How to Take a Guilt-Free Mental Health Day Even When You’re Self-Employed

Practicing self-care comes in many forms, including eating well, getting the right amount of exercise and sleep, spending time doing things that make you feel happy and mindful, keeping a good work-life balance, and, of course, taking care of yourself when you feel sick. Phew! Though it makes perfect sense to ditch your job for the day when you feel physically awful, more leaders and companies have started to recognize that it’s also ultra-important to take time for rest when you’re feeling *mentally* fatigued too. (We totally applaud this viral email thread.) But what’s a hardworking, self-employed boss to do when there’s no one to cover for her during tough times?

I’m one of the nearly 41 million people in the US who currently freelance or work for themselves, and I’ve owned my own web production and content studio for nearly two years. Though I do my best to maintain a healthy headspace while working with a mix of clients on fast-moving projects, there have been a few instances where I’ve truly had to get offline and power down to re-group. I’ll be the first to admit that this is super tough to pull off when you run your own show — and the hours you work directly affect how much money you make — but sometimes there isn’t much of a choice. Since I don’t have paid sick time or personal days when I feel overwhelmed, need to process emotions, or have to handle personal stuff, I’ve had to figure out what to do when I need to ditch work for the day. Facing the same struggle? Here’s how to ease the guilt while keeping up with your business.

Divvy Up Your To-Dos

I have a never-ending checklist that stays in view during the entire duration of my day. I start each morning by looking at my list and calendar, and I wrap work by making sure I’ve checked off high-priority items before I close my computer. Since taking time away from work means items won’t get addressed, I do my best to avoid letting the days that follow become a total nightmare. Instead of stacking my leftover to-dos from my mental health day on to the next day’s list, I re-assess the group by priority and divvy the tasks up. Then, I add a few tasks to each of the next couple of days. This might mean I have to work an extra hour or two each day or spend a Saturday catching up, but it’s definitely worth being able to step away from a job when I need to. Even more, this manageable method has really helped make missing out on a full day of work feel way less overwhelming.

Communicate Clearly With Your Clients

In business, communication is key; this applies whether you work for someone else’s company or for yourself. Much like you’d need to email your manager and team when deciding to stay home for a mental health day, you should make it a point to check in with your clients and contractors *right away.* I find this is extra important if my day spent offline will interrupt scheduled calls and meetings or shift project timelines. I’ve also learned that being transparent and resetting expectations helps a ton, so I’m always sure to explain that I’m not feeling well and will be unavailable for the entire day.

If you feel uneasy, remember that people are just that — people — and that everyone experiences days when they don’t feel well. Your clients will understand and appreciate your honesty, along with knowing they have your full focus and best energy when you do work on their projects.

Relax and Recharge the Right Way

While taking a mental health day is a great way to practice self-care, there are right and wrong ways to do it. Though it might be tempting to lay around all day snacking on serotonin-boosting snacks, psychologists caution against any activity that doesn’t contribute to feelings of renewed energy. Instead of succumbing to the urge to park it on the sofa for the duration of your mental health day, try one of the following ideas to get your vigor back.

1. Get some fresh air. Take a walk around the block or head to the closest park for some feel-good fresh air. Nature is a proven mood-booster, and scoring a vitamin D fix from the sun will also help you feel better.

2. Squeeze in a workout. This might be the last thing you want to do (especially if you’re tired or burnt out), but endorphins pack a powerful punch when it comes to raising your energy levels. 20-30 minutes of moderate activity is all you need!

3. Spend some QT with someone you love. Home for the day? Make it a point to see a friend or family member for lunch. If everyone’s booked solid, pick up the phone and call someone you care about. You’ll get an instant gratitude fix remembering how much people adore you too.

4. Read or write. Get lost in a book, or write out the things that are causing you to feel overwhelmed, stressed, or upset.

5. Indulge in a creative hobby. Working for yourself can be all-consuming, which makes it hard to find time for the creative hobbies that light you up. Treat yourself to time spent doing your favorite thing, be it listening to or making music, painting, sewing, drawing, or something else.

A good mental health day should leave you with improved patience and fresh energy that makes coming back to whatever you’re working on much more inspiring. What a relief!

Are you self-employed? Tell us on Twitter @BritandCo how you take time away from working for yourself.

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You and your friends have likely spent countless hours together, decoding everything from imaginationships to the best comfort shows to watch when you're sad. You've probably even settled into a designated role within the group. Maybe you're the super adventurous one, always suggesting friend date ideas for the group to try, while someone else always knows how to comfort everyone when life gets rough. But, have you ever wondered if you're the most empathetic friend in the group? That's easy, just ask Brianna Paruolo, LCMCH. She's the founder and clinical director of On Par Therapyso she knows how to recognize signs you're an empath, plus how to take care of yourself!

TL;DR

  • Empathy is when "you feel what others are feeling."
  • There are physical, emotional, social, and mental signs that you're an empath.
  • You may be an empath if you get physically exhausted after being in crowds, feel anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments, feel responsible for other people's happiness, or you find it hard to distinguish your own feelings from someone else's.

Are there really assigned roles in friend groups or am I just imagining things?

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Like I said before, it can seem like you and your friends unintentionally gravitate toward certain 'roles.' It's not like anyone woke up one day and decided, "I'm going to be the 'mother hen' of the group," but it tends to happen. Why?

Paruolo says, "In my clinical work, I've consistently observed that our friendship roles often mirror our early family dynamics. These patterns show up naturally — think about who in your friend group gets the first crisis call, who plans all the gatherings, or who everyone turns to for emotional support." I'm willing to bet you thought of a name for each scenario — including yours — because I know I did!

