5 Tips For Tackling Wedding Season Solo

Tip 1: Smile + Change The Subject

Even though the last thing single people want to talk about at a wedding is why they're single, you will doubtlessly get at least one comment about it. Don't let it get under your skin.

"There is no shame in proudly attending a wedding without a date, so don’t allow old fashioned mindsets to get you down," Sullivan says.

Take a deep breath, smile, and try to change the topic to something you'd rather talk about, like your career or the last book you read.

Tip 2: Relax

Even though you may think of a wedding as a date function, there will be more single guests than you expect. Knowing that you're not alone can help you have a better time.

"In many cases, some singles even feel as though attending alone allowed them to have an even better time at the wedding," Sullivan says.

Not only will you be able to make spontaneous decisions, but you also won't have to entertain someone who doesn't know the other guests!

Tip 3: Look For Other Solo People

Considering there are more solo guests than you might anticipate, keep an eye out for them. They might be feeling awkward too!

"Weddings can be a fantastic place to meet new people," Sullivan says. "Keep an open mind to starting new connections or relationships."

Not only does hanging out with other single people your age mean you have someone to hang out with all night, but you might just walk away with a new friend.

Tip 4: Hang Out With The Other Bridesmaids + Groomsmen

One of the most fun experiences I've had as part of a wedding was when the bride and groom had all of the bridesmaids and groomsmen hang out all weekend. We went to the beach, played mini golf, and played video games. By the time the wedding came around, we knew each other so well that I was a lot less nervous than I'd been beforehand. Plus, it was way more fun to dance with everyone than by myself!

Tip 5: Stay Positive

We know that attending a wedding solo isn't the easiest thing in the world, but the way that you act when you're there will make or break your experience. Weddings are all about love and having a good time, and getting into a funk will definitely keep you from having a good time.

"It is important to remember why you’re there in the first place - to celebrate the love of your friends or family members that are getting married," Sullivan says.