What This Social Experiment Shows Us About “Having It All”

Alli Hoff Kosik
Jun 25, 2018

You’ve heard a lot about the elusive search for “it all” — as in, having it all. When we talk about the cliché of “living the dream,” we often mean striking the perfect balance of #allthethings. Having it all means achieving dreamy romance, professional success, consistent friendships, good relationships with family members, and an impressive education. Oh, and did we mention that you should also have plenty of time to dedicate to self-care so you can constantly be looking and feeling your best?

New York University associate professor of psychology Dr. Emily Balcetis explains that women have articulated the pressure to have it all since 1982, when noted journalist Helen Gurley Brown coined the phrase in her book Having It All: Love, Success, Sex, Money. “This [book] is sort of the first call or push for women to strive for being a master of all domains of their lives,” Dr. Balcetis says. “Even though the definition of what ‘having it all’ means has changed since the early eighties when this phrase was coined, a commonality across the conversations over all these decades is the struggle that women, in particular, have with trying to achieve it all and figuring out what having it all really means.”

In order to learn more about the state of the larger conversation about having it all for women in 2018, Dr. Balcetis recently worked with the team at Lean Cuisine to develop a social experiment titled ItAll. The experiment — which took place over two weeks in the spring of 2018 — involved two parts. One prompted the participating women to articulate very specifically what having it all meant to them in somewhat of a vacuum, and another gave them the chance to get similarly specific but in the context of a shopping trip with female friends, family members, and colleagues. After completing a questionnaire made up of questions about their ideal family life, career, finances, personal enrichment, health, and education, the 18 participants (who, it’s worth noting, Dr. Balcetis describes as ambitious, high-achieving women) were invited to “shop” at the ItAll pop-up store. The items on the shelves within the store’s four walls mirrored the items listed in the initial survey, with labels like “two kids,” “8+ hours of sleep,” and more. Dr. Balcetis and her team then compared each woman’s survey responses to the shopping cart she cultivated while in the presence of a trusted shopping buddy.

Nearly 90 percent of participants actually set more ambitious goals when they were around their female pals, coworkers, and family members than they did when they were completing the private survey. More specifically, about three-fourths of them chose those more ambitious goals in the domains of life that they themselves noted were most important to them.

“To me, what this means is not that when we’re around influential women, we’re pushing each other to take on more responsibility,” Dr. Balcetis says. “Instead, it’s helping us to realize what it is that’s most important and will bring us the most satisfaction.” Perhaps most interesting, Dr. Balcetis tells us, is the extent to which these results demonstrate a shift in the way we talk about having it all — or, as she prefers to describe it, having her all. “These conversations [between women] weren’t reifying the stereotype that women are supposed to do everything,” she says. “These conversations were really helping these women to find what it was that would make them happiest — and that’s where you should spend most of your time.”

While the campaign did face some online backlash, it also opened up a discussion of what it means to more effectively pursue whatever having your all is or to support the women you care about in doing the same. “When we’re in the position to give advice, it has a big impact,” Dr. Balcetis encourages. “Our friends, family, and coworkers are listening, and they’re making choices in response to that. And when we’re in need of help making these big life decisions, the social support in our relationships is a great place to find it.”

How do the women in your life encourage you in your pursuit of “having it all”? Tweet us @BritandCo.

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5 Ways To Politely Shut Down Your Family's Invasive Questions During The Holidays

The period ofThanksgiving through the New Year is when with family, often after not seeing them for several months out of the year. This is usually the time where everyone likes to catch up with each other to see if there's potential news they may have missed. But, this sometimes lead to the inevitable prodding questions that can make us want to crawl under the dinner table.

At some point, at least one person usually thinks it okay to ask super personal questions between eating yummy ham and candy recipes.They can range from questions about the class you flunked to your love life, putting you in an uncomfortable spotlight. You may feel like screaming at the top of your lungs, but licensed psychologist Dr. Michele Leno, host of the Mind Matters with Dr. Michelepodcast and therapist Alison McKleroy, LMFT, founder of Center for Spark®and author of the Self-Compassion Journal, have a few suggestions to help you avoid that.

Here's How To Politely Shut Down Your Family's Prodding Questions Over The Holidays!

  • Being around family during the holidays can increase the likelihood of juggling questions you don't wanna answer.
  • Recognizing your own needs and values will help you identify how you want to respond to your family's questions.
  • Setting clear boundaries with your family — and for yourself — can also help you communicate more effectively with your family.
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and other self-care tools can help you better navigate awkward and tense family scenarios.

What is it about the holidays that trigger uncomfortable or prodding family questions?

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If you had a dollar for every time some asked something that created awkward tension during the holidays, how much money would you have? For some reason, it always feels like this is the time for people to ask the most embarrassing questions in the word. But, what if it wasn't done on purpose? Dr. Michele says, "While many love holidays, others dread them. Those who have close family relationships approach the season with ease."

Still, she acknowledges how that's not always the case for everyone. "People with strained family relationships find holidays unbearable. The closeness can encourage prodding that feels invasive. Sometimes, people simply have a need to know the ins and outs of your life."

However, you don't have to feed anyone's curiosity if you don't want to!

How can I politely say that a question is bothering me?

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Your first reaction to certain questions may be shock and embarrassment followed by irritation or anger. Those are normal responses when something catches us off guard. While our emotions are justified, the way we want to respond may not be. McKleroy says, "First, it’s crucial to recognize your own needs or values that are stirred up by the question. If your aunt asks you, 'Are you still at that job, or did you finally find a better one,' this question could likely bring up a need for acknowledgement — maybe you want your aunt to see the value in your work."

She further explains, "It could also point to your need for autonomy and freedom to make career choices on your own terms without feeling pressured. You can respond by saying, 'Yep, I'm still at that job, and I'm learning a lot and enjoying being there right now,'" which places the ball in your court without you cursing her name.

This is the time to be curious if you're not sure what your needs are. Like McKleroy says, they're a good indicator of why certain questions bother you. Truthfully, she believes you look at invasive questions as a good thing. "Navigating personal questions from family, especially the kind that feel intrusive, is a chance to courageously practice protecting your peace and setting empowered boundaries," McKleroy says.

