the name BuilderChicks. “We want people to know right off the bat when they hire us that they are hiring women to do this. I have spent basically my whole life proving myself, so I think it’s a badge of honor for me. When I say we are BuilderChicks, that is something I am super proud of,” Wall says. Their next endeavor is to get more women in their area on board with building and fixing things as well as having their own businesses. “We’re starting an internship for high school girls who want to learn more about becoming a builder and a small business owner,” Wall explains. “Even if they don’t end up being one, we are arming them with life skills they can use well after the internship is over.” Back echoes the sentiment of creating an apprenticeship to inspire other women: “It would be awesome for us to be able to give back, pour into the lives of young girls and women, and really help them set up a future they want.”

7. Butchery: Melissa Cortina started her company, Bavette Meat & Provisions in Pasadena, California after training under a James Beard Award-winning chef and realizing her community needed a source of quality meat that’s raised and treated humanely throughout the butchery process. She works with one other butcher, who also happens to be a woman, a few days a week, but many days she handles the tasks of the entire business on her own: from meeting with ranchers, to making dog treats or bone broth from the provisions, to handling the brand’s social media, and even mopping the floors and taking out the trash. Cortina is used to brushing off customers’ occasional confusion that she’s indeed the butcher and not the farmer’s market sales associate when she sells her products in the community, but overall, doesn’t feel the need to prove herself to anyone. “When I was younger, anyway, being a woman in the meat industry felt like an act of defiance, but at this particular moment in time, I think there are more opportunities for women than ever,” Cortina says. She belongs to an organization for women in the meat industry, but the key for eliminating any remnants of the gender gap is visibility of her story and the way she runs her business. In fact, she adds, “I try really hard not to call myself a ‘female butcher’ at all. I prefer to be just a butcher, a good butcher. That’s my act of defiance now, and it’s quite intentional.”

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Last year, some of us celebrated the holidays apart from our families for the first time. COVID has brought with it many changes, some of them arguably positive (like increased flexibility to work from home), some difficult (such as the realization of vastly different political and social views between family and friends), and some horrible (obviously, the health implications of a global pandemic). However, for some of us, celebrating the holidays without family members isn't exclusively due to COVID. In addition to so many of us living in different areas than our families of origin, some of us simply don't have close bonds with the people we grew up around. Sometimes, this can cause loneliness.

If you're not close with your family members, the holidays can be a difficult time. This is doubly true if you don't have a close circle of friends to call upon. But make no mistake, if this sounds like your situation, you're not alone — there are thousands of other people going through the same struggles you are. We sat down with Irad Eichler, founder of Circles, a website that connects people who are sharing similar struggles, like heartbreak, grief, or loneliness. Here are some of Eichler's tips for coping — and even thriving! — during the holiday season when you're not planning on spending it with your family, for one reason or another.

Don't Fall For "Perfect Families" On Social Media

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The first VERY important step to having a joyous holiday season when you're going it alone is to stop believing the narrative that others' family situations are perfect, Eichler says.

"Remember people only post a moment in time, and only the moments when they look their happiest and best."

In addition to the fact that everything you see on social media is curated for the 'gram, it's also important to remember that by focusing on what others have and you lack, you risk failing to see the great things at play in your own life.

"These holiday periods can become a time of focusing on who and what we don't have, rather than who or what we do, and can cause a negative spiral into depressing and dreadful feelings of inadequacy," says Eichler.

Gratitude is the reason for the season, after all. So instead of only seeing the negative, try some gratitude journal prompts to help you focus on what's actually really wonderful about your life right now.

Make An Effort To Deepen New Connections

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While it may seem like everyone has friends and family to spend time with during the holiday season, that doesn't mean no one is available for deepening a blossoming relationship or new friendship.

"Make a list of people you can or would like to connect with, and try to reach out to at least one of them," advises Eichler.

Reaching out doesn't have to mean a big plan or an hour-long conversation. Even a quick text letting a friendly coworker know you're thinking about them can go a long way toward deepening the relationship and moving it in the direction of closer friendship.

Don't have an acquaintance in mind? Then it's time to make new acquaintances. What's more in line with the Christmas spirit than attending a Meetup or event full of people eager to make new friends?

"Join groups with similar interests to yours, such as hiking, baking, or games. Push your boundaries and be brave - you might find new people who have much in common with you."

Give Back

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The holiday season is a great time to focus on giving back to your community, and coincidentally, acts of generosity and kindness are known to reduce loneliness and help people feel happier. One study found that knowing a few of your neighbors and doing small acts of kindness for them — such as cheering them up, listening to them, mowing their lawn, providing advice about local business recommendations and job opportunities, and chatting over the fence — was statistically correlated with feeling less lonely and having a lower risk of depression.

Helping out elderly neighbors can be a particularly gratifying way to give back.

"Notice older lonely people in your neighborhood or community who might have no family at all, and offer to help them," says Eichler. "These can become mutually meaningful connections, and help you 'adopt' a grandparent."

Connect With Others Online

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Finally, use the Internet for its highest and best purpose: to connect people. Whether you're using Meetup to find in-person events, digital forums for having conversations about special interests, or programs like Circle for getting support from others in your situation, the opportunities to create new connections are practically endless.

"There are many interest groups that can be found digitally, where or any person can connect with others in the same life stage, going through the same challenges, or who would like to explore the same interests," Eichler states. "Meaningful connections can be formed easily in these circumstances. The Internet enables us to find and connect to people all over the world who fit this, and to whom we can become more easily attached, as we are able to find people with the exact interests that energize us."

