4 Ways Your Body Is Telling You to Check Your Mental Health

Thanks to politics, Americans are more stressed than ever. From career burnout to relationship problems, serious stress has probably affected your happiness in at least one way during the past few years. If you don’t put in the work to manage your stress, it can also manifest physically, causing all sorts of issues, like insomnia and super-tense muscles. Possibly scarier, though, is that even if you don’t realize you’re dealing with a mental health issue, it can cause some pretty surprising — and serious — physical symptoms. To help you become more aware of the impact your mental health has on your entire body, we asked doctors and psychologists to share some major physical symptoms that are linked to anxiety, stress, and depression, as well as a few more disorders.

Medically Unexplained Symptoms, Explained

When you’re experiencing unusual or painful symptoms and the doctors don’t have an easy answer, you may have a medically unexplained symptom (MUS), which is defined as a symptom “not accounted for by organ disease or a structural abnormality after running medical tests,” according to David D. Clarke, MD, president of the Psychophysiologic Disorders Association, who specializes in these difficult-to-diagnose problems. Unfortunately, he says that most physicians lack formal training in how to evaluate whether there’s a psychological cause for physical symptoms, so they often find these patients very frustrating.

Patients with no answers must feel frustrated too. And this isn’t a small problem. Physical symptoms caused by a mental disorder afflict about one in six adults, according to Dr. Clarke, who’s personally treated over 7,000 patients suffering from MUS. He says common mental causes include stress, anxiety, depression, lack of self-care skills, PTSD, and the lasting impact of childhood traumas. When emotional factors cause physical symptoms, the condition is called somatisation, and, if it’s severe or long-term, a somatoform disorder.

If testing and medical evaluations haven’t turned up a physical cause, doctors and patients should consider the person’s mental health. One barrier to faster identification of a somatoform disorder is that patients often don’t even know they’re dealing with major emotions. “This lack of awareness of emotions is common in people with stress-related symptoms, particularly when they are survivors of a dysfunctional childhood,” Dr. Clarke explains.

Physical Symptoms That May Mean You Should Get Your Mental Health Checked

1. You’re not regular or have major stomach pains. “Chronic digestive issues are often related to mental health, from diagnosable problems like irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and Crohn’s to mysterious complaints that doctors have trouble treating medically,” explains Rachel Kazez, a licensed therapist and the founder of All Along. Even constipation has been associated with depression, anxiety, and stress. In general, even if the digestion issue wasn’t originally caused by emotions, it usually gets much worse when a patient is suffering from stress or anxiety, since the stress overcomes the unconscious reflex a healthy gastrointestinal tract has.

2. You’re experiencing blurred vision or vertigo. While these are much less common physical manifestations of stress and depression, these vision issues have been linked to mental health in some patients, according to Dr. Clarke. As to the cause, Dr. Clarke shares that there are limited functional MRI studies of the brain as of now (they’re a bit different from an MRI because they measure brain activity by detecting changes in blood flow), but that they “show evidence of changes in nerve pathways in people who suffer from stress-related pain or other symptoms. For example, one study found that when you inflict pain on a patient with fibromyalgia, the areas in the brain that are activated differ from those of healthy people experiencing the same pain.” It’s fascinating that stress can have such a profound effect on the body.

3. You’re losing your hair or your weight is fluctuating a lot. Stress can definitely contribute to thyroid problems, and, according to Svetlana Kogan, MD, the opposite is also true: a thyroid condition can cause mental health issues. “Thyroid hormones are essential for proper mental functioning and emotional wellness,” instructs Dr. Kogan, explaining that when a thyroid is underactive (hypothyroidism), patients could gain weight or notice their hair is thinning, as well as suffer from depression. By the same token, she says, people with overactive thyroids (hyperthyroidism), who often experience weight loss and massive appetite, exhibit some degree of psychosis. “Everyone with these thyroid-related conditions should be screened for mental illness,” Dr. Kogan encourages.