Still, you likely need to set boundaries with your family. "Another way you can navigate prodding questions is by expressing your need for privacy in a kind way. If your grandfather asks you about your dating life, you can say, 'I really appreciate your interest, and right now, I’m keeping that part of my life private. I’ll happily share more when I’m ready,'" she suggests. It's a great way for you to "honor his care while respecting your own boundaries," according to her.

What if I'm afraid to set boundaries with my family?

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Setting boundaries with anyone isn't always easy, especially if you're a people pleaser or empath. But Dr. Leno says, "It is best to set boundaries up front, understanding that family may or may not respect them." Echoing McKleroy's thoughts about how to redirect certain questions, she says you can tell someone "now is not the time to talk about it."

If you're still afraid of pushback for setting a boundary, she encourages you to "talk to the host or another family member to help you out." Based on her experience, she feels "there is usually someone willing to redirect subjects as needed." If it helps, I've been known to ask my mom or sister an unrelated question to what I'm being asked to signal that I'm feeling anxious about something I've been asked.

Your apprehension about setting boundaries isn't in vain though. It's a real feeling based on a number of things. Dr. Leno says, "Establishing boundaries can be difficult for someone hoping to maintain peace or avoid conflict. They fear appearing hostile. However, your well-being comes first."

What can I do if my family chooses to ignore my boundaries?

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Like Dr. Leno said, everyone isn't going to honor your boundaries based on things that have nothing to do with you. It's hard not to take things personal, but it's worth learning how not to internalize their lack of respect. "There are times when your family will disregard your boundaries, so brace yourself. Prepare to protect your mental space, and stand your ground," informs Dr. Leno.

Also, she says that "even if your family repeatedly oversteps, your ability to stick to your boundaries is more important than their willingness to respect them." Should you feel depleted trying to mentally and emotionally guard yourself, she wants you to "take a break by exiting the room or house or venue altogether."

I personally love doing the later if I'm unable to stay grounded when fielding prodding questions and think I'm about to say the wrong thing. Taking a break usually gives me time to calm down and find something else to focus on.

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If you still need help learning how to deal with your family's invasive questions, there are CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) tools you can rely on. They've been a huge life saver for me which is why I'm always sprinkling them throughout different family and self-care articles. For anyone who's unfamiliar with what CBT is, Dr. Leno says it "focuses on self-management" because "people learn to regulate their emotions by managing their thoughts."

Realistically, the holidays shouldn't cause you to feel stressed out. "If you're feeling emotionally drained leading up to the holidays, your thinking may be the culprit. Your worst-case-scenario think will cause an anxiety build-up that feels unmanageable," warns Dr. Leno.

Instead, she wants to try developing "some self-care tools" like:

  • "Only sharing what makes you comfortable"
  • "Refusing to answer certain questions because the person asking will get over it"
  • Managing your anxiety with deep breathing"
  • Avoiding the all-or-nothing mindset. It is perfectly fine to limit your participation in the festivities. Give yourself permission to leave early if necessary."

Follow us on Instagram for more ways you can indulge in self-care!

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13 Addictive December TV Shows Everyone Will Be Watching

If your group chat is blowing up over the Bad Sisters premiere, or you're still reeling from that Outer Banks season 4 ending, never fear: these merry and bright December TV shows are here to save the day! (Don't worry though, they're not all about the holidays. Sometimes you need a break from even the best Christmas music!). Even though these programs offer wildly different things — from a gritty spy and life or death games to juicy reality dating and sitcom royalty — they're all the perfect choice for an evening in...especially if you've already watched all our Binge-Worthy November TV Shows ;).

Here are the best new December TV shows premiering in 2024.

​The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On season 3 — On Netflix December 4, 2024

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These couples are at a crossroads in their relationship: will they tie the knot and spend the rest of their lives together, or will they call it quits? It's a dilemma a lot of relationships face, and you'll have to tune in to find out how these couples handle the ultimate q.

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On is hosted by Nick Lachey and Vanessa Lachey.

Black Doves — On Netflix December 5, 2024

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This thriller stars Keira Knightley as Helen, a politician's wife who doubles as a spy — and feeds her organization all his deepest, darkest secrets. But when her secret lover is assassinated, Helen is forced to play a dangerous game of survival that involves everyone she holds close. This December TV show is also set against London at Christmas...you really can't go wrong!

Black Doves stars Keira Knightley, Ben Whishaw, Sarah Lancashire, Andrew Buchan, Adeel Akhtar, Tracey Ullman, Finn Bennett, Luther Ford, Andrew Koji, Kathryn Hunter, Sam Troughton, and Ella Lily Hyland.

Southern Charm season 10 — On Bravo December 5, 2024

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The best TV shows always involve reality TV, and nobody's doing it like Southern Charm. Set in Charleston, South Carolina, these ladies are balancing their "bless your hearts" and sweet tea with plenty of drama. Although...when is dating not dramatic? Our favorite familiar faces are joined by some newcomers, bringing a whole new edge to the show we know and love.

Southern Charm Season 10 stars Venita Aspen, Leva Bonaparte, Craig Conover, Taylor Ann Green, Austen Kroll, Madison LeCroy, Rodrigo Reyes, Shep Rose, Jarrett “JT” Thomas, Salley Carson, Ryan Albert, and Molly O’Connell.

The Sticky — On Prime Video December 6, 2024

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Despite the fact this new series revolves around a maple syrup empire, it's actually not related to Riverdale. Sorry to disappoint! This dark comedy is inspired by the Great Canadian Maple Syrup Heist, where a maple syrup farmer stole millions of dollars worth of syrup in order to save her livelihood. Yep, really.

The Sticky stars Margo Martindale, Chris Diamantopoulos, Jamie Lee Curtis, and Guillaume Cyr.

Queer Eye season 9 — On Netflix December 11, 2024

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We're in need of some life advice right now, TBH, and thank goodness The Fab Five are bringing it in the new season of Queer Eye. And alongside the emotional stories and heartfelt connections they make in Vegas, we'll see plenty of fabulous style. Because duh!