"Like in families, we each fall into specific roles that feel familiar to us," Paruolo further explains.

What actually makes someone an empathetic person?

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There's so many definitions for empathy, but I thought it would be wise to ask a licensed professional for her opinion on the matter. "Empathy means to feel what others are feeling. You do not have to have a personal direct experience with something to feel empathy for another person," shares Paruolo.

For example, your friend could call to tell you she has to have fibroid removal surgery and is feeling scared. You may have never had surgery, but you could find yourself feeling the need to comfort her in spite of this. Paruolo says, "The cool thing about our brains is that we have mirror neurons, which means part of our brain is set up to feel what others feel. The ability to attune to others' emotional states comes naturally to some people, while others may need to develop this capacity more consciously."

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To break it down even further, here's signs that Paruolo says point to your empathetic nature.

Physical Signs:

  • Getting physically exhausted after being in crowds
  • Feeling drained after social interactions, even enjoyable ones (OMG I feel so seen!)
  • Needing extra time alone to recharge

Emotional Signs:

  • Absorbing other people's emotions like a sponge
  • Feeling anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments
  • Finding it hard to watch violence or cruelty in movies/TV

Social Signs:

  • Feeling responsible for others' happiness
  • Having trouble saying "no" to people who need help

Mental Signs:

  • Picking up on subtle changes in others' moods
  • Being highly attuned to body language and tone
  • Finding it hard to distinguish your feelings from others' feelings

It sounds like I'm the empathetic friend, but are there any downsides to this?

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I've been an empath for as long as I can remember and I've found that I have to 'recharge' my social batteries at times. I thought it was because I was trying to be superwoman by fixing others' problems, but it turns out theres more to it than that. Paruolo says, "Empathetic friends and people have an uncanny ability to sense others' emotional states even when unspoken, and frequently need recovery time after intense social interactions. They tend to be deeply affected by others' experiences and naturally consider situations from multiple perspectives."

In the long run, she says it can be "distressing" for some people to always feel the feelings of others. Over time, she says, "it can cause you to shut down and retract." This can look like not being as quick to respond to the funny memes your friends send you or not even answering their phone calls right away.

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But, this doesn't mean you're the only person who tends to go through this. "Many empaths struggle with maintaining boundaries due to their deep emotional attunement," she says. Color me guilty because this sounds so much like me. It got so bad at one point that my sister nicknamed me 'Captain Save-A-Lot,' which is actually the clean version of what she truly meant. Still, empathy fatigue is no laughing matter nor does it mean you're defected. You just have the natural ability to show people their feelings are important to you.

How can I protect my peace as the empathetic friend?

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You know you need to set boundaries, but what does that mean? Paruolo says, "The key is understanding that empathy needs to be balanced with compassion - it's not just about feeling others' emotions but also knowing how to help without depleting yourself."

One of the things she loves to do is "encourage empaths to set clear boundaries around their emotional availability and make time for regular grounding exercises." As with gratitude journaling, try to focus on an activity that calls for you to be present. Focus on what you can hear, see, touch, taste, and smell.

"Self-care isn't just a luxury; it's essential maintenance for empaths. This might mean scheduling alone time, finding a supportive therapist, or joining communities where you can process your experiences," Paruolo implores.

I know how to be there for others, but how do I ask for emotional support when I need it?

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You may feel like it's impossible to ask others for help since your shoulders are the ones people cry on, but you're only doing yourself a disservice by not speaking up. No one's super resilient or able to handle all of their distressing feelings alone. We're not meant to.

It's the reason Paruolo wants you to speak up about what you need. "The most effective approach I've seen is being direct about your needs rather than hoping others will figure them out," she says. I made this mistake during postpartum and found myself expecting my family & friends to know exactly how I felt, but they're not mind readers. The more I verbally asked for help with little or big tasks, the more my mental and emotional load lightened.

Paruolo wants you to look at "asking for support as strengthening your friendships through trust and vulnerability, instead of waiting until you're overwhelmed." By the time you reach that point, you'll be ready to enter rage or full-blown shut down mode and they're not fun.

Avoid unlocking their proverbial doors by scheduling "regular check-ins with trusted friends," suggests Paruolo. "This creates a sustainable support system and helps prevent emotional crisis points.

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Last year, some of us celebrated the holidays apart from our families for the first time. COVID has brought with it many changes, some of them arguably positive (like increased flexibility to work from home), some difficult (such as the realization of vastly different political and social views between family and friends), and some horrible (obviously, the health implications of a global pandemic). However, for some of us, celebrating the holidays without family members isn't exclusively due to COVID. In addition to so many of us living in different areas than our families of origin, some of us simply don't have close bonds with the people we grew up around. Sometimes, this can cause loneliness.

If you're not close with your family members, the holidays can be a difficult time. This is doubly true if you don't have a close circle of friends to call upon. But make no mistake, if this sounds like your situation, you're not alone — there are thousands of other people going through the same struggles you are. We sat down with Irad Eichler, founder of Circles, a website that connects people who are sharing similar struggles, like heartbreak, grief, or loneliness. Here are some of Eichler's tips for coping — and even thriving! — during the holiday season when you're not planning on spending it with your family, for one reason or another.

Don't Fall For "Perfect Families" On Social Media

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The first VERY important step to having a joyous holiday season when you're going it alone is to stop believing the narrative that others' family situations are perfect, Eichler says.

"Remember people only post a moment in time, and only the moments when they look their happiest and best."