4. You’re sick ALL the time. We hope you’ve never been this overextended, but if you have suffered from extreme stress, you may have gotten a headache, felt nauseated, or just had super-low energy. But did you know the stress you experience may actually be breaking down your immune system? “Recent research has shown that chronic stress is associated with the body having difficulty regulating the inflammatory response,” notes Linda Sacco, PhD, a licensed clinical social worker and VP of behavioral health services at Talkspace. “Inflammation is partly regulated by cortisol and if cortisol is unable to serve its function, it can’t assist in controlling the inflammation. The immune system can then become immune to cortisol, and various illnesses — such as frequent colds and infections — develop more frequently.” So Emergen-C and hand sanitizer may not be the answer when you find yourself getting hit with cold after cold. After you’ve been checked out by a doc, Dr. Sacco recommends setting up an appointment with a therapist: “Therapy can help to uncover and address the underlying causes of the distress, which may decrease the frequent illnesses.”

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You and your friends have likely spent countless hours together, decoding everything from imaginationships to the best comfort shows to watch when you're sad. You've probably even settled into a designated role within the group. Maybe you're the super adventurous one, always suggesting friend date ideas for the group to try, while someone else always knows how to comfort everyone when life gets rough. But, have you ever wondered if you're the most empathetic friend in the group? That's easy, just ask Brianna Paruolo, LCMCH. She's the founder and clinical director of On Par Therapyso she knows how to recognize signs you're an empath, plus how to take care of yourself!

How To Know If You're An Empath

  • Empathy is when "you feel what others are feeling."
  • There are physical, emotional, social, and mental signs that you're an empath.
  • You may be an empath if you get physically exhausted after being in crowds, feel anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments, feel responsible for other people's happiness, or you find it hard to distinguish your own feelings from someone else's.

Are there really assigned roles in friend groups or am I just imagining things?

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Like I said before, it can seem like you and your friends unintentionally gravitate toward certain 'roles.' It's not like anyone woke up one day and decided, "I'm going to be the 'mother hen' of the group," but it tends to happen. Why?

Paruolo says, "In my clinical work, I've consistently observed that our friendship roles often mirror our early family dynamics. These patterns show up naturally — think about who in your friend group gets the first crisis call, who plans all the gatherings, or who everyone turns to for emotional support." I'm willing to bet you thought of a name for each scenario — including yours — because I know I did!

"Like in families, we each fall into specific roles that feel familiar to us," Paruolo further explains.

What actually makes someone an empathetic person?

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There's so many definitions for empathy, but I thought it would be wise to ask a licensed professional for her opinion on the matter. "Empathy means to feel what others are feeling. You do not have to have a personal direct experience with something to feel empathy for another person," shares Paruolo.

For example, your friend could call to tell you she has to have fibroid removal surgery and is feeling scared. You may have never had surgery, but you could find yourself feeling the need to comfort her in spite of this. Paruolo says, "The cool thing about our brains is that we have mirror neurons, which means part of our brain is set up to feel what others feel. The ability to attune to others' emotional states comes naturally to some people, while others may need to develop this capacity more consciously."

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To break it down even further, here's signs that Paruolo says point to your empathetic nature.

Physical Signs:

  • Getting physically exhausted after being in crowds
  • Feeling drained after social interactions, even enjoyable ones (OMG I feel so seen!)
  • Needing extra time alone to recharge

Emotional Signs:

  • Absorbing other people's emotions like a sponge
  • Feeling anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments
  • Finding it hard to watch violence or cruelty in movies/TV

Social Signs:

  • Feeling responsible for others' happiness
  • Having trouble saying "no" to people who need help

Mental Signs:

  • Picking up on subtle changes in others' moods
  • Being highly attuned to body language and tone
  • Finding it hard to distinguish your feelings from others' feelings

It sounds like I'm the empathetic friend, but are there any downsides to this?

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I've been an empath for as long as I can remember and I've found that I have to 'recharge' my social batteries at times. I thought it was because I was trying to be superwoman by fixing others' problems, but it turns out theres more to it than that. Paruolo says, "Empathetic friends and people have an uncanny ability to sense others' emotional states even when unspoken, and frequently need recovery time after intense social interactions. They tend to be deeply affected by others' experiences and naturally consider situations from multiple perspectives."

In the long run, she says it can be "distressing" for some people to always feel the feelings of others. Over time, she says, "it can cause you to shut down and retract." This can look like not being as quick to respond to the funny memes your friends send you or not even answering their phone calls right away.