Queer Eye Season 9 stars includes Antoni Porowski, Jonathan Van Ness, Karamo Brown, Tan France, and Jeremiah Brent.

No Good Deed — On Netflix December 12, 2024

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Sitcom fans rejoice! This December TV show has some of the all-time greats sharing the screen, and we can't wait to rewatch these episodes 100 times. Multiple families believe one house will solve all their problems, and are all racing to sign on the dotted line. But, naturally, the beautiful 1920s Spanish-style home isn't as beautiful as it appears.

No Good Deed stars Linda Cardellini, O-T Fagbenle, Abbi Jacobson, Lisa Kudrow, Denis Leary, Poppy Liu, Teyonah Parris, Ray Romano, and Luke Wilson.

Ready, Set, Glow — On Hallmark+ December 12, 2024

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If your favorite scene from Jim Carrey's The Grinch is Molly Shannon and Christine Baranski's Christmas light competition, then this reality show is for you. Hallmark star Wes Brown introduces us to four families who have the best decorations around — and are sure to make your home feel even more festive.

Ready, Set, Glow is hosted by Wes Brown.

Paris & Nicole: The Encore — On Peacock December 12, 2024

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The girls are back!! Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie reunite in an attempt to produce something the world desperately needs: an operatic performance based on their iconic "Sanasa." Say no more.

"I'm so excited to be doing this with Nicole on Peacock," Paris told E! News. "Nicole has been my best friend since we're 2 years old, every memory that I have is with her."

Paris & Nicole: The Encore stars Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie.

Virgin River season 6— On Netflix December 19, 2024

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In the face of loss and hardship, nobody comes together like the town of Virgin River. And despite the struggle, this season promises to be heartwarming and lovely too — Mel and Jack are finally getting married! Their nuptials are met with some family drama but don't worry romantics. True love is sure to win out.

Virgin River season 6 stars Alexandra Breckenridge, Martin Henderson, Tim Matheson, Annette O’Toole, Colin Lawrence, Benjamin Hollingsworth, Zibby Allen, Sarah Dugdale, Marco Grazzini, Kai Bradbury, Kandyse McClure, and Mark Ghanime.

Laid — On Peacock December 19, 2024

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According to the official Peacock site, this dark rom-com answers the age-old question of "Is there something wrong with me?" with “Yes. There is. The problem is definitely you.” This December TV show follows Stephanie Hsu's Ruby, who's in for a rude awakening when she realizes all of her past sexual encounters are dying. Now she has to get to the bottom of it before anyone else bites the dust.

Laid stars Stephanie Hsu, Zosia Mamet, Michael Angarano, Tommy Martinez, Andre Hyland, Olivia Holt, David Denman, Finneas O’Connell, Chloe Fineman, Ettore “Big E” Ewen, and John Early.

Kennedy Center Honors — On CBS December 22, 2024

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The Kennedy Center Honors (a tribute ceremony that celebrates contributions to American performing art) always provide us with iconic moments — like Anna Kendrick fangirling over Beyoncé and Cynthia Erivo performing "Alfie" for Dionne Warwick. And this year promises to be no different.

The 2024 Kennedy Center Honors will honor Francis Ford Coppola, the Grateful Dead, Bonnie Raitt, Arturo Sandoval, and The Apollo.

Squid Game season 2 — On Netflix December 26, 2024

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Despite the fact we all took games very seriously in elementary school, I'm sure we can all agree no game of Red Light, Green Light comes close to the one in Squid Game. And we're in for another round of nail-biting challenges when season 2 drops December 26. As for what to expect?

"As we all saw at the end of season 1, the main plot of season 2 will be revenge," actor Lee Jung Jae told All K-Pop. "The key figure who controlled the workings of the games in season 1 was Lee Byung-Hun...it seems that the two of us will be the central figures of this next story."

Squid Game season 2 stars Lee Jung-jae, Lee Byung-hun, Wi Ha-jun, Gong Yoo, Yim Si-wan, Kang Ha-neul, Park Sung-hoon, and Yang Dong-geun.

Dick Clark's New Year’s Rockin’ Eve — On ABC December 31, 2024

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If you ask me, there's no December TV show as iconic as New Year’s Rockin’ Eve. It's going to be the perfect way to ring out 2024 (and welcome 2025). Although I have to admit, I don't know how they're going to top Megan Thee Stallion, Jelly Roll, Sabrina Carpenter, and Tyla's performances from last year!

Dick Clark's New Year’s Rockin’ Eve is hosted by Ryan Seacrest.

Which December TV show are you most looking forward to? Don't forget to add these 12 Cozy New Christmas Movies On Netflix, Prime Video, Hallmark Channel, & More This Year to your watchlist!

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Yay! Margot Robbie Welcomes First Baby With Husband Tom Ackerley

Margot Robbie has a son! The Barbieactress and her husband Tom Ackerley welcomed their first baby in early November after a very busy year (after all, she announced she'd star opposite Ryan Gosling again in an Ocean's Eleven prequeland boarded a Sims & Monopoly adaptation as producer).

The Sirens producer proved she has impeccable pregnancy style at Wimbledon and a red carpet, and I just know she's going to have amazing mom style too. Here's everything you need to know about this new family of three.

How many kids does Margot Robbie have?

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Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley have one child, a son! A source confirmed to People that the couple had welcomed their baby boy on November 2.

People also confirmed Margot Robbie is expecting a baby in July, the same day images of the actress showing off her growing baby bump went viral on X (formerly Twitter). In the images, Margot's standing with Tom on a dock, wearing black trousers, a black blazer, and a white tee rolled up to rest above her stomach. Leave it to Margot Robbie to make chic pregnancy wear look effortless!

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Margot Robbie later attended the L.A. premiere of My Old Ass — produced by Robbie and starring Aubrey Plaza — on September 9, 2024. The ever-elegant star rocked a muted, off-the-shoulder bodycon dress (hello, fall style inspo!) and some adorable strappy heels! Her simple hair, makeup, and jewelry allowed her most major accessory to shine here — her bump! This is the first time we've really seen Robbie since her Wimbledon appearance, and it's no surprise that her look absolutely did not disappoint.