In addition to the fact that everything you see on social media is curated for the 'gram, it's also important to remember that by focusing on what others have and you lack, you risk failing to see the great things at play in your own life.

"These holiday periods can become a time of focusing on who and what we don't have, rather than who or what we do, and can cause a negative spiral into depressing and dreadful feelings of inadequacy," says Eichler.

Gratitude is the reason for the season, after all. So instead of only seeing the negative, try some gratitude journal prompts to help you focus on what's actually really wonderful about your life right now.

Make An Effort To Deepen New Connections

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While it may seem like everyone has friends and family to spend time with during the holiday season, that doesn't mean no one is available for deepening a blossoming relationship or new friendship.

"Make a list of people you can or would like to connect with, and try to reach out to at least one of them," advises Eichler.

Reaching out doesn't have to mean a big plan or an hour-long conversation. Even a quick text letting a friendly coworker know you're thinking about them can go a long way toward deepening the relationship and moving it in the direction of closer friendship.

Don't have an acquaintance in mind? Then it's time to make new acquaintances. What's more in line with the Christmas spirit than attending a Meetup or event full of people eager to make new friends?

"Join groups with similar interests to yours, such as hiking, baking, or games. Push your boundaries and be brave - you might find new people who have much in common with you."

Give Back

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The holiday season is a great time to focus on giving back to your community, and coincidentally, acts of generosity and kindness are known to reduce loneliness and help people feel happier. One study found that knowing a few of your neighbors and doing small acts of kindness for them — such as cheering them up, listening to them, mowing their lawn, providing advice about local business recommendations and job opportunities, and chatting over the fence — was statistically correlated with feeling less lonely and having a lower risk of depression.

Helping out elderly neighbors can be a particularly gratifying way to give back.

"Notice older lonely people in your neighborhood or community who might have no family at all, and offer to help them," says Eichler. "These can become mutually meaningful connections, and help you 'adopt' a grandparent."

Connect With Others Online

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Finally, use the Internet for its highest and best purpose: to connect people. Whether you're using Meetup to find in-person events, digital forums for having conversations about special interests, or programs like Circle for getting support from others in your situation, the opportunities to create new connections are practically endless.

"There are many interest groups that can be found digitally, where or any person can connect with others in the same life stage, going through the same challenges, or who would like to explore the same interests," Eichler states. "Meaningful connections can be formed easily in these circumstances. The Internet enables us to find and connect to people all over the world who fit this, and to whom we can become more easily attached, as we are able to find people with the exact interests that energize us."

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Lately, we've been faced with anxiety everywhere we turn. It's okay if (like us), you don't always know how to deal with the toughest of times, especially when the tough times never seem to end. If you are feeling that way, we're right there with you! Our team has always shared the ways we cope with our personal stressors over the years, and we wanna share these quick and easy tips for how to calm down with you! Keep reading for our recommendations — hopefully they can help the next time you're feeling anxious.

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Intentional Thoughts

I'm someone who has a hard time letting things go; I can agonize over one thought or situation for days! Because of this, I focus a lot on taking thoughts captive, which just means pinpointing anxious thoughts and replacing them with what I know is true.

When I have an anxious thought, I do a creative visualization exercise in which I imagine it's inside a bubble floating over my head. Then I slam an imaginary door over the memory and lock it. Then the bubble explodes and the thought doesn't exist anymore. It's not necessarily pretending like it never happened, but it does allow me to exercise some control over what I allow myself to spend time and energy thinking about.

—Choe Williams, Entertainment Editor

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Breathing Techniques

My mom is a Pre-K teacher and suggested I try the breathing exercises she does with her kids who are just four years old (I'm 31 for context). The first is called Mountain Breathing, which entails holding up your hand and tracing the outline of your fingers. As you climb up the mountain (or your finger), inhale, and as you trace down into the valley between your fingers, exhale. Another breathing visualization she recommends is as you inhale, imagine yourself breathing in to smell the flowers, and exhale to blow out a candle. These little imaginative scenarios help me get out of my head and focus on my breathing when I need a little reset throughout the day.

Hammock Swinging

Whenever I'm feeling super stressed, I head for the hammock I setup in my front yard. Just as rocking can soothe babies, swinging in a hammock is a powerful soother for adults too! I feel super chilled afterwards and am usually getting some Vitamin D while I'm at it for a win-win.

Painting

During the pandemic, I revisited arts and crafts with soft pastels. I started mixing the colors and doing gradient shadings on card stock with my hands, and it proved to be a super meditative way to decompress. The end result is DIY art you can share or pin on your fridge or wall.

—Alison Ives, Head Of Content

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Breathing Techniques

Nothing calms me down quite like alternate-nostril breathing. I first learned about this technique in my yoga classes, but the practice (called Nadi Shodhana in Sanskrit) dates back to the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, which was thought to be written sometime between 200 BC and 200 CE. Put simply, you sit in a comfortable position, close your eyes, and cover one nostril while you breathe in through the other. Then, you switch which nostril you're holding closed, and breathe out. In modern times, the connection between vagal nerve tone (which is correlated with anxiety and emotional regulation) and alternate-nostril breathing is becoming more and more mainstream, which may eventually help us better understand why this practice is so naturally calming.

Tarot Reading

Tarot can mean a lot of different things to different people. For me, I use tarot cards as a method to help me understand what lessons I'm learning at any given time. This has allowed me to view stressors in my life as learning experiences, which has helped me stay calm in numerous crises. I personally like to light some incense or a scented candle, sit quietly, and pull a card to see what resonates. That said, tarot and its associated images and meanings can be scary or triggering if you don't have a deep and gentle understanding of what the cards mean. I recommend Lindsay Mack's classes and podcasts for anyone who wants to learn about tarot in a non-judgemental, non-predictive, trauma-informed way.