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But, this doesn't mean you're the only person who tends to go through this. "Many empaths struggle with maintaining boundaries due to their deep emotional attunement," she says. Color me guilty because this sounds so much like me. It got so bad at one point that my sister nicknamed me 'Captain Save-A-Lot,' which is actually the clean version of what she truly meant. Still, empathy fatigue is no laughing matter nor does it mean you're defected. You just have the natural ability to show people their feelings are important to you.

How can I protect my peace as the empathetic friend?

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You know you need to set boundaries, but what does that mean? Paruolo says, "The key is understanding that empathy needs to be balanced with compassion - it's not just about feeling others' emotions but also knowing how to help without depleting yourself."

One of the things she loves to do is "encourage empaths to set clear boundaries around their emotional availability and make time for regular grounding exercises." As with gratitude journaling, try to focus on an activity that calls for you to be present. Focus on what you can hear, see, touch, taste, and smell.

"Self-care isn't just a luxury; it's essential maintenance for empaths. This might mean scheduling alone time, finding a supportive therapist, or joining communities where you can process your experiences," Paruolo implores.

I know how to be there for others, but how do I ask for emotional support when I need it?

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You may feel like it's impossible to ask others for help since your shoulders are the ones people cry on, but you're only doing yourself a disservice by not speaking up. No one's super resilient or able to handle all of their distressing feelings alone. We're not meant to.

It's the reason Paruolo wants you to speak up about what you need. "The most effective approach I've seen is being direct about your needs rather than hoping others will figure them out," she says. I made this mistake during postpartum and found myself expecting my family & friends to know exactly how I felt, but they're not mind readers. The more I verbally asked for help with little or big tasks, the more my mental and emotional load lightened.

Paruolo wants you to look at "asking for support as strengthening your friendships through trust and vulnerability, instead of waiting until you're overwhelmed." By the time you reach that point, you'll be ready to enter rage or full-blown shut down mode and they're not fun.

Avoid unlocking their proverbial doors by scheduling "regular check-ins with trusted friends," suggests Paruolo. "This creates a sustainable support system and helps prevent emotional crisis points.

We have even more self-care stories for you to dive into if you need a mental and emotional boost!

If there's one thing about Gilmore Girls fans you can count on, it's their passion. They love the quirky one liners, memorable moments, and are usually either Team Jess or Team Logan (sorry Dean...). Give any Gilmore Girls lover in your life the chance to transport themselves to Stars Hollow this holiday season — without having to make the trek to Washington, Connecticut or the Warner Bros. stage in Hollywood. These Gilmore Girls gift ideas are fun, thoughtful, and very cozy, which are also three hallmarks of the series itself! From a coffee mug that Luke Danes would approve of to the perfect gifts for Taylor Swift fans, this Gilmore Girlsgift guide will make you say "Oy with the poodles already!"

Keep reading for 24 Gilmore Girls-themed gift ideas for 2024.

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The Third Gilmore Girl: A Memoir

Get all the behind the scenes info you could ever dream of when you pick up Kelly Bishop's new memoir!

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Loungefly Gilmore Girls Icons Mini Backpack

I was absolutely gagged the first time I saw this backpack. Tiny pizza slices, both the Luke's Diner and Chilton logos, AND the gazebo? I need this, like, right now.

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Sunday Best Peggy Sweater

Consider this white cable knit sweaterthe Rory Gilmore sweater for the season. I cannot stop wearing mine. It's super soft and the perfect medium weight (meaning you won't be cold but you also won't feel weighed down). It's also not itchy at all. I love wearing it with jeans, or tucked into trousers or a skirt.

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Cotton Baseball Hat

For a more subtle nod to the fashion on the show, a blue baseball cap gives major Luke Danes vibes without having to walk around wearing Gilmore Girls merchandise. Wear it with a crewneck and oversized coat now (hello '90s "It" girl!) and a tee shirt come spring.

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Channel your inner Rory with the Book of the Month subscription service. The cool part about someone else picking out the books is that you'll find titles — and authors — you didn't even know to look for.