Who is Margot Robbie's husband Tom Ackerley?

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Margot Robbie married Tom Ackerley in 2016 after they met on the set of Suite Française in 2013. Tom is an actor (he appeared as an extra on the first three Harry Potter movies), and a film producer. The two also co-founded their production company LuckyChap Entertainment in 2014 and have worked on movies like I, Tonya,Promising Young Woman,Maid, and Saltburn.

What have Tom Ackerley and Margot Robbie said about their relationship?

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Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley love spending time together, and Tom told The Sunday Times they spend "24 hours a day together."

"It’s seamless," he continues. "We don’t have a toggle on, toggle off. It’s all become one thing.”

“Being married is actually the most fun ever, life got way more fun somehow," Margot told Porter in 2018. "I have a responsibility being someone’s wife, I want to be better."

Margot has also been vocal about how frustrating it is to constantly be asked about children, telling Radio Times in 2019 that, "I'm so angry that there's this social contract," she says. "You're married, now have a baby. Don't presume. I'll do what I'm going to do."

What is Margot Robbie's baby name?

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Margot and Tom haven't officially shared their baby's name yet, but we're all ears should they choose to do so.

How old is Margot Robbie?

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Margot Robbie just celebrated her 34th birthday on July 2. Tom Ackerley turned 34 on June 13, so there's only a one-month age gap between this celeb couple.

We're sending all the best wishes to Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley! Check out Hilary Duff Officially Gave Birth To Baby #4! for more adorable baby news.

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42 Early Black Friday Deals You Can Start Shopping Now

Black Friday will be here before you know it, with thousands of retailers flaunting their best deals of the year. We're shoppers at heart, so you know we're already scoping out 2024's offerings! Given that the list of stores and brands hosting Black Friday and Cyber Monday sales this year is essentially endless, we're weeding out only the best deals from the places you love to spend (and save).

From beauty faves like Dieux and Kiehl's to home goods from Amazon and Walmart, these are the Black Friday deals you simply can't miss.

What is Black Friday?

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Black Friday is the Friday after Thanksgiving that typically signifies the start of holiday shopping season, though many retailers have started to launch their Black Friday deals earlier year over year. A lot of the deals that stores and brands offer during Black Friday outpace their other sales events (such as Memorial Day and Labor Day) in terms of savings.

When is Black Friday 2024?

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Black Friday will land on November 29, 2024.

What is Cyber Monday?

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Cyber Monday is the Monday after Thanksgiving that highlights savings and deals online as opposed to in-store offers. It's one of the busiest times of year for online shopping.

When is Cyber Monday 2024?

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Cyber Monday will land on December 2, 2024.

When's the best time to shop for holiday gifts?

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We're big believers that it's never too early to start shopping for holiday gifts. The sooner you shop, the better, so you can check everyone off your list ahead of the busy holiday season and have some peace of mind once the real festivities start! Plus, if you're shopping online, starting early gives you ample time to wait for items to be shipped and delivered to your door. If deals and savings are what you're looking for, Black Friday and Cyber Monday offer some really great opportunities.

What's the best thing to shop for during Black Friday and Cyber Monday?

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The best thing to shop for during Black Friday deals and Cyber Monday promotions really depends on what your needs are as well as the items you're scoping out to treat yourself (or the people you're gifting for the holidays). Typically, big-ticket items like home appliances, tech products like earbuds, laptops, TVs, and tablets, and luxury self-care tools are heavily discounted during this time.

Beauty Sales

Amazon

Bliss Bright Idea Vitamin C + Tri-Peptide Collagen Brightening Serum

Bliss

When: November 20-December 17

What: 20-30% off select products

Ulta

Perricone MD High Potency Hyaluronic Intensive Hydrating Serum

Ulta

When: Now-November 23

What: Weekly deals on skincare, makeup, hair care, and fragrance.

IT Cosmetics

IT Cosmetics CC+ Cream Full-Coverage Foundation with SPF 50+

IT Cosmetics

When: November 23-December 3

What: 30% off sitewide (loyalty members get 35% off)

Amazon

Kiehl's Ultra Facial Cream

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When: November 21-December 2

What: 30% off site-wide and 50% off select items on November 26 only

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Lanolips Baby Baby Balms Set

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When: November 29-December 2

What: 30% off at Ulta and 20% off on Amazon

Moroccanoil

Moroccanoil Original Treatment

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When: November 25-December 3 (rewards members will have early access to the sale on December 2)

What: 25% off sitewide

NOYZ

NOYZ Love Club Eau De Parfum

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When: November 28-30 and December 1-2

What: 25% off sitewide and a free baseball cap on purchases over $55 on November 28-30, 25% off sitewide and a free candle on purchases over $55 on December 1-2

dpHUE

dpHUE Gloss+

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When: November 3-15

What: 25% off sitewide

Dieux

Dieux Baptism Gel Cleanser

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When: November 29-December 2

What: 30% off original price items, 20% off single items, and a free Mini Slugging Kit on orders over $30

ILIA

ILIA Skin Rewind Complexion Stick

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When: November 25-December 2, VIP members get early access November 24

What: 20% off sitewide, 25% off orders over $125, and 25% off plus a free full-size product for orders over $150

Ogee

Ogee Tinted Lip Set

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When: November 1-December 3

What: 20% off sitewide with code 'GIFTGLOW20' and receive free deluxe samples with purchases over $200 (November 28-December 3 only)

Amazon

Youth To The People Superfood Facial Cleanser

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When: November 23-December 3 on YTTP.com, November 21-December 2 on Amazon, and December 2 at Sephora

What:

  • YTTP: 30% off sitewide plus a free 3-piece gift with purchases over $85
  • Amazon: 20% off select products through November 27, 30% off select products starting November 28
  • Sephora: 30% off all products in-store and online

Hero

Hero Blemish Bestsellers Kit

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When: November 25-December 2