—Maggie McCracken, Former Senior Editor

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Sensory Accessories

My recent ways of coping/de-stressing have primarily been spiky sensory finger rings, which are a huge help when I need to get something done and can't stop my day to destress. I grab one of these guys which I have all over the place (most of my jacket pockets + purses), and it helps to calm me down and reset my focus.

Meditation On The Move

Another thing I do that I am trying to integrate into my daily routine is guided meditation walks. As someone who hasn't mastered sitting meditation I've found some on Headspace that I'm enjoying that are specifically for going on a walk through a city.

—Claire Shadomy, Former Graphic Designer

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Baths...

In times of high stress, or after a long day, my go-to is always a candle-lit bath soak. I put a large scoop of Epsom salts in the tub with a few drops of my favorite essential oil and place tea lights all around the tub. It’s like my secret getaway from the rest of the world. I always make a point to leave my phone in the other room too so I utilize the time to just relax in silence. Water triggers the parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for the body's “rest and digest” response. It always gets my heart rate and blood pressure down.

...And Sound Baths

Sound baths are a meditative experience where you’re “bathed” in sound waves. I love to watch them online but you can also create your own experience. I find meditating with a singing bowl so relaxing. It can take a little practice, but once you’ve nailed the hand movement, it’s an interactive way to ease stress and channel your focus elsewhere.

—Allison Cimo, Former Social Media Manager

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Take A Hike

Pretty much every day in 2020 I walked the trails near my house and I started to pick up a small rock each time. I'd fidget with it while I cleared my mind and let nature calm my nerves. I would throw the rock back into nature after my hike and it felt like a release for all of my worries.

Bedtime Music

My daughter and I listen to Doze sleep music on Headspace before we go to bed. It calms her late-night zoomies (and mine) and gets her to sleep in minutes!

—Theresa Gonzalez, Branded Content Editor

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Journaling

What I use for my anxiety is the Intelligent Change Five Minute Journal. I have a safe word in place for when I feel myself spiraling or I'm not able to control my thoughts and breathing.

—Brittney Davis, Account Manager

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Zach Bryan and Brianna "Chickenfry" LaPaglia's explosive breakup is everywhere right now. From his seemingly one-sided social media posts to all the bombshell revelations she keeps dropping, it's clear this split is NOT amicable. Both parties are dropping tons of lore, info, and everything in between — including new music?! — right now, so it makes sense if you can't keep up. Luckily, I'm here to help break this breakup down for you! Here's everything you need to know about Zach Bryan and Brianna Chickenfry's relationship...or lack thereof.

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October 22, 2024 – Zach Bryan Announces His Breakup With Brianna Chickenfry

On October 22, 2024, after some recent speculation that Zach Bryan and Brianna Chickenfry split up, Zach took to his Instagram stories. The country star said, "Addressing something: Brianna and me have broken up with [each other] and I respect and love her with every ounce of my heart. She has loved me unconditionally for a very long time and for that I'll always thank her."

He continued, noting, "I have had an incredibly hard year personally and struggled through some pretty severe things. I thought it would be beneficial for both of us to go our different ways. I am not perfect and never will be. Please respect Brianna's privacy and space in this and if you have it in your heart, mine too."

To wrap it all up, he closed by apologizing to his fans. He said, "With everything I am and to anyone I let down, I am sorry. I try my best in everything. I failed people that love me and mostly myself."

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Brianna hopped on her own Instagram stories shortly there after. She posted, "Hey guys I'm feeling really blindsided right now. Gonna hop off social media for a while and attempt to heal privately, when I'm ready I'll be back and ready to talk. I love you guys so much thank you for all of your kind words. Remember you are so loved and everything's always gonna be okay 🫶"

The Brianna got on Youtube next, posting a raw, emotional video about the situation. Sitting on the floor of her bathroom, she opened up as much as she could in the moment about her breakup. She said, "I just woke up to Zach posting on his Instagram that we broke up and I had no idea that post was going up. He didn't text me, he didn't call me. I just woke up to a bunch of texts, like, 'Are you okay?'"

Brianna, with her teary eyes and red face, explained she's been crying for "five days straight." She said, "I'm at the point where it's like, how can you give someone everything and love them so unconditionally, like through stuff that you shouldn't because you just love them and you want them... like you see the good in them?"

The internet personality said that this is all "so embarrassing" and "really, really heartbreaking." She elaborated that the couple broke up on October 21, but wanted to process on her own and "didn't want it to be public."

Much like her Instagram story, she told her audience that she'll come back when she's ready.

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November 7, 2024 — Brianna Claims Zach's Emotionally Abusive, Wanted $12Mil NDA

Well, it appears this week, Brianna decided she's ready. On Barstool Sports' BFF's Pod November 7, 2024, Brianna gave an inside look at the breakup unlike any other. Not only did she claim Zach was abusive, but she also alleged that he offered her a $12 million NDA to "not talk about the relationship."

After saying it's been the hardest year of her life, she said. "I'm still scared right now because I'm scared of him. My brain's rewired and I'm scared to make him mad and last week, I didn't want to talk about it 'cause I was scared."

Brianna then described the alleged emotional abuse. She noted that everything was cyclical and that he would build her up only to break her back down again. "There was always another excuse as to why he was treating me so poorly and why I'm crying myself to sleep every night, why he's screaming at me," she said. "And then you wake up, it's the apology, it's the 'I'm going to be better like I need you in my life,' but if you've been through this — I don't expect people to understand emotional abuse if you haven't been through it. I hope you never have to go through it but if you've been there you know what I'm talking about."

