How To Manifest Love According To An Expert Astrologer & Manifestation Coach
We've read headlines of celebrities like Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly manifesting love into their lives in order to find their special someone. And, although the idea of manifesting someone can seem a little bit daunting, it’s actually not as hard as you may think. In order to bring about someone who speaks to our hearts and meets our needs, it’s important to set intentions that help us find our own self-worth, confidence, and allow us to understand what we want from relationships. Therefore, we can bring in the type of partnership that we yearn for on the soulful level.
These simple steps will allow you to bring the love that you want into your life. More importantly, it will help us boost the love that we have for ourselves. After all, we cannot love anyone else, until we love ourselves the most.
The first step in manifestation is to set the proper intention. This means coming to terms with what you want to bring to fruition. For example, if you are looking to find a partner who is at your level, you would ask the universe to bring someone and with whom you can share your life with. The caveat to fighting a letter of intention is to tell the universe concisely what you desire. It’s necessary to be as specific as possible. So, you wouldn’t just say that you were looking for a partner who was at your level, you would give specifics like the type of personality they have and what you want the relationship to be like.
Once you write your letter of intention to the universe, you can set it underneath a bowl that is filled with water. Take a pink candle on a Friday, which is Venus‘s day, and light it. The reason why we do this ritual on Friday is to call in Venus, who is the goddess of love. Friday is her day and since we need her energy to add power to the intention— it’s the perfect time to do so. It is advisable to do this every Friday.
Now, you can start journaling and meditating on your desires. Keep track of the progress that is happening in your life in order to make adjustments when necessary to keep the energy and the vibe coming and flowing in your orb. It also allows you to ask the universe for what you want, quietly and on your terms. Journaling will help you assess and discuss why it is working and isn’t working in your manifestation aspirations. Journaling is also important because it allows you to change things, which often happens during manifestation and the intention setting because we aren’t clear or concise in the beginning and want to make tweaks down the road.
Manifestation Tips For Self-Love and Romantic Love
Personally, I like to state affirmations in the mirror every morning before I go to work and in the evening before I go to sleep. The reason being is because I believe that if we are feeling good about ourselves, then we are able to attract greatness and amazing people into our lives. People want to be around people who are fabulous, which is why stating affirmations about how wonderful we are can help us on the daily.
Surrounding yourself with positive people is always important during any type of manifestation. The reason being is because you don’t want people around who are holding you back and making you feel as if you're less than. When you are doing any type of magical practice, you want to surround yourself with positive-minded people who are on your side and in your corner at all times to ensure you’re attracting the right vibes.
Doing nice things for yourself is really important when you're manifesting love. Treat yourself to a bath or massage in order to allow yourself to implement self-care. This can help you cleanse your aura and detox a lot of the stress in your life, which will help you bring in the type of energy that you are looking for.
Unfortunately, the right person isn’t going to appear at our doorstep, which is why it’s important for us to take action. If you’re looking for love and are doing all of the above regularly, then go on a dating app, hire a matchmaker, or ask your friends to set you up on a blind date. The more you put yourself out there, the easier it will be to find the person that you are looking for. Keep in mind that you may kiss a bunch of frogs before you find your ideal person. Be patient with yourself and have high standards that align with your intention that you set. Before you know it, the right person will appear.
Lisa Stardust is a best-selling author and astrologer. Her new book, The Love Deck, is available everywhere books are sold.