What: 20% off sitewide

Amazon

Briogeo Don't Despair, Repair! Deep Conditioning Mask

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When: November 20-December 2 on Briogeo's site, November 28 at Sephora and Kohl's, November 28-December 2 on Amazon, and December 2 at Ulta and Target

What: up to 30% off products

Ulta

Origins GinZing SPF 40 Energy-Boosting Tinted Moisturizer

Origins

When: November 24-30 at Ulta

What: 40% off moisturizers and 30% off cleansers

Fashion Sales

Amazon

Dream Pairs Genuine Suede Classic Platform Boots

Dream Pairs

When: November 21-December 2

What: 20-40% off select styles on the Dream Pairs site and Amazon

Madewell

Madewell The Essential Bucket Tote

Madewell

When: November 21-27

What: 30% off your purchase, including new arrivals

H&M

H&M Brushed-Finish Jacket

H&M

When: November 28-December 1

What: 30% off online only (November 28), 30% off online and in-store (November 29-30), and up to 50% off (November 30-December 1)

Old Navy

Old Navy '94 Half Zip

Old Navy

When: November 1-December 2

What: 50% off select products online and in-store (November 1-6), 50% off everything online and in-store (November 7-10), and 50% off everything online only and 50% off select products in-store (November 27-December 2)

Land's End

Land's End Medium Canvas Tote Bag

Land's End

When: November 29-December 3

What: 50% off, including customizable canvas totes, sheets, towels, accessories and more.

Showpo

Showpo Jondra Blouse

Showpo

When: November 22-December 3

What:

  • Black Friday early access (November 22-24): 25% off sitewide
  • Black Friday (November 27-29): 25% off sitewide
  • Cyber Weekend (November 30-December 1): 25% off almost everything and 40% off bestsellers
  • Cyber Monday (December 2-3): 25% off almost everything and 40% off bestsellers

Franco Sarto

Franco Sarto Jaxon Mid Calf Boot

Franco Sarto

When: November 23-December 3

What: Up to 70% off + free shipping

Oomiay

Oomiay Havasu Earrings

Oomiay

When: November 28-December 2

What: Free exclusive jewelry pieces (up to 5) with every item purchased on November 28-December 1 and up to 50% off your entire order on December 2 only

Barefoot Dreams

Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Solid Robe

Barefoot Dreams

When: November 27-December 1 (Black Friday VIP access starts November 25) and December 2-3 (for Cyber Monday)

What: 20% off 2 items, 25% off 3 items, and 30% off 4 or more items for Black Friday. The CozyChic Checks & Stripes Sock Set will be just $9.98 (was $45) on Cyber Monday only.

Local Eclectic

Local Eclectic Whimsical Charm Necklace

Local Eclectic

When: November 25-December 2

What: 20% off sitewide

Quince

Quince Italian Wool Classic Single-Breasted Coat

Quince

When: November 27-December 2

What: 40% off select products

Athleta

Athleta Aire Puffer Jacket

Athleta

When: November 27-December 1

What: 30% off sitewide

Home Sales

Revival Rugs

Revival Rugs Gambit Rug

Revival Rugs

When: November 14-December 2

What: Scaled discounts automatically applied at checkout:

  • 15% off $250-500
  • 20% off $500-999
  • 25% off $1,000-1,999
  • 30% off $2000+

Walmart

Samsung 55” Crystal UHD 4K Smart TV

Walmart

When: November 11-December 1

What: Walmart is breaking up their Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals into two events.

  • Event 1 deals begin online on November 11 at 12 p.m. ET exclusively for paid Walmart+ members and 5 p.m. ET for all customers.
  • Event 1 deals begin in stores on November 15 at 6 a.m. local time.
  • Event 2 deals begin online on November 25 at 12 p.m. ET exclusively for paid Walmart+ members and 5 p.m. ET for all customers.
  • Event 2 deals begin in stores November 29 at 6 a.m. local time.
  • Cyber Monday deals start online on December 1 at 5 p.m. ET exclusively for paid Walmart+ members and 8 p.m. ET for all customers.

Amazon

TheraGun Sense Percussion Massage Gun

Amazon

When: November 29 and December 2 (tentative)

What: Amazon will feature "tons of great deals across all different categories."

Brookstone

Loftie Sunrise Lamp

Brookstone

When: November 25-December 4

What: Up to 76% off select items

Ruggable

Morris & Co. Strawberry Thief Sage & Rose Tufted Rug

Ruggable

When: Starting November 26

What: 25% off sitewide (exclusions apply) with code 'BF24'

Brümate

Brümate Era 40-Ounce Tumbler

Brümate

When: November 26-December 2

What: 20% off coolers and 25% off drinkware with code 'HOLIDAY25'

sproos!

sproos! Lookin Good Handheld Shower System

sproos!

When: November 27-December 2

What: 30% off of the Lookin' Good Bundle on sproos.co and Amazon

Great Jones

Great Jones x Fellow Kettle

Great Jones

When: November 4-December 2 on Great Jones site and November 21-December on Amazon

What: up to 50% off sitewide and 20-33% off select items on Amazon

Amazon

Contigo x Ally Love Stainless Steel Vacuum-Insulated Tumbler

Contigo

When: November 21-December 2

What: 25% off the Contigo x Ally Love Collection

Parachute Home

Parachute Home Percale Sheet Bundle

Parachute Home

When: November 23-December 3

What: 30% off sitewide

Anecdote Candles

Anecdote Candles Holiday Host Bundle

Anecdote Candles

When: November 20-24 and November 29-December 2

What: 25% off everything from November 20-24 and up to 40% off (20% off any order, 25% off orders over $100, 30% off orders over $150, up to 40% off bundles) plus a free wick trimmer with purchases over $90 on November 29-December 2

Fracture

Fracture Large Rectangle Glass Print

Fracture

When: November 14- December 1 and December 2-3

What: 30% off sitewide plus free shipping for orders over $150 on November 14- December 1 and 30% off sitewide plus free shipping for orders over $150 and 35% off orders over $275 on December 2-3