Not only does Brianna allege she was offered an NDA, but she said that other women that came before her had to sign their own agreements. She declined the offer because she didn't want to "sign away [her] experiences and what [she] went through to protect someone that hurt [her]." She also wanted to share this experience for other women who've suffered something similar.

And when it comes to the logistics of losing out on the famous lifestyle and alleged $12 million? She said, "It was never about the money — I was with the dude because I loved the dude."

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November 8, 2024 — Zach Quit Touring Amid Abuse Allegations

On November 8, 2024, Zach posted on Instagram — where he clearly loves to share all his big news — that not only is his new single "High Road" out today, but that he's also ending his tour early. Read his full statement here:

After not being home for a year and a half I drove out to my mothers gravestone in the dead of night a few days back on familiar Oklahoma roads and I came to realize just like in the past, that she never would call me again

Told her I quit touring because I got accepted to get my masters in Paris next year, I told her I was back in Oklahoma, told her about all my best friends in New York and all the nights we howled with the moon, told her about the immeasurable laughter my band and me have shared these last five years, all the calluses on my finger tips, every tear shed, told her about making it on The Rolling Stone and most importantly told her about porch swinging with my beautiful sister.
I wrote the chorus for this song a month or two back and finished it when I realized I was blessed with all these things.

I figured it was about time I released it.

Thank you guys for listening to ‘This Worlds a Giant’ last night and thank you to all the people who love me; who have truly carried the weight with me.

Seems that all these Quiet Dreams have gotten much too heavy but I’m home now and I’ll hold you through the pain.

High Road is out today and I appreciate all of you"

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This Lip Balm Responds to Your Skin's pH

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pH makeup like this great lip balm is all the rage right now! The lip balm reacts to your skin's pH to turn just the right shade for your lips. That means no more hunting for that elusive color that just perfectly matches your skin tone. We all waste too much time on that hunt, and for no reason now that this lip balm exists.

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This Curling Headband Seems Too Good To Be True

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Take your beauty sleep to staggering new heights with this curling headband. It helps you create heatless curls with hardly any effort on your part, and the finished result will leave you speechless. Don't believe us? Take a peek at a few photos from the over 1,000 perfect five-star reviews to see what this thing is capable of.

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This Body Scrub Will Make You Irresistable

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With a delicious coconut vanilla scent, this body scrub ensures you'll be especially intoxicating to everyone around you. Made with nutrient-rich plant-based ingredients like aloe vera, avocado oil, and argan oil, this exfoliating scrub will make you want to break out those spaghetti straps to show off your new baby-soft skin.

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Look No Further - Straight Leg Pants Are Here For The Office.

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If you're looking for an office-appropriate option that still feels like your favorite pair of leggings, then Straight Leg Pants are your answer. With lightweight, breathable fabric, plus a stretch that's out of this world, these pants will hug your waist and do a little bit of tummy control, too. Get ready to look your best while still feeling comfortable - Straight Leg Pants are the perfect choice for the workplace.

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A Luminizing Gel for an All-Over Glow

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This lightweight luminizer can be worn alone or with your favorite tinted SPF or foundation. Apply it to your chest, collarbones, shoulders, or legs for all-over radiance. Formulated with vitamin C and rosehip oil, it visibly brightens and moisturizes while giving you an instant glow.

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Get Ready for the Perfect Nude Lip Color

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Everyone's been talking about this Pillowtalk Lip Color and it's easy to see why. This pinky nude blush tone is the perfect addition to any holiday haul and the mini kit is the perfect size for a first-time purchase. Don't miss out on this must-have beauty essential.

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A Perfume That'll Make Everyone Obsessed With You

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TikTokers claimed that this scent caused strangers to stop them on the street and ask what perfume they were wearing, in a video that currently has over a million likes. This warm, musky perfume smells unique on everyone — try it for yourself and see what the scent develops into with your specific skin pH.

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You've Got to Have This Romper

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This super baggy romper has a built-in undershirt so you can be comfortable and fashionable without worrying about how you're going to layer to avoid showing the entire world your chest. It's an essential summer piece that would look just as good at a concert on the grass as it would at a brunch with your faves.

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Glow Drops That Add Subtle Shimmer

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With the Versed bronzing drops, your mom can achieve that dewy, glowing look even on the days she's not feeling so glowy. These drops offer a subtle shimmer and a beautiful, bright base that looks great alone or under makeup.

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An Extra Large Storage Basket That Doubles As A Hamper

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Clutter be gone! TikTok users are obsessed with this extra-large storage basket for its ability to create additional storage around your home. Made of 100% hypoallergenic cotton, this cute colorblock design is perfect for storing throw blankets, pillows, children's toys, and even spare wires, plugs, and gaming accessories.

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A Reading Light That Won't Keep Your Partner Up

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We've read before bed for as long as we can remember, and this LED reading light is a great way to meet your reading goals without disturbing your partner's sleep routine. A single charge gets you up to 80 hours of light, and it's equipped with a blue light filter to make it easier on your eyes. It has three color temperatures and six brightness levels, so it's easy to customize to your liking.

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Linen Palazzo Pants

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Choose these CHARTOU Drawstring Linen Palazzo Pant for a comfy but chic look. They are the perfect balance of style and comfort with a breezy wide-leg design, drawstring waist, and cotton-linen blend making them an ideal pick. Match with a loose top for a relaxed yet elegant look.