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Espresso Martini Statement Earrings

It wouldn't be an episode of Gilmore Girls without a cup of coffee, or a martini at one of Richard and Emily's Friday night dinners. Combine the two iconic beverages with these statement earrings! They're bold, they're quirky, and they'll be the talk of all your holiday parties.

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Stars Hollow "Autumn Festival" Travel Poster

Nothing screams Stars Hollow like a festival, and this autumnal poster celebrates the best parts of small town life. Whether you choose to display it in a gallery wall or on a bookshelf, you'll feel like you're coming home every time you look at it.

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Luke's Diner Mug

With a Luke's Diner mug, you can pretend you really are in Stars Hollow. Bonus points if you're also having a big stack of pancakes!

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Gilmore Iced Coffee Glass Cup

If you're more of an iced coffee fan, even in the winter (I wonder what Luke would have to say about that?), grab a glass with a super cute design. Not only do I love that Rory and Lorelai are featured in the design, but the color palette is beautiful, too!

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Gina White Poodle

Getting your little into the Gilmore Girls spirit? They definitely need a lovable stuffed dog. Again I say, "Oy with the poodles already!"

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Colorful Bandana

For another low-key nod to the ultimate BFF's, grab a bandana in your favorite color (like this one that uses untreated, non-GMO cotton!). In true Y2K fashion, Sookie and Lorelai wear bandanas throughout the show, so this is a super fun way to incorporate their style into your own closet this winter.

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Dragonfly Necklace

A delicate dragonfly necklace is a beautiful layering piece that will add summer cheer to the dreariest of winter days and remind you of Dragonfly Inn at the same time. The fact that dragonflies represent new beginnings is just the cherry on top.

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Gilmore Girl Eras Shirt

Have you been binging Gilmore Girls during the day and watching Eras Tour TikTok livestreams at night? This T-shirt has your name written all over it. My personal favorite detail is that Kirk is in the debut square.

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Stars Hollow Christmas Festival Sweatshirt

There's nothing like layering a turtleneck, a crewneck, and a bunch of jewelry for a trip to your corner coffee shop, so swap your go-to crewneck for this festive Stars Hollow one! The gazebo is instantly recognizable for Gilmore Girls fans and just looking at the design makes me want to say, "I smell snow."

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Gilmore Girls: Complete Series Collection

One of my favorite Christmas presents in recent years was the full Gilmore Girls DVD set. This 42-disc DVD set has every single episode and even more hours of unaired clips, behind the scenes features, and episode commentaries. I'm geeking out just thinking about it.

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Gilmore Girls: The Official Cookbook

Gilmore Girls recipes are always delicious, and always pretty easy (after all, Lorelai and Rory basically only eat takeout and Luke's!). The official cookbook will let you put your own spin on the food you seen onscreen, and then you can have a truly meta experience by eating your meal while you watch the Gilmores eat theirs.

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Gilmore Girls: Trivia Deck and Episode Guide

Tried-and-true Gilmore Girls fans will love diving into this trivia book. Because this game (which features 200 questions) has an 88-page episode guide and goes through every. Single. Episode. Worth it!

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Gilmore Girls: At Home in Stars Hollow

TBH, I think kids books are great for book lovers of any age. The art and simple storytelling really get my creative juices flowing. At Home In Stars Hollow will make you (or a family member or friend) love Gilmore Girls in a whole new way!

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Stars Hollow Scented Candle

This all-natural soy candle has every scent a Gilmore Girls fan will love: coffee, sweet cream, and vanilla. It's cozy and balances sweet and bitter in a really intoxicating way.

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Lorelai and Rory Gilmore Plush

Okay, I'll be honest. I want these plushes for myself! The design is a hilarious nod to the season one episode "The Lorelais' First Day At Chilton" and even features a tiny coffee mug and tiny book!

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Gilmore Girls Socks

Now that we're in knee-high boot season (which I FINALLY bought), I like to wear super fun, colorful, and chaotic socks. Grab a pack of Gilmore Girls socks to take some Stars Hollow magic with you no matter where you go.

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Gilmore Girls Themed Blind Date with a Book

For this bookish blind date, you'll receive a Rory-themed read, a tea bag, a bookmark, and stickers. You really can't go wrong.