Food + Supplement Sales

Cure

Cure Electrolyte Drink Mix Starter Kit

Cure

When: November 26-December 3

What: 25% off sitewide on all Electrolyte Drink Mixes, Cure Kids, Energy Teas and merch with code 'HELPYOURSELF25'

Ritual

Ritual Essential, Gut & Skin Trio for Women

Ritual

When: November 13-December 2

What: 40% off all products for new customers and 40% off all new subscriptions only

More Sales

Petco

Native Pet Omega 3 Fish Oil For Dog Skin & Coat

Petco

When: November 23-30

What: 50% off select items

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48 Hygge-Inspired Essentials To Make You And Your Home Cozy AF

Now that temperatures are slowly dropping with the change of seasons, it's time to get your home feeling oh-so hygge, cozy, and all-around comfortable. However, if you aren't sure where to find such items, that's not a problem, as I've already done all the legwork for you and compiled our findings into this handy list. From fuzzy socks to twinkling fairy lights, don't be surprised if you find yourself tempted to add more than a few of these cozy items to your cart.

Thanks for reading about our favorite finds from across the internet! FYI: We participate in affiliate programs and may get a share of the revenue from your purchase.

This Scented Candle Made From Eco-Friendly Soy Wax

Amazon

Unlike some candles, this is made from eco-friendly soy wax that produces less soot than paraffin. Gentle notes of toasted pecan, butternut squash, and star anise give it an uplifting scent. And with a burn time of up to 80 hours, you won't be stuck having to replace it anytime soon.

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A Poofy Reading Pillow Covered In Bougie Faux Fur

Amazon

Consider this pillow a must-have if you enjoy reading while relaxing in bed. The ultra-plush filling supports your back and shoulders, while bolsters on either side give you somewhere to rest your arms. The faux fur exterior also gives it an upscale look that's sure to have guests asking where you found it. One reviewer wrote, "I was not expecting this pillow to be such good quality. It kept its shape great. It’s extremely soft and comfortable."

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The Fuzzy Lounge Set That Comes With A Floor-Length Cardigan

Amazon

Just one look at this fuzzy lounge set, and we're ready to snuggle up on the couch for a relaxing evening at home. It comes in a variety of colors — from trendy beige to sky blue — and the high-waisted bottoms are almost guaranteed to look good on just about everybody. Plus, the floor-length cardigan is an undeniably fashionable touch.

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These Socks Are a Luxury for Your Feet

Amazon

These fuzzy socks are just the right amount of soft and comfy without being too thick and sweaty. These are great for a day lying around the house but also look great poking out of a pair of boots.

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These Memory Foam Slippers That You Can Wear Outside

Amazon

You'll be glad you grabbed these slippers the next time you're scrounging around for a quick pair of slip-on shoes to wear to the mailbox and back. Their rubber soles are nonslip, helping keep you safe on wet mornings — and the memory foam lining also contours to the shape of your feet for added comfort.

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The Perfect Sleep Starts With Pillows

Amazon

Good pillows on your bed are essential to a good night's sleep. If you're a side sleeper (as most of us are), you will undoubtedly love this bed pillow set. Even if you sleep on your back or stomach, these are winners.

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This Foot Warmer And Massager Is So Soothing

Amazon

Take your spa day to the next level with a heating foot massager. After your relaxing bath, hop in for a deep-kneading foot massage that will leave you feeling less stressed and less tense.

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A Heated Eye Massager for Ultimate Relaxation

Amazon

Whether you deal with migraines and headaches or you're just looking for some extra relaxation in your life, this heated eye massager is the answer! It helps reduce eye strain, reduce the dark circles under your eyes, and help to relax your face. It's a great option for settling down and releasing tension after a long day.

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A Universal Tablet Stand With a Soft Pillow Base

Amazon

Kindles, iPads, Android phones — this stand's universal design ensures it'll work with just about any gadget. The soft pillow base makes it great for watching videos in bed, and the arm can be adjusted into nearly any position, making it easy to see your screen from every angle. Plus, a small bowl in the center gives you somewhere to stash remotes, charging cables, and more.

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This Thermal Underwear Will Keep You Warm And Dry All Day Long

Amazon

Stay warm and comfortable in cold weather with this set of long Thermal Underwear. They're designed to be an extra layer when just one won't do, and they're lightweight, squat-proof, and moisture-wicking, making them perfect for outdoor activities or snuggling on the couch at home.

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These Aromatherapy Shower Steamers Are So Refreshing

Amazon

Turn your shower into a spa with these aromatherapy steamers that help boost your mood while clearing congestion. The variety pack comes with 15 steamers in eucalyptus and mint scents.

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Cozy Up Your Tub with this Luxury Bath Pillow

Amazon

Nothing beats a relaxing bath to wash away the day's stress, and you can take it up a notch with this Luxury Bath Pillow, which has thick padding for ultimate comfort and support. The suction cups ensure it stays firmly in place, so you can lie and relax without suffering from a sore back or neck.

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An Air Purifier That Runs At a Super-Quiet Level

Amazon

A home with low-quality air will always feel less hygge than one with clean air. This purifier powers through pet dander, pollen, and every other airborne pollutant, ensuring that you're breathing the cleanest air possible. And since it runs at a super-quiet level, you can even leave it running overnight without disturbing your sleep.

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The Flannel Sheets With Elasticized Straps Built Into the Fitted Sheet Corners

Amazon

Few things are as annoying as having your fitted sheet constantly ride up over your mattress. These microfiber flannel sheets not only feel incredibly soft against the skin, but the fitted sheet also features elastic straps that help keep it firmly in place — no need to worry about it riding up. Choose from 14 colors: teal, pale pink, navy, and more.

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These Oh-So Fuzzy Socks With Thousands Of Positive Reviews

Amazon

Step off of those cold floors and slip your feet into these fuzzy socks. A touch of spandex in the knitted weave gives them some comfortable stretch, while the breathable material helps keep your feet from growing sweaty. One reviewer wrote, "They are so lightweight that your ankles and legs don't feel restricted at all, but they keep you warm and cozy."