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A wine aerator that works so well, it'll turn your $3 bottom shelf wine taste like it was imported directly from a vineyard in France

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A lot of us like to pretend that we're connoisseurs when it comes to wine. We'll swirl it around in our glasses, take a sniff, and then make grandiose pronouncements about its "notes of oak" or "fruity undertones." But the truth is, most of us can't tell the difference between a $3 bottle of wine and a $300 bottle of wine. And the key to a quality transformation is to use a wine aerator. This gadget aerates your wine as you pour it, giving it a smoother taste and richer aroma. Just pop it onto your bottle and watch as your wine is transformed before your very eyes. Suddenly, that cheapo red you picked up at the grocery store will taste like it came from the finest vineyards in France. Bon appétit!

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TGGH Crystal Hair Eraser Painlessly Removes Hair While Exfoliating

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If you want to try something different, this TGGH Crystal Hair Eraser removes hair without the pain of waxing or epilating. Its nano glass technology exfoliates and gently removes hair when rubbed against your skin, and you don’t have to use any shaving foam at all! Plus, you’re less likely to get ingrown hairs with it.

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This Facial Exfoliant is An Amazon Top Seller

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With thousands of raving reviewers, it's hard to argue with the fact that this Facial Exfoliant is one of the hottest beauty products Amazon has to offer. This skin care product unclogs and diminishes enlarged pores, exfoliates dead skin cells, smooths wrinkles, and brightens and even out your skin tone. It's gentle enough for daily use on all skin types and specifically designed to combat redness, wrinkles, aging, enlarged pores, and blackheads.

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The Fuzziest Rug That Will Make Any Space In Your Home Cozy AF

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Rugs are essential to tie each room together and make them feel more cozy and inviting. This fuzzy rug has become a sensation on TikTok, especially perfect for bedrooms. With three different sizes and five styles to choose from, this rug is ultra-soft and won't shed despite its fluffy 1 1/2 inch pile. Plus, the bottom has an anti-slip grip, so it'll stay securely in place, keeping you safe and comfortable while adding some much-needed style to your space.

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Introducing Your New Go-To: Lounge Pants.

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Ready to up your style game while keeping comfort in mind? Look no further than these Lounge Pants. With a ruched waistband and baggy fit, these pants are the perfect balance of fashion and function. You'll never want to take them off.

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This Hyaluronic Acid Serum To Add To Your Skincare Routine

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Add some extra moisture to your skin with this Hyaluronic Acid Serum. It helps to intensely hydrate, moisturize and plump your skin to promote firmness and give your face a dewy look.

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These Glowing Rocks To Make Your Yard Look Magical

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Your yard will become the hottest spot in town with these glowing rocks that will make your neighbors green with envy. They soak up sunlight during the day and emit a calming blue glow all night long. Whether you use them as decorative accents or to create a mesmerizing path, these rocks are an affordable way to elevate your outdoor space. With 100 stones in each pack, you'll have enough to transform your yard into a magical wonderland.

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You'll Smell Heavenly With This Whole Body Deodorant

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Get a whiff of this: This body deodorant sampler will have you smelling downright addicting. Unfortunately odor isn't just confined to your armpits, so these heavenly creams are designed to make every part of you fresher than ever. From peony rose to clean tangerine to toasted coconut, you won't be able to get enough of these amazing scents. With 72 hour odor control and an invisible texture, this body deodorant stops the stink before it even happens, giving you that fresh feeling all day long.

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Celebs Have Been Using These Frownies Facial Patches for Decades

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These Frownies Facial Patches have one mission: to help people look younger and more relaxed. You slap a patch on horizontal lines on the forehead or vertical lines between the eyes (sometimes called elevens) or the corners of the eyes or mouth to address symptoms caused by aging. These patches work while you sleep to smooth and lift wrinkles and creases, leaving a smoother and softer appearance. Hollywood celebrities have used them for decades.

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A Classic Button-Down Blouse In A Breezy Linen Texture

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Elevate your style with this versatile button-down blouse that's perfect for any occasion, whether it's a casual brunch or a sophisticated cocktail hour. Made from a luxurious polyester spandex blend, it offers the organic texture of linen without sacrificing comfort. Dress it up or down, layer it with other pieces, and enjoy the soft fabric and impeccable stitching that will impress anyone. With a wide range of colors to choose from, including trendy options like pink and khaki, this blouse is a go-to TikTok viral find for fashion-forward individuals.

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This cooling blanket for hot sleepers

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Stay cool while you sleep with this cooling blanket that helps to regulate body temperature with moisture-wicking fabric that also speed up and circulates airflow at the same time.

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These Aromatherapy Shower Steamers Are So Refreshing

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Turn your shower into a spa with these aromatherapy steamers that help boost your mood while clearing congestion. The variety pack comes with 15 steamers in eucalyptus and mint scents.

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This Blackhead Remover Works In Seconds

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Pesky blackheads can't run your day when you have this Blackhead Remover that works to effortlessly extract dirt, oil, and impurities from your pores, leaving your skin feeling refreshed and rejuvenated. Its gentle yet powerful formula ensures a pain-free experience that isn't going to irritate your skin.

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This Lip Stain For All-Day Beauty

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There's no need to reapply your lipstick throughout the day when this Lip Stain will last all day and night. Once you apply it, the color sets and stays in place, even through eating, drinking, and all your daily activities. You'll be amazed at how long-lasting and smudge-proof it is, giving you a hassle-free lip color experience.

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Get A Banging Booty With These Sculpting Leggings

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JLo may have the time to sweat it in the gym every day, but if you want an easier way to achieve a bootylicious figure, these oh-so-affordable leggings will become your new favorite purchase. They have a tummy control design and even lift your butt.

