4 Habits Women With Tons Of Friends All Have In Common

Jasmine Williams
Nov 15, 2024

Have you ever wondered why it seems some women always have the best friendships? We're talking about on the level of Sex and the Cityor Insecure. It's debatable whether some of those friends are toxic or not, but that's another story. The point is, it seems like some women have the best luck when it comes to building fun and supportive platonic relationships.

Are there unique qualities women in this position share? According to friendship coach Zoe Asher and licensed therapist Nicolle Osequeda, the answer is yes! Asher is host of the top-rated Accidentally Intentional podcast while Osequeda is the owner and founder of Lincoln Park Therapy Group, giving them an inside look at how people tend to approach all types of relationships!

Let's dive in!

Here are the unique qualities women with lots of friends share.

1. Women with a lot of friends value connection & community.

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The one thing everyone with a solid group of friends can agree on is how it feels like you've built your own supportive community. Friends are often the first people we turn to with good or bad news, or the ones we simply want to go on adventures with. Osequeda says, "Women with strong friendship circles often value connection, community, and the power of vulnerability."

There's a realization that women in this unique position are able to "recognize that life is richer with a support system," says Osequeda. This involves "people who will listen, validate, and be there through both the highs and lows" she adds. From the friend who stayed up with you all night after a bad breakup to the one who cheered the loudest at your graduation, women who have a huge friend circle know that life feels better when we can connect with others.

Based on her experience as a therapist, she's "observed how women start friendships by gradually sharing layers of themselves." This can look like "having children at the same school or bonding over shared interests," she adds. This vulnerability is important because it creates a foundation that signals to women they've found their tribe.

2. Women with multiple friendships are open to vulnerability.

Like Osequeda mentioned, vulnerability can deepen our friendships. "These women are open to sharing the 'messy' parts of themselves which builds a deeper, more authentic bond." Also, she notes women with a lot of friends "aren't afraid to shed layers and be real" because "this vulnerability strengthens their sense of community." The more this happens over time, the more it "helps foster the connections" women with a lot of friends "cherish," according to Osequeda.

Honestly, she says "we’re all wired to seek out connection, and friendships provide that sense of community, validation, and belonging." She believes we truly "crave spaces where we can share our thoughts and feelings about what truly matters to us."

Asher believes women with lots of friends are "usually drawn towards one another in friendship" based on two levels:

  • Level 1: Shared interests, appearance of confidence, a positive energy that they feel (smiling helps with this!)
  • Level 2: (When in conversation) the safety they feel when speaking to another person, [emotional compatibility], how engaged the person is in conversation, and a desire to learn more about them, ultimately to find shared values.

This determines how women move forward in friendships. The approach is often led with "a deep sense of authenticity and care," according to Osequeda. "This is because women want relationships where they can be themselves, sharing hopes, dreams, and frustrations without judgment."

3. Women who have a lot of friends like other people they're friends with.

Again, the fact women with lots of friends actually like the people in their chosen circle is monumental. Asher says, "An interesting Yale study done in 2003 sought to look at 'popularity' in high schools to see if they could find something that all of the most liked and most popular kids had in common (outside of being a jock, etc.,)."

The common thread? "THEY liked the highest amount of people," Asher reveals. I talk about being a people pleaser a lot, but genuinely liking others isn't the same as that. IMO, it's actually admirable when people can respect others regardless of their race, religion, socioeconomic status, or sexuality.

She knows you're likely asking, "How does this apply to women having a lot of friends?" Her answer? "Across the board, the principle here is that women with the most friends are continuously on a hunt to find good and likable things about others."

However, this isn't based on a selfish need or want. "They've determined that the time invested in others is of mutual benefit," says Asher because "the biggest coast in adult female friendships is time — the most finite resource we all share in common."

4. These women also don't mind making new friends.

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While making friends as adults shouldn't be hard, it definitely doesn't mean it comes easily. From overthinking to social anxiety, there's so many reasons why we struggle. Also, this idea we're doing fine without friends isn't exactly helpful or positive. Asher says, "The CDC has said that the impacts of loneliness on our bodies are more harmful than smoking 15 cigarettes A DAY! Making time for quality friendships (and the pursuit of it) is just as important for your physical state as working out is."

Where should you start if you want to forge new friendships? Osequeda says, "Start within communities that already resonate with you — whether it’s your child’s school, your workplace, a gym, dog park or a shared hobby. Places where you already belong create natural opportunities to connect." She even suggests giving "apps like Bumble BFF or local meet-up groups" a chance because they "can also help you find like-minded friends." But don't think you're limited to this!