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Stars Hollow Books Tote Bag

Carrying your favorite books in a tote bag with the Stars Hollow Books logo feels like it's meant to be.

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Have I Told You This Already?: Stories I Don't Want to Forget to Remember

Lauren Graham's collection of essays will give you a glimpse behind the curtain as she offers thoughtful stories about life, aging, and the industry.

Which gifts from this Gilmore Girls gift guide will you be buying for your friends (or yourself)? Let us know in the comments!

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Lately, we've been faced with anxiety everywhere we turn. It's okay if (like us), you don't always know how to deal with the toughest of times, especially when the tough times never seem to end. If you are feeling that way, we're right there with you! Our team has always shared the ways we cope with our personal stressors over the years, and we wanna share these quick and easy tips for how to calm down with you! Keep reading for our recommendations — hopefully they can help the next time you're feeling anxious.

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Intentional Thoughts

I'm someone who has a hard time letting things go; I can agonize over one thought or situation for days! Because of this, I focus a lot on taking thoughts captive, which just means pinpointing anxious thoughts and replacing them with what I know is true.

When I have an anxious thought, I do a creative visualization exercise in which I imagine it's inside a bubble floating over my head. Then I slam an imaginary door over the memory and lock it. Then the bubble explodes and the thought doesn't exist anymore. It's not necessarily pretending like it never happened, but it does allow me to exercise some control over what I allow myself to spend time and energy thinking about.

—Choe Williams, Entertainment Editor

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Breathing Techniques

My mom is a Pre-K teacher and suggested I try the breathing exercises she does with her kids who are just four years old (I'm 31 for context). The first is called Mountain Breathing, which entails holding up your hand and tracing the outline of your fingers. As you climb up the mountain (or your finger), inhale, and as you trace down into the valley between your fingers, exhale. Another breathing visualization she recommends is as you inhale, imagine yourself breathing in to smell the flowers, and exhale to blow out a candle. These little imaginative scenarios help me get out of my head and focus on my breathing when I need a little reset throughout the day.

Hammock Swinging

Whenever I'm feeling super stressed, I head for the hammock I setup in my front yard. Just as rocking can soothe babies, swinging in a hammock is a powerful soother for adults too! I feel super chilled afterwards and am usually getting some Vitamin D while I'm at it for a win-win.

Painting

During the pandemic, I revisited arts and crafts with soft pastels. I started mixing the colors and doing gradient shadings on card stock with my hands, and it proved to be a super meditative way to decompress. The end result is DIY art you can share or pin on your fridge or wall.

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Breathing Techniques

Nothing calms me down quite like alternate-nostril breathing. I first learned about this technique in my yoga classes, but the practice (called Nadi Shodhana in Sanskrit) dates back to the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, which was thought to be written sometime between 200 BC and 200 CE. Put simply, you sit in a comfortable position, close your eyes, and cover one nostril while you breathe in through the other. Then, you switch which nostril you're holding closed, and breathe out. In modern times, the connection between vagal nerve tone (which is correlated with anxiety and emotional regulation) and alternate-nostril breathing is becoming more and more mainstream, which may eventually help us better understand why this practice is so naturally calming.

Tarot Reading

Tarot can mean a lot of different things to different people. For me, I use tarot cards as a method to help me understand what lessons I'm learning at any given time. This has allowed me to view stressors in my life as learning experiences, which has helped me stay calm in numerous crises. I personally like to light some incense or a scented candle, sit quietly, and pull a card to see what resonates. That said, tarot and its associated images and meanings can be scary or triggering if you don't have a deep and gentle understanding of what the cards mean. I recommend Lindsay Mack's classes and podcasts for anyone who wants to learn about tarot in a non-judgemental, non-predictive, trauma-informed way.

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Sensory Accessories

My recent ways of coping/de-stressing have primarily been spiky sensory finger rings, which are a huge help when I need to get something done and can't stop my day to destress. I grab one of these guys which I have all over the place (most of my jacket pockets + purses), and it helps to calm me down and reset my focus.

Meditation On The Move

Another thing I do that I am trying to integrate into my daily routine is guided meditation walks. As someone who hasn't mastered sitting meditation I've found some on Headspace that I'm enjoying that are specifically for going on a walk through a city.