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This Beach Cover Up Dress Is So Clever

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Many products can cause a sensation on social media but this beach cover up is so worth the hype. It can be thrown on in seconds and looks so great on a range of body types.

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These Lounge Shorts are Flowy Fun

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"Flowy fun" is the best way to describe these beautiful, wide leg linen shorts. You can never have too many shorts for the summer, honestly, and because these shorts are so breezy and comfortable, you know you're going to love them. You can get them in over thirty colors, and that means you're sure to find something you love!

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This Crossbody Bag Manages to Be Cute and Helpful

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It's not easy to find a crossbody bag that manages to be both helpful and also cute, but this one is just that! You can make the most of the tools at your disposal when your tools pull double-duty. It's got all the pockets and card holding slots that you need to keep all your important items right where you need them.

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Always Keep Some T-Shirts On Hand

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You definitely need some staples on hand while you're away from home, and this simple t-shirt works with almost anything from shorts, to leggings, to skirts. Grab it in a couple colors just in case.

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This Blush Stick With A Smooth, Creamy Texture

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With a creamy texture that easily blends into skin, it's no wonder that this blush stick is all the rage. You can also use it on your eyelids, as well as for some light color on your lips — it's that versatile. It's also infused with shea butter and vitamin E, both of which help hydrate skin so that it's left looking oh-so smooth.

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This Rice Water Spray Is Incredible For Hair Health And Growth

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You may have heard of the incredible benefits of rice water for your hair. Not only does it work to increase hair shine and strength, but it can also promote growth. This new spray has proved popular with customers due to its incredible smell and fantastic results. Some reviews say they saw results in less than a week.

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Smooth Complexion With This Saie Hydrabeam Concealer

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Finding a good concealer is not an easy task. This Saie Hydrabeam Concealer has light coverage and a clean formula. It's a true skincare and makeup combo that makes skin feel good.

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TULA's Best-Selling Eye Balm--Rose Glow & Get It

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"Hydrate, cool, and fill in fine lines around the eyes" with Rose Glow & Get It Cooling & Brightening Eye Balm. TULA's Eye Balm contains Rosehip Oil which is "a plant-based retinol alternative." It also contains Apple, Watermelon, Lentil and Probiotic Extracts, and Caffeine. Try it worry-free due to the 30-day return policy.

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Grab This Awesome Summer Staple

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Go ahead and get this loose-fit V-neck tank top in every color because it’s less than $5! It’s the perfect hot-weather staple.

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This Cordless Heating Pad

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This heating pad has three different massage settings and three heat settings, allowing you to adapt it to your preference. It's ideal for menstrual pain and customers claim it's one of the most worthwhile investments.

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Dress Up A T-Shirt With Delicate Puff Sleeves

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Dress up a simple t-shirt with these delicate puff sleeves. This V-neck tee will leave you feeling confident with a relaxed fit that you can wear to the office, on a date, or for casual fun.

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The Luxury Bathroom Rug

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This #1 Best Seller will shock you with its price. The Oversized Rug is ultra-absorbent yet quick to dry, will stay vibrant for years, and has a non-slip backing for peace of mind. Its versatile style can be used anywhere in the house.

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Jacquard Towel Set

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Indulge yourself with a set of these delightful Amrapur Overseas Towels. This set comes with six stylish and absorbent towels in a yarn-dyed cobblestone jacquard, perfect for elevating the look of any bathroom.

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Le Monde Gourmand Eau de Parfum

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You will be addicted to this Le Monde Gourmand Crème Vanille Eau de Parfum on the first spritz. This expertly blended fragrance is addictive thanks to the elegant blend of creamy apricot, jasmine petals, brown sugar, and amber.

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You Will Use This Tote Bag Every Day

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Slay the summer with this Tote Bag that is the epitome of summer aesthetic and is a must-have addition to your collection of summer accessories. It's the perfect size to carry all your essentials while you soak up the sun, whether you're heading to the beach, exploring a new city, or enjoying a picnic in the park.

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These Leggings That Will Make Your Booty Pop

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Get that snatched waist you've always wanted without even making a trip to the gym with these sexy cross waist leggings that aim to lift your butt, sinch your waist and make you look like your sexiest self. These leggings took the internet by storm just a few months ago and it has been impossible to get your hands on these bad boys since!

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Backless T-Shirt

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This SweatyRocks V-Cut Back Short Sleeve Tee is a comfortable and stylish backless t-shirt that features a unique v-cut-back design—perfect to pair with your favorite jeans or shorts this summer.

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Lacey and Lovely

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This Lacey V-Neck is the perfect touch of sophistication to a single's night out. The delicate lace details are as flattering as they are alluring, and the comfortable top is less than $25.

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A Roomy Jumpsuit That’s Just As Comfy As Pajamas

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Embrace comfort and style with this jumpsuit that TikTok reviewers are raving about. Its airy and relaxed fit, flowy legs, and soft, stretchy material make it feel like your favorite pajamas, but with a polished look. Delicate spaghetti straps add a refined touch, while the inclusion of pockets adds practicality. Whether you're lounging or heading out, this jumpsuit is a go-to viral find that keeps you comfortable and looking adorable.

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Be A Cool Wedding Guest In This Ruffle Jumpsuit

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This jumpsuit is perfect for weddings and occasions, even for a date night. It's made from stretchy fabric but it looks smart. The ruffle cap sleeves make it special and flattering on the arms. It comes in eight colors too from sizes S to XL.