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A Cup Holder Pillow With Extra Space for Remotes, Snacks, and More

Amazon

If you're cozy on the couch, what's the last thing you want to do? Get up! This couch caddy is honestly a genius invention, and we will be promptly also ordering multiple.

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This Cozy AF Throw Blanket Made from Ultra-Soft Flannel Fleece

Amazon

Every bedroom or living room needs a cozy throw blanket, so why not take a look at this one? It comes in a variety of colors — from deep purple to light blue — and the flannel fleece material feels undeniably soft against the skin. Plus, the chunky stripes are a classic pattern that won't fall out of style anytime soon.

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These Bath Bombs That Won't Dry Out Your Skin

Amazon

Some types of bath bombs can dry out your skin. Thankfully, these are infused with shea and cocoa butter, both of which work to hydrate your skin while you soak. Plus, the individualized packaging helps keep them fresh so that you can take your time using them. Each order includes 12 scents: lavender, black raspberry, melon, rose, and more.

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An Oversized Hoodie That Feels Just Like A Warm, Fuzzy Blanket

Amazon

Ever wish you could wear that cozy blanket around your house? Then this hoodie is right up your alley. The microfiber sherpa lining makes it feel just like your favorite winter blanket, while the oversized fit makes it easy to layer on top of whatever you're wearing. "The BEST oversized fleece," raved one reviewer. "Great for sitting at my grandkids' sports games...keeps you warm."

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This Television Backlight That Casts a Warm Inviting Glow

Amazon

Adding this backlight to the back of your television is an easy way to make any room feel warm and inviting. The included remote lets you switch between 12 different colors, though the warm white option is probably the best one for creating a hygge vibe in your home. And if you're worried about installation, it's as simple as peeling off the adhesive backing and pressing it right into place on the back of your television.

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A Bedside Lamp That Lights Up In 13 Different Colors

Amazon

Don't have a ton of space on your nightstand? Then this lamp is worth a look. Its compact base takes up hardly any space, and you can even adjust its brightness with a few gentle taps on the top. Each order also includes a remote to change its settings from afar. And with 13 different adjustable colors to choose from, setting a cozy vibe after a long day is a total breeze.

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This Extra-Large Heating Pad Covered In Soft, Plush Velvet

Amazon

Whether your back, shoulders, or legs are aching, this heating pad can help soothe soreness. The extra-large size helps you target more than one part of your body at the same time without having to move it around. You can also adjust its temperature up to six levels — and the velvet exterior gives it a soft feeling when pressed against the skin.

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The Remote Control Page Turner That's Compatible With Nearly Any Tablet

Amazon

You won't have to reach out from underneath that warm throw blanket to turn the pages on your e-reader when you have this remote control. There's no wi-fi necessary in order to get it up and running — simply connect it to your device using Bluetooth and it's ready to start working. Plus, it's compatible with just about any gadget, including Kindles, iPads, Android phones, and more.

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This Quirky Throw Blanket That Looks Just Like a Giant Tortilla

Amazon

Ever wonder what it would feel like to be wrapped inside a giant burrito? Grab this throw blanket and find out. The flannel material makes it perfect for chilly nights. And since it's printed to look just like a tortilla on both sides, it doesn't matter which one is facing up. If you aren't into burritos, you can also grab it as a waffle or pizza.

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The Cozy Blanket That’s Designed To Fit Over Your Office Chair

Amazon

There's a good chance you've never seen a blanket like this one before. Two sets of elastic straps let you secure it around your desk chair, making it great for chilly offices. The faux fur material also makes it just as cozy as it is soft — and while it's long enough to wrap around your body, it's still short enough that you won't have to worry about it snagging on your chair's castor wheels.

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A Cozy Shawl With Handy Pockets On Both Sides

Amazon

Not only is this shawl perfect for lounging around the house, but it also features pockets so that you have somewhere to stash your phone, remotes, and more. Reviewers reported that the oversized fit makes it easy to throw on top of whatever you're already wearing. And if you're worried about how it'll fare in the wash? One happy customer reported that "the stitching is strong, and it remains soft and intact even after multiple washes."

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A Warming Lamp That Lets You "Burn" Candles Without An Open Flame

Amazon

Burning candles can be dangerous when you have young children at home. Luckily, this warming lamp is a clever fix. The halogen bulb warms up the wax, gently melting your candles so that you can still enjoy their scent without risking an open flame. Plus, the height can be adjusted to fit candles up to six inches tall.

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The Essential Oil Diffuser That Can Run for Up To 20 Hours

Amazon

Not only does this essential oil diffuser feature seven color-changing LED lights to help you set a relaxing mood, but the extra-large reservoir also holds enough water to keep it running for up to 20 hours. The faux wood base makes it stand out from other diffusers made from plain plastic. But if that isn't enough? One reviewer wrote, "This works absolutely wonderful. I can turn off the light when I'm trying to sleep while still getting the wonderful smell of my oils."

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These Essential Oils That Come Packaged In Dark Amber Bottles

Amazon

Speaking of essential oils, make sure to grab this set if you just added that diffuser to your cart. Their dark amber bottles help keep the oil inside safe from UV light degradation for years on end — so there's no need to worry about them losing potency over time. Each order comes with six scents: eucalyptus, tea tree, orange, lemongrass, lavender, and peppermint.

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This Weighted Blanket That Can Help Calm Anxious Minds

Amazon

Does your mind always race when you're trying to fall asleep? Try snuggling underneath this weighted blanket. The added heft makes it feel like you're being wrapped in a giant hug, helping calm anxiety simply by lying underneath it. And while heavy, it isn't hot — so there's no need to worry about growing uncomfortably warm while you're asleep.

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These Faux Fur Throw Pillow Covers That Come In 9 Colors

Amazon

Add a luxurious touch to any couch or bed with these throw pillow covers. They're covered in plush faux fur and feature a hidden zipper that won't snag on hair while laying on them. "I really like these SUPER SOFT decorative pillowcases, and they add a great designer aesthetic to my bed/bedroom!" raved one reviewer. "I'm not kidding when I say they are SO SOFT." Choose from nine colors: gray, pink, white, black, and more.