Though Asher agrees that women tend to approach "friendships by trying to find commonalities right from the beginning," she says you don't have to confine yourself to this formula. "The reason I don't think this is best is because we are boxing ourselves in when we do this. The greatest friends could be on the other side of the stereotypes we're creating," she notes. Taking it a step further, Asher shared her own experience with this. "I watched all 3 of my best friends get married and have kids all before I ever got married. On the outside, most women would think 'They don’t have anything in common.' But on the inside, the character traits and values we each were looking for were mutual, and that became a more important compass for our friendship than the stage in life we were each in."

She was even surprised she'd become close to her best friends because of how things looked externally. "We had nothing in common, but I'm so glad I didn't box myself in," she says excitedly.

Here Are Even More Ways To Make New Friends!

Asher has three ways you can open yourself up to new adult friendships if you're interested.

  1. The most important place to start is our mindset. We have to first decide “I don’t want to be lonely anymore, and I’m worth having meaningful friendships.” When we make that decision, then we give ourselves permission and the courage to step out and take action in that! Important note about this: there was a study done at Stanford that revealed that people are 1.5x MORE likely to accept us than we think they are! So don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back!
  2. Go first. Make the ask, and then make the plans! Saying “We should hang out sometime” is ineffective because “sometime” isn’t a day on the calendar! We cannot wait for other people to want to pursue a friendship with us, because most of us are in this same boat — not knowing where to start! We can pursue connection, get plugged into a community (examples: book club, fitness class, church, etc), or create our own connections by just inviting someone over to our house/apartment. The biggest thing we need to remind ourselves of that is to stop making excuses, or pre-determining how we think people will respond!
  3. Again, don’t box yourself in. Don’t let your preconceived notions of what you think your archetype of a friend will look like stop you from spending time with others who don't fit that label. As addressed above, the friendships we’ve been looking for our whole lives could be right behind the stereotypes we’ve created! It’s more about character traits than it is about the external compatibility of hobbies or stages of life.

Osequeda's last piece of advice? "If you already have a friend group, meeting friends of friends is another great way to grow your circle. They key is taking that first step with a little bit of vulnerability — start a conversation, ask a question, and show interest." She's sure "it's these small moments of openness that create lasting connections!"

Want to know if you've taken on a certain role in your friendships? Discover the 11 ways you can tell if you're an empath!

Paul Mescal Just Accidentally Proved He Always Has Daisy Edgar-Jones Top Of Mind

There's nothing ~normal~ about how much we love Normal People's Paul Mescal & Daisy Edgar-Jones. While it turns out we're not getting a Normal People season 2 (yet), the two actors are starring in some of 2024's biggest blockbusters (Twisters and Gladiator II, namely), and we've been soaking up their presences ever since.

Paul recently exhibited his ongoing friendship with Daisy at the Gladiator II premiere in Los Angeles. While he approached Brittany Broski on the red carpet for an interview, he recognized her from her recent 'Royal Court' interview with Daisy:

"You were with Daisy!" he chimed in excitingly. We just love this power duo!

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Daisy Edgar-Jones also revealed that she's remained incredibly close to Paul Mescal after their time on Hulu's Normal People. "Paul is one of my lifetime best friends," she says. "He’s an incredibly grounded person and I am too, I think, so it’s nice to be able to have those touchstones and those people you can laugh about it with and be lighthearted with. We met when I was 20 and Paul was 22; I’m so excited to see where we’ll be at 32, 42, and what life will bring us."

But the coolest thing is that not only is Normal People special for Paul and Daisy, but they've also been able to see the effect of the show on its fans.

"The thing I love people saying the most is, 'It made me contact my ex,'" Daisy continues. "Especially when much older people say, 'I just wanted to reach out to the person I was with when I was 17 just to say you were a big part of my history and thanks for being part of who I am, the tapestry of my life.' And that I really love, because I’m a massive romantic."

Daisy recently revealed they bonded over their training for Twisters and Gladiator II.

"I did running lessons — isn’t that crazy?" she told Variety. "Actually, Paul [Mescal] and I were laughing about it, because he was training for 'Gladiator II' and I was training for 'Twisters,' and obviously he had to be huge and I was like, 'Don’t worry, I’m going to be right up there with you.'"

Let us know your favorite Normal People moment in the comments and check out 5 Leading Ladies We'd Love To See In A Paul Mescal Rom-Com.

This post has been updated with additional reporting by Meredith Holser.