If you're struggling with loneliness, you're not alone. Connect with our digital community of makers and creatives here at Brit+Co by following us on IG and signing up for our newsletter!

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Zach Bryan and Brianna "Chickenfry" LaPaglia's explosive breakup is everywhere right now. From his seemingly one-sided social media posts to all the bombshell revelations she keeps dropping, it's clear this split is NOT amicable. Both parties are dropping tons of lore, info, and everything in between — including new music?! — right now, so it makes sense if you can't keep up. Luckily, I'm here to help break this breakup down for you! Here's everything you need to know about Zach Bryan and Brianna Chickenfry's relationship...or lack thereof.

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October 22, 2024 – Zach Bryan Announces His Breakup With Brianna Chickenfry

On October 22, 2024, after some recent speculation that Zach Bryan and Brianna Chickenfry split up, Zach took to his Instagram stories. The country star said, "Addressing something: Brianna and me have broken up with [each other] and I respect and love her with every ounce of my heart. She has loved me unconditionally for a very long time and for that I'll always thank her."

He continued, noting, "I have had an incredibly hard year personally and struggled through some pretty severe things. I thought it would be beneficial for both of us to go our different ways. I am not perfect and never will be. Please respect Brianna's privacy and space in this and if you have it in your heart, mine too."

To wrap it all up, he closed by apologizing to his fans. He said, "With everything I am and to anyone I let down, I am sorry. I try my best in everything. I failed people that love me and mostly myself."

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Brianna hopped on her own Instagram stories shortly there after. She posted, "Hey guys I'm feeling really blindsided right now. Gonna hop off social media for a while and attempt to heal privately, when I'm ready I'll be back and ready to talk. I love you guys so much thank you for all of your kind words. Remember you are so loved and everything's always gonna be okay 🫶"

The Brianna got on Youtube next, posting a raw, emotional video about the situation. Sitting on the floor of her bathroom, she opened up as much as she could in the moment about her breakup. She said, "I just woke up to Zach posting on his Instagram that we broke up and I had no idea that post was going up. He didn't text me, he didn't call me. I just woke up to a bunch of texts, like, 'Are you okay?'"

Brianna, with her teary eyes and red face, explained she's been crying for "five days straight." She said, "I'm at the point where it's like, how can you give someone everything and love them so unconditionally, like through stuff that you shouldn't because you just love them and you want them... like you see the good in them?"

The internet personality said that this is all "so embarrassing" and "really, really heartbreaking." She elaborated that the couple broke up on October 21, but wanted to process on her own and "didn't want it to be public."

Much like her Instagram story, she told her audience that she'll come back when she's ready.

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November 7, 2024 — Brianna Claims Zach's Emotionally Abusive, Wanted $12Mil NDA

Well, it appears this week, Brianna decided she's ready. On Barstool Sports' BFF's Pod November 7, 2024, Brianna gave an inside look at the breakup unlike any other. Not only did she claim Zach was abusive, but she also alleged that he offered her a $12 million NDA to "not talk about the relationship."

After saying it's been the hardest year of her life, she said. "I'm still scared right now because I'm scared of him. My brain's rewired and I'm scared to make him mad and last week, I didn't want to talk about it 'cause I was scared."

Brianna then described the alleged emotional abuse. She noted that everything was cyclical and that he would build her up only to break her back down again. "There was always another excuse as to why he was treating me so poorly and why I'm crying myself to sleep every night, why he's screaming at me," she said. "And then you wake up, it's the apology, it's the 'I'm going to be better like I need you in my life,' but if you've been through this — I don't expect people to understand emotional abuse if you haven't been through it. I hope you never have to go through it but if you've been there you know what I'm talking about."

Not only does Brianna allege she was offered an NDA, but she said that other women that came before her had to sign their own agreements. She declined the offer because she didn't want to "sign away [her] experiences and what [she] went through to protect someone that hurt [her]." She also wanted to share this experience for other women who've suffered something similar.

And when it comes to the logistics of losing out on the famous lifestyle and alleged $12 million? She said, "It was never about the money — I was with the dude because I loved the dude."

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November 8, 2024 — Zach Quit Touring Amid Abuse Allegations

On November 8, 2024, Zach posted on Instagram — where he clearly loves to share all his big news — that not only is his new single "High Road" out today, but that he's also ending his tour early. Read his full statement here:

After not being home for a year and a half I drove out to my mothers gravestone in the dead of night a few days back on familiar Oklahoma roads and I came to realize just like in the past, that she never would call me again

Told her I quit touring because I got accepted to get my masters in Paris next year, I told her I was back in Oklahoma, told her about all my best friends in New York and all the nights we howled with the moon, told her about the immeasurable laughter my band and me have shared these last five years, all the calluses on my finger tips, every tear shed, told her about making it on The Rolling Stone and most importantly told her about porch swinging with my beautiful sister.
I wrote the chorus for this song a month or two back and finished it when I realized I was blessed with all these things.

I figured it was about time I released it.

Thank you guys for listening to ‘This Worlds a Giant’ last night and thank you to all the people who love me; who have truly carried the weight with me.

Seems that all these Quiet Dreams have gotten much too heavy but I’m home now and I’ll hold you through the pain.

High Road is out today and I appreciate all of you"

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