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An Extra-Wide Office Chair That Lets You Sit Cross-Legged While You Work

Amazon

With an ergonomic design that helps reduce pressure on your hips and back, this chair deserves a spot in every home office. The armless design combined with the wide seat means you can comfortably sit cross-legged. And with six colors to choose from (blue, brown, mint, beige, gray, or pink), you shouldn't have any trouble matching it to however you've decorated.

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This Heated Throw Blanket Automatically Shuts Off After 3 Hours

Amazon

Forgetting to turn your heated blanket off can be a fire hazard. Luckily, this one has an automatic shut-off function that kicks in after three hours to help keep you safe. Its temperature is also adjustable up to four levels — and if it ever gets dirty, simply remove the controller before tossing it into the wash for a quick clean.

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The Stylishly Knitted Ottoman Made From 100% Cotton

Amazon

Consider this knitted ottoman a stylish addition to any room in your home. It's so sturdy that it can hold up to 330 pounds, making it suitable for use as a quick seat for guests in a pinch. The exterior is also made from 100% cotton — no polyester in sight — and the compact size means it'll take up hardly any space no matter where you place it.

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A Himalayan Salt Lamp Carved To Look Like a Gorgeous Flower

Amazon

Not only is this lamp made from real pink salt mined from the Himalayas, but it's also been carved to look just like a gorgeous flower bud. It emits a warm, cozy glow, making it great for setting a relaxing vibe after a long day of work. And unlike some lamps, this one comes with an attached dimmer switch.

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These LED Candles That Flicker Just Like the Real Thing

Amazon

Are you tired of always having to buy new candles? Then these LED ones are worth a look. The bulbs flicker like real flames, giving them an incredibly realistic look regardless of how far away they may be. Each order also includes a remote so you can turn them on and off without getting up from the couch.

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This Reed Diffuser That Looks Just As Good As It Smells

Amazon

This reed diffuser is one of those rare items that looks just as good as it works. The scented oil that comes with every order features notes of lavender, juniper, and eucalyptus, all of which come together to leave your home smelling oh-so-refreshed. The best part? The oil is so potent that it'll stay smelling good for up to 60 days.

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The LED Night Light That Won't Block the Second Outlet

Amazon

Whereas some night lights are so bulky that they block the second outlet, this one features a square shape that takes up minimal space, ensuring that the second outlet stays open for use. But if that isn't enough? The dusk-to-dawn sensor prevents it from turning on when it's still light out. Choose from seven colors: blue, purple, soft white, and more.

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This Wax Melter With A Cozy, Flame-Free Fireplace

Amazon

Not a fan of scented candles? Then this wax melter is a solid alternative that'll still fill your home with uplifting scents. The temperature is adjustable up to three levels, making it easy to control how quickly your wax melts — and the flame-free fireplace in the front is an undeniably hygge touch.

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These Scented Wax Melts That Come In Six Scents

Amazon

Don't forget to grab these wax melts if you added that melter to your cart. They come in six different Yankee Candle scents: home sweet home, midsummer's night, balsam and cedar, pink sands, sage and citrus, and white strawberry bellini. And with 18 melts in every order, you won't have to go out and buy another pack anytime soon.

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The Sunset Lamp That Casts a Cozy Glow Inside Any Room

Amazon

Creating a cozy vibe inside your home is as easy as turning on this sunset lamp. It features 21 different adjustable colors, all of which can be accessed using the convenient smartphone app — though that's just the start. You can also use the app to control its brightness, set it on a timer, as well as sync it with music so that it changes colors depending on what song you're playing. One reviewer wrote, "It was really easy to set up, and the app is really easy to get around."

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A Dinosaur Chicken Nugget Pillow That's Just Plain Fun

Amazon

This dinosaur chicken nugget pillow comes in a variety of shapes — from brontosaurus to stegosaurus — and the plush filling doesn't fall flat easily when you're using it to relax. Plus, many reviewers found it to be a total hit when used as a gift.

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This Faux Reindeer Hide That Makes Your Couch Look So Expensive

Amazon

We're huge fans of this faux reindeer hide. It adds a luxurious touch to your couch, and customers love the realistic look, the quality craftsmanship, and the value for the money. Plus, it creates the perfect cozy spot for a pet to lounge on.

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A Bundle Of Dried Eucalyptus That Makes Any Shower Feel Like a Spa

Amazon

Hang this dried eucalyptus inside your tub, and it'll fill your bathroom with its uplifting scent anytime you shower. Each branch has undergone a specialized preservation process to ensure they look fresh rather than old. Plus, there are even a few bits of lavender mixed in with the eucalyptus to help keep the smell from being overpowering.

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The Fairy Curtain Lights That Feature 8 Lighting Modes

Amazon

Slow fade, twinkle, waves — with eight different lighting modes to choose from, these fairy curtain lights can be used to set any sort of mood you like. At almost 10 feet long, they're suitable for windows, both large and small. One reviewer wrote, "These lights look exactly like the advertisement. They were easy to put up and gave a great ambiance. Highly recommend!"

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A Memory Foam Bed Topper That Breathes New Life Into Tired Mattresses

Amazon

Your bedroom can only be so cozy if your bed is uncomfortable — which is only part of the reason why we're a fan of this bed topper. It's made from soft memory foam that contours to the shape of your body, giving your head, neck, shoulders, back, and more support where you need it. And unlike some toppers, this one is infused with cooling gel to help keep you comfortable throughout the night.

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These LED Branches Are Great for Illuminating Dark Corners

Amazon

Can't figure out how to decorate that dark, dreary corner in your home? Then these LED branches are worth a look. Putting them inside a vase is all you need to do in order to get them looking good — and the brown bark texture gives them an incredibly realistic look, even when up close. "I use these as an accent in a tall vase, and it looks magnificent," wrote one reviewer. "My lights are still working after a year, and I use them weekly."

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Elegant Curtain Net for Your You Space

Amazon

Make your bedroom your ultimate oasis with the elegant curtain net for around your bed. Your room should look like a dream, and this adds a mystical quality to it for spending time in your happy place.

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