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Baths...

In times of high stress, or after a long day, my go-to is always a candle-lit bath soak. I put a large scoop of Epsom salts in the tub with a few drops of my favorite essential oil and place tea lights all around the tub. It’s like my secret getaway from the rest of the world. I always make a point to leave my phone in the other room too so I utilize the time to just relax in silence. Water triggers the parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for the body's “rest and digest” response. It always gets my heart rate and blood pressure down.

...And Sound Baths

Sound baths are a meditative experience where you’re “bathed” in sound waves. I love to watch them online but you can also create your own experience. I find meditating with a singing bowl so relaxing. It can take a little practice, but once you’ve nailed the hand movement, it’s an interactive way to ease stress and channel your focus elsewhere.

—Allison Cimo, Former Social Media Manager

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Take A Hike

Pretty much every day in 2020 I walked the trails near my house and I started to pick up a small rock each time. I'd fidget with it while I cleared my mind and let nature calm my nerves. I would throw the rock back into nature after my hike and it felt like a release for all of my worries.

Bedtime Music

My daughter and I listen to Doze sleep music on Headspace before we go to bed. It calms her late-night zoomies (and mine) and gets her to sleep in minutes!

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Journaling

What I use for my anxiety is the Intelligent Change Five Minute Journal. I have a safe word in place for when I feel myself spiraling or I'm not able to control my thoughts and breathing.

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Angelina Jolie has always been mother — but she's also a literal mother to six kids whom she clearly cares about fiercely. Since she first adopted Zahara, Maddox, and Pax to giving birth to Vivienne and Knox, it's always been evident that her children are her entire world. While she rarely talks about her children (especially given her highly contested divorce at the moment), Angelina shared a little slice of her feelings on motherhood, insights on her children, and more with Good Morning America.

Here's what Angelina Jolie had to say about her kids — including which one of them is the most private!

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Angelina opened up about her feelings for her family while chatting about her new movie Maria with Good Morning Americaon November 21, 2024. Host Michael Strahan asked Angie about if there's anything she loves as much as her character loves singing, and she replied that it's her "motherhood."

"It’s my happiness. You can take everything else away from me," she said. "I could — nothing else matters."

When asked about her sons' involvement in Maria, Angelina explained that despite their involvement behind the scenes, they're very uninterested in a life in the spotlight. She said, "None of my children want to be in front of the camera. They're quite private."

Angelina elaborated, "Shiloh's extremely private. They weren't born with privacy, so I hope they can have that."

This interview comes after Angelina and Knox attended the Governor's Awards with her on November 18, 2024. His rare appearance shocked so many — including Brad. Daily Mail reported that Pitt found the timing "suspicious."

The source said, "'She is trying to get under his skin after his recent win and using Knox to do so is odd. Knox wants nothing to do with Hollywood and has no communication with Brad."

Despite the weirdness, the source also said, "He [Brad] believes that, in time, his children will come back into his life."

How many kids does Angelina Jolie have?

Angelina Jolie has six children. She adopted Zahara, Maddox, and Pax, and later gave birth to Vivienne and Shiloh. She shares her children with Brad Pitt, most of whom aren't on good terms with him at the moment.

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The 'EveryGirl' is the sort of girl who loves the simple, classic, and essential. She loves timeless silhouettes, effortless style, and laid-back elegance. Some love their accessories, some love trying new flavors, and some are all about fashion finds. We've rounded up the top 41 essentials that you need to buy this year for the EveryGirl on your gift list (including yourself).

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This Gorgeous Gold Pendant Is a Staple

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This stunning pendant can be worn and styled all the time with everything in anyone's closet. The necklace is a classic piece that's effortless and easy and offers a little elegance to any 'fit.

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A Cleanser Made With Natural Ingredients

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TikTok users have raved about this cleanser infused with kale and green tea. It helps remove toxins from your skin's surface and pores. Thanks to its gentle formula, it's safe to use with any skin type and can remove makeup at the end of the day.

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You Can Style These Flats With Anything

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Any EveryGirl would be thrilled to be gifted these beautiful flats. The colors are neutral, the shape is elegant, and the soles are comfortable enough that they'll enjoy wearing them all day.