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9 Easy Holiday Hairstyles You Can Effortlessly Recreate At Home

Fretting over which hairstyles to choose from now that you know you're going to a holiday party? Please don't because we've got 9 ideas that are super easy to recreate at home. We know you want to look your best, but it's not worth stressing over. All you have to do is figure out if you're looking to wear a ponytail or a bob. Once you've figured that out, the styling part is super easy.

Keep scrolling for the easiest holiday hairstyles that'll make heads turn at any party you RSVP to

1. Top Knot Bun

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Top knot buns look good on anyone regardless of age. We first admired them on ballerinas and later found out how easy they are to achieve. To create this sleek look, you'll need a hair wax stick, a boar bristle brush, elastic hair ties, and a holding spray to keep everything together!

2. A Cute Scarf Ponytail

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After the top knot bun, this hairstyle is another easy one to pull off and doesn't really require a curling iron. All you need to do is gather your hair into a low ponytail before securing it with a hair tie. Once you've done that, wrap a festive red scarf around the hair tie for a look that shows you're ready for Christmas!

3. Layered Straight Hair

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Depending on your preference, you may refer to this style as straightened hair or a silk press. All that matters is making sure you have the best blowout products and tools to help you achieve it! If you have naturally curly hair, we recommend using The Doux's Press Play Thermal Set. It includes:

  • PRESS REWIND Curl Retention Shampoo
  • FAST FORWARD Heat Prep Conditioner
  • JUST GLAZE Silkening Fluid
  • SILENT TREATMENT 30-day Humidity Shield
  • O.P.P. Heat Protectant Spray
  • DOUX DROPS Bonding Polish
  • GANGSTER WRAP Foaming Wrap Lotion

You'll also want to use a blow dryer that has a concentrator nozzle along with a round brush to help smooth your hair. After that, all you'll have to do is flat iron your hair and that's it!

4. Barrel Curls

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We love barrel curls because they can look however you want them. If you want to go for a bombshell look, we recommend pin curling your hair after using the curling attachments of the T3 Aire 360 Blowout System. You'll want to section your hair so you're able to wrap individual strands around the base of the curler, preferably at an angle to achieve a spiral style like the one above!

5. Half Side Hairstyle

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We love an impressive half-side hairstyle that reminds us of Aunt Zelda fromThe Chilling Adventures of Sabrina. However, you won't have to curl your hair as much with this look. All you'll need to do is french braid both sides of your hair at night and simply unravel them once you're ready to make your party debut.

6. Wavy Bob

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Bobs aren't going anywhere, not that we want them to! They're incredibly flattering and have the perfect amount of body that we fangirl over. This hairstyle is super easy because you only need to lightly curl the ends of your hair to achieve an effortless look. Honestly, you can use a curling or flat iron without a problem.

7. Coiffed Bob

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Don't feel like putting in that much work to look dolled up? We hear you loud and clear so we're sharing another bob option. You won't have to watch your curling iron heat up because this is strictly a job for your flat iron.

Put it on a low setting (under 400 degrees) and lightly curl the ends of your hair under. If you want to create the perfect side bang, you can add one or two curlers to it so it's held in place until the perfect time.

8. Volumized Bob

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Another bob? Yes, please! This hairstyle is for anyone who wants VOLUME without having to spend all morning curling their hair. All you need to do is invest in a good roller setthat'll form the perfect curls overnight; kudos if they're thermal! Just make sure to part your hair the way you want prior to and you'll be looking like a glamorous queen the next day or night.

9. Pixie Cut

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Although they can be high maintenance because of the salon upkeep, pixie cuts are fairly easy to style. You can using foaming lotion to create finger waves or created a slicked look that turns head. If you want to add a few curls to your hair, you'll need a small flat iron that can gently grabs each strand.

Which of these holiday hairstyles will you be rocking to your upcoming Christmas party?!

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11 Obvious Signs You’re Actually An Empath, According To A Therapist

You and your friends have likely spent countless hours together, decoding everything from imaginationships to the best comfort shows to watch when you're sad. You've probably even settled into a designated role within the group. Maybe you're the super adventurous one, always suggesting friend date ideas for the group to try, while someone else always knows how to comfort everyone when life gets rough. But, have you ever wondered if you're the most empathetic friend in the group? That's easy, just ask Brianna Paruolo, LCMCH. She's the founder and clinical director of On Par Therapyso she knows how to recognize signs you're an empath, plus how to take care of yourself!