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This Nail Polsih That Changes Every Day

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Is anyone else sick of taking time out of their day to go to the nail salon, just to pay like $50 for something you could have just done yourself from the comfort of your home? If you are on the same page as me, this chrome shifting nail polish will definitely be the last factor to convince you to start doing your own nails. It can change the polish into five different colors for something fun and new every day!

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Respectfully Hot

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This Square Neck Bodysuit has over 5,000 ratings and still manages a 4.4-star overall review. It comes in a ton of different colors, has high elasticity all around, and the snap-button closure is easy to take on and off.

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Slide Ingredients in and out with Pull Out Cabinets

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Find what you need with ease in a small kitchen space with the pull out cabinets that declutter your jumbled up mess in your cabinets. They can hold heavy items due to their strong load-bearing capabilities.

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Retro Style

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The different colors and styles of this Ribbed Crop Top all have the same Retro vibe that's trending online. The fabric is ribbed but still has some stretch and the pattern goes great with some bell bottoms and platform shoes.

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Wear This To Work or the Club

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Everyone needs a button-down jumpsuit in their closet! Dress it down with sneakers for a weekend event or pair it with a denim jacket and wedges for work. It's a win-win!

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The Sol de Janeiro Bum Bum Cream Everyone Loves

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This hydrating, tightening cream from Sol de Janeiro has been making the rounds online lately. It smells like a beachy dream while it's working hard on your skin, and the formula is made of all sorts of great, enriching products that are going to give your skin the love that it so richly deserves.

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A vegetable chopper you'll use again and again

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If salad is on the menu for dinner tonight, you are going to want this vegetable chopper. You can chop, slice, dice or cut vegetables and fruits of all sizes with several different blade options.

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This Square-Neck Tank Will Become A Wardrobe Staple

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A good wardrobe has its staples and this soft square-neck tank is a perfect addition. We love the wide-cut straps that cover your bra straps too.

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All That Matters

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Ellen said it best when she described using the bath mat to scoot yourself to the towel you forgot! If you are looking for Ellen level bath mats, this one is the perfect one for you.

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Pick Those Wildflowers

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Decorate your windowsill or mantle with this set of 10 glass vases that come in a rainbow of colors and a variety of textures for a dynamic display of your favorite wildflowers and plant cuttings.

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Never Hunt for the Cool Side of the Pillow Again

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Say goodbye to restless nights with this TikTok-famous cooling gel and foam pillow. Its unique design ensures you always enjoy the cool side of the pillow, providing a soothing and comfortable sleep experience during hot summer nights.

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These Hanging Suncatchers That Reflect Light

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Let the light shine with these crystal suncatchers that are like disco balls for your soul. With six strands of dazzling pendant ornaments in various celestial shapes, they'll transform any space into a magical wonderland. Hang them by the window, from a tree, or even on your porch, and prepare to be mesmerized by the prisms of light dancing around. And the best part? These stunning chains are only $20, so you can sparkle on a budget.

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Rainbow Window Film to Add Sparkle to Any Room

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Keep peeping strangers out by adding the rainbow window film to your windows. They will look like stained glass but you don’t have to spend the hefty amount for this look.

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The Perfect Summer Shift Dress

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Forget about irritating materials and fabrics hugging you where you don't want when the weather gets warmer. There is nothing easier to throw on than a loose-fitted tunic shift dress that comes in every color you can imagine!

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A Cooling Blanket Will Help You Sleep Like A Baby

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It can be so tough to sleep in the summer. But this cooling blanket could offer you some much-needed relief. It's made from a cooling protein microfiber that will help to absorb any body heat. Plus, the material is so soft on the skin. As one review claimed, it's cozy and cooling.

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Save Summer Vacations With This Portable Phone Charger

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Nothing is worse than having a phone die right as you're about to capture that epic vacation shot. Don't let that be you! This mini portable charger will give your device life no matter where you are this season. It's conveniently small for storage and charges mindblowingly fast, so you can back to documenting your trip of a lifetime.

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Smooth, Luscious Hair Comes with Dream Coat Spray

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Just spritz a little on your hair for a smooth, shiny look that will have all your crushes staring. The dream coat spray keeps the frizz and fuzz away.

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This Hair Treatment Has Been Endorsed By A Ton Of Celebrities

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It's never too late to re-train your hair and take care of damages that have already been done. This Hair Treatment is the perfect place to start as hundreds of influencers have raved about it on their platform. Say goodbye to split ends, dry hair and damaged looks as this treatment will mend it all back together.

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A Microfiber Hair Towel To Reduce Hair Damage

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Pop on this Microfiber Hair Towel right after your shower to prevent breaking and damaging to your locks. It comes with an elastic strap to wrap around the towel so it stays in place on top of your head.

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Time To Romper

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Summertime, and the living's easy! This romper just dropped on Amazon and it is so adorable, we can't get enough. Perfect for warm weather and a cute staple - what more could you ask for?

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A lightweight and stylish linen shirt

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You'll wear this versatile button down linen shirt on repeat this summer. Its breathable material allows it to be worn on its own or paired with basically any other apparel you have in your closet.

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Get Snatched Instantly with this Cross Waist Skirt.

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TikTok influencers are going wild for this cross waist skirt – and it's no surprise why. This skirt is designed to give you a slim and snatched look in an instant. Plus, it comes in a range of unique colors and features an amazing stretch that will make you fall in love. And with built-in shorts for extra support and protection during workouts, you can't go wrong.

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Color Block Cami

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An essential addition in every color option: the Meladyan Color Block Sleeveless Cami is a clear winner. Boasting numerous vibrant shades, it effortlessly complements existing wardrobe pieces.

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