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Finish Any Meal With a Drizzle of This Oil

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This incredible, smooth, flavorful Graza olive oil is a wonderful way to top off all your favorite meals. The EveryGirl in your life who loves to cook and try new recipes is going to love this oil.

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This Electric Kettle Is a Stylish Essential

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Brew up tea, coffee, and other delicious warm drinks with this electric kettle. The kettle heats quickly, holds temperatures for hours at a time, and helps you to relax and unwind at the end of a long day.

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This Scrub Is a Dream for Their Skin

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This salt scrub works to gently but deeply exfoliate, helping to remove dead and dry skin while leaving the skin soft and hydrated after every use. And it smells fantastic, too, which is always a good thing.

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Get a Clean, Fresh Face WIth These Starface Patches

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The famous Starface patches are hydrocolloid-based, helping to soothe redness, dry out breakouts, and even prevent future breakouts. Pop one on overnight and watch it go to work.

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This Bathtub Tray Helps Them Relax

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Give the gift of relaxation with this bathtub tray. The tray has plenty of space and helpful holders for all the bathtime essentials, from glasses to phones to your favorite book and candle.

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This Chunky Choker Is a Bold Spin on a Classic

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This beautiful chunky choker is something entirely unexpected, offering something just a little different and exciting to any outfit. The necklace is timeless, bold, and so fun to style.

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These Hair Clips Won't Mess Up Your Style

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You've heard about the no-bend hair clips, but these clips are even more exciting than the typical options. Your EveryGirl is going to love having these on hand for the pre-party prep.

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This Phone Case Is Classic and Simple

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This protective case is a classic tortoiseshell design that's always in style. The case is rated to protect from short drops so you don't have to worry about your precious, and pricey, phone being destroyed.

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This Stumptown Coffee Is a Winner

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EveryGirls love morning drinks, whether it's coffee, matcha, or something else entirely. This Stumptown coffee was made for the EveryGirl who can't get enough of the delicious, caffeine-packed morning brew.

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This Beautiful Rug Brings a Room Together

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Tie their favorite room together with this gorgeous rug. The fabric is durable and thick but also manages to be soft enough for your feet. This rug won't show dirt or stains easily, which makes it a total win.

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This Pore Cleaning Toner Works Hard

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Give the gift of clean and clear skin with this brilliant toner. This product is gentle but super effective, clearing out pores and leaving skin feeling and looking fresh, bright, and totally clean.

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This Nylon Bag Is an Affordable Version of the Viral Sensation

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Have you seen the much pricier viral crescent bag? This bag is just as good, incredibly high-quality, super stylish, and it's a fraction of the cost. It's essential for the casual EveryGirl who loves fashion.

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This Cream Offers Deep Hydration

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The famous Tatcha cream gives your skin incredible hydration that feels lightweight and won't leave skin greasy. The cream is made to replenish ceramides, protecting the skin as it smoothes.

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The Breville Espresso Machine Was Made for Coffee Lovers

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This is a major gift, but it's perfect for the coffee-obsessed EveryGirl on your list. The machine is easy to use and creates delicious, smooth shots of espresso and foamy lattes or cappuccinos.

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This Body Wash Smells Fantastic

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Body wash might seem like a strange gift, but this Salt & Stone wash is definitely on your EveryGirl's wishlist. The fantastically-scented product is paraben-, sulfate-, and dye-free for gentle cleansing.

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This Square Neck Top Is a Classic

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This top can be styled with all your favorite bottoms, from jeans to skirts. EveryGirls will love that this top is a beautiful mix of comfort and elegance, making the perfect addition to any wardrobe.

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This Poster Adds Joy to Any Space

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Bring joy to your EveryGirl with this brilliant poster. This print is fun, bright, and made to remind you of the joy and beauty of every day. Add a frame to it for a really lovely, thoughtful gift.

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This Matcha Powder Is Delicious and Smooth

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Gift your EveryGirl a tasty cup of matcha every morning with this Chamberlain powder. Help them save a little money and cultivate an intentional, meaningful morning routine every day.

