How Much Should You Really Spend On A Wedding Gift? — And Other Etiquette Rules

Deciding the Budget

Relationship with the couple: The amount you spend on a gift can depend on how close you are to the couple. If they are family members or close friends, you may want to consider spending more on a gift.

Personal financial situation: It's important to be realistic about your personal finances and not overspend on a gift. Consider your own budget and financial responsibilities before deciding on a gift.

The wedding location and type of celebration: The location and type of wedding can also influence your gift budget. A destination wedding or black-tie event may warrant a more expensive gift, while a casual backyard wedding may call for a less expensive gift.

The couple's registry: Check if the couple has a wedding registry, as this can give you an idea of the types of gifts they would like and the price range.

Cultural or regional norms: Cultural or regional norms may also impact how much you spend on a wedding gift. For example, in some cultures, cash gifts are expected, while in others, a physical gift is preferred.

Wedding Gift Ideas

When choosing a wedding gift, it's important to consider the couple's interests, lifestyle, and needs. A thoughtful and personalized gift is always appreciated, regardless of its cost. Here are some creative and affordable wedding gift ideas to help you if you're in a pinch.

Wedding Venue Portrait ($41)

A bespoke wedding venue portrait is a unique and thoughtful gift that captures the special memories of the big day.

Custom Engraved Brass Decision Coin ($20)

A unique and practical gift for all those couples that know the importance of compromise in marriage!

Pure White Matte Ceramic Vases ($18 - $125)

The pure white ceramic vase collection from West Elm adds an elegant touch to any room.

Antropologie Grecian Bust Pot ($28.00 – $31, was $44)

Perfect wedding gift for artsy couples that would make for a stunning addition to any home decor collection.

Money gift for the wedding with a bouquet of dried flowers ($29)

This cleverly designed money gift for weddings features a decorative envelope and card. Proof that giving money can be esthetic and creative as well!

Custom Wedding Mug Gift ($19, was $24)

This personalized wedding mug is a great gift to warm up the couple’s mornings with a heartfelt message and a warm beverage. The elegant design and high-quality materials make it a timeless keepsake that will be treasured for years to come.

Modern Acacia Wood Serveware Collection ($185)

Modern wood serveware collection from West Elm makes for a stylish and practical wedding gift, perfect for those who love to entertain and appreciate unique, natural design elements in their home.

Reflections Matelasse Quilt & Shams ($180)

Matelassé quilt and sham set offers a cozy and sophisticated addition to any couple's bedroom, providing both style and comfort for a good night's sleep.

Archie Glass Dinnerware Collection ($60)

The textured glass used for this tableware is influenced by the Gothic architecture discovered in the western Sardinian town of Alghero, creating a visually striking appearance. Moreover, the glass is sturdy and can be easily cleaned in a dishwasher, making it a practical choice.

Personalized Bronze Clock ($58, was $83)

This customizable bronze clock makes for a thoughtful gift with its ability to feature personalized text and dates, and its elegant yet understated design that suits any décor. Plus, it runs on a silent mechanism, ensuring a peaceful and uninterrupted night's sleep.

Wedding Etiquette Rules

1. RSVP promptly: If you are invited to a wedding, respond to the invitation as soon as possible. The couple needs to know how many guests to expect and how many meals to order.
2. Dress appropriately: Check the wedding invitation for the dress code and dress appropriately. If there is no dress code specified, ask the couple what they prefer.
   
3. Respect the wedding ceremony: During the ceremony, be quiet, attentive, and respectful. Turn off your phone and refrain from taking pictures or videos unless the couple has given permission.
4. Don't bring uninvited guests: Don't assume that you can bring a guest unless the invitation specifically says "and guest." If you're unsure, ask the couple.
5. Don't arrive late: Plan to arrive at the wedding ceremony at least 10-15 minutes early. If you're running late, wait until an appropriate time to enter, such as during a hymn or after the processional.
6. Be mindful of cultural traditions: If the wedding includes cultural traditions that are unfamiliar to you, take the time to learn about them and respect them.