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Say Goodbye to Pores With This Foundation

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This powder foundation is a brilliant way to get an even skin tone and texture, helping to blur pores and prevent settling into fine lines and wrinkles. It's a must-have for the EveryGirl who prefers minimal makeup looks.

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This Makeup Bag Is Fun and Spacious

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They can store all their favorite minimal makeup products in this beautiful bag. The spacious case is perfect for traveling with the double liner made to protect from spills or breaks inside.

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These Loafers Are Essential

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Amazon Essentials knocked it out of the park with these loafers. The soft, flexible shoes are great for the office or for dressing up those more informal outfits. Choose from a handful of gorgeous, neutral colors.

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This Concealer Is Professional-Quality

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This lightweight, creamy concealer is a long-wearing, crease-resistant formula made to give plenty of coverage without feeling heavy or cakey. It's a great buy for the makeup lover on your list.

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Your EveryGirl Will Love This Highlighter Set

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These highlighters are all over TikTok. Not only do these give you a smooth mark across the page, but they come in a gorgeous set of colors that are neutral and different in the best way.

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This Ribbed Top Is a Classic Style

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This ribbed crop top is long-sleeved for something a little different than what your EveryGirl usually wears. Choose from a handful of colors ranging from neutrals to bold, bright neons.

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This Tote Bag Is So Much Fun

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You might not consider corduroy to be a good material for a tote bag, but this one proves just how great it is. The smiley face bag is durable and spacious, making it a great buy for the EveryGirl in your life.

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This Pour-Over Maker Is Easy to Use

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This beautiful pour-over setup from OXO is simple to use and easy to take with you when you travel. The neutral colors and the sturdy, dishwasher-safe body make it a kitchen staple.

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These Prints Add a Pop of Color

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Bring on the color with this gorgeous set of travel prints. Those who love to travel will love decorating their homes with these beautiful, bright, and eye-catching prints of major cities.

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This Oversized Tee Is Trendy and Classic

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It might sound odd to say this shirt can be both trendy and classic, but it's true. The oversized look is in right now, but this casual graphic tee will remain in style no matter how much fashion changes.

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This Cottagecore Comforter Set Makes Sleeping a Dream

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Your EveryGirl is going to love this stunning cottagecore set. The comforter is cozy, soft, and not too heavy. The style is elegant and adds just a touch of vintage to their home decor.

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Layer Up With This Beautiful Necklace Stack

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This delicate chain stack is an easy way to embrace the layered look that the whole world can't stop talking about. These gorgeous gold chains are affordable and hypoallergenic for sensitive skin.

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This Loungewear Set Is Slimming

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If your EveryGirl loves to lounge, this beautiful set is a must. This loungewear set is super comfortable and makes you look incredibly cool, even when you're just lying on the couch.

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This Oversized Tee Is Always a Good Idea

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Keep your EveryGirl cool and comfortable in this oversized tee. Whether they wear it to work out or style it with a pair of bike shorts, this top is always a good idea for every body type.

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This Set of Sheets Is Made to Last

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The EveryGirl enjoys practical gifts, which is what makes this set of sheets a great option. These are durable, designed to hold up to years of use, and they're incredibly comfy and breathable.

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Enjoy a Peel Without Any Irritation With This Mask

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This Bliss jelly peel is a non-abrasive cleanser that nourishes and hydrates your skin without damaging it. The vegan and cruelty-free product smooths your skin without causing irritation.

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This Large Tote Has All the Space You Need

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Your EveryGirl won't have to worry about running out of space with this canvas tote. The reinforced bottom makes it durable and sturdy, and all the pockets give you storage for days.

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Keep Them Warm in This Oversized Cardigan

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This cardigan is one of those pieces that always looks good, no matter what you add it to. They'll reach for this sweater every day and think of you lovingly as they get warm and cozy.

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This Clock Is Timeless

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Help your EveryGirl to nail their home style with this beautiful, timeless timepiece. This wall clock is gorgeous, understated, and the sort of elegant piece that's going to look amazing in their home office.

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This Mockneck Sweater Is So Stylish

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The oversized fit of this sweater means it's not just stylish but also comfortable. There's plenty of room in this sweater, and the checkered pattern keeps it fun and different from anything else in your EveryGirl's wardrobe.

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