How To Know If You're An Empath

  • Empathy is when "you feel what others are feeling."
  • There are physical, emotional, social, and mental signs that you're an empath.
  • You may be an empath if you get physically exhausted after being in crowds, feel anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments, feel responsible for other people's happiness, or you find it hard to distinguish your own feelings from someone else's.

Are there really assigned roles in friend groups or am I just imagining things?

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Like I said before, it can seem like you and your friends unintentionally gravitate toward certain 'roles.' It's not like anyone woke up one day and decided, "I'm going to be the 'mother hen' of the group," but it tends to happen. Why?

Paruolo says, "In my clinical work, I've consistently observed that our friendship roles often mirror our early family dynamics. These patterns show up naturally — think about who in your friend group gets the first crisis call, who plans all the gatherings, or who everyone turns to for emotional support." I'm willing to bet you thought of a name for each scenario — including yours — because I know I did!

"Like in families, we each fall into specific roles that feel familiar to us," Paruolo further explains.

What actually makes someone an empathetic person?

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There's so many definitions for empathy, but I thought it would be wise to ask a licensed professional for her opinion on the matter. "Empathy means to feel what others are feeling. You do not have to have a personal direct experience with something to feel empathy for another person," shares Paruolo.

For example, your friend could call to tell you she has to have fibroid removal surgery and is feeling scared. You may have never had surgery, but you could find yourself feeling the need to comfort her in spite of this. Paruolo says, "The cool thing about our brains is that we have mirror neurons, which means part of our brain is set up to feel what others feel. The ability to attune to others' emotional states comes naturally to some people, while others may need to develop this capacity more consciously."

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To break it down even further, here's signs that Paruolo says point to your empathetic nature.

Physical Signs:

  • Getting physically exhausted after being in crowds
  • Feeling drained after social interactions, even enjoyable ones (OMG I feel so seen!)
  • Needing extra time alone to recharge

Emotional Signs:

  • Absorbing other people's emotions like a sponge
  • Feeling anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments
  • Finding it hard to watch violence or cruelty in movies/TV

Social Signs:

  • Feeling responsible for others' happiness
  • Having trouble saying "no" to people who need help

Mental Signs:

  • Picking up on subtle changes in others' moods
  • Being highly attuned to body language and tone
  • Finding it hard to distinguish your feelings from others' feelings

It sounds like I'm the empathetic friend, but are there any downsides to this?

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I've been an empath for as long as I can remember and I've found that I have to 'recharge' my social batteries at times. I thought it was because I was trying to be superwoman by fixing others' problems, but it turns out theres more to it than that. Paruolo says, "Empathetic friends and people have an uncanny ability to sense others' emotional states even when unspoken, and frequently need recovery time after intense social interactions. They tend to be deeply affected by others' experiences and naturally consider situations from multiple perspectives."

In the long run, she says it can be "distressing" for some people to always feel the feelings of others. Over time, she says, "it can cause you to shut down and retract." This can look like not being as quick to respond to the funny memes your friends send you or not even answering their phone calls right away.

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But, this doesn't mean you're the only person who tends to go through this. "Many empaths struggle with maintaining boundaries due to their deep emotional attunement," she says. Color me guilty because this sounds so much like me. It got so bad at one point that my sister nicknamed me 'Captain Save-A-Lot,' which is actually the clean version of what she truly meant. Still, empathy fatigue is no laughing matter nor does it mean you're defected. You just have the natural ability to show people their feelings are important to you.

How can I protect my peace as the empathetic friend?

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You know you need to set boundaries, but what does that mean? Paruolo says, "The key is understanding that empathy needs to be balanced with compassion - it's not just about feeling others' emotions but also knowing how to help without depleting yourself."

One of the things she loves to do is "encourage empaths to set clear boundaries around their emotional availability and make time for regular grounding exercises." As with gratitude journaling, try to focus on an activity that calls for you to be present. Focus on what you can hear, see, touch, taste, and smell.

"Self-care isn't just a luxury; it's essential maintenance for empaths. This might mean scheduling alone time, finding a supportive therapist, or joining communities where you can process your experiences," Paruolo implores.

I know how to be there for others, but how do I ask for emotional support when I need it?

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You may feel like it's impossible to ask others for help since your shoulders are the ones people cry on, but you're only doing yourself a disservice by not speaking up. No one's super resilient or able to handle all of their distressing feelings alone. We're not meant to.

It's the reason Paruolo wants you to speak up about what you need. "The most effective approach I've seen is being direct about your needs rather than hoping others will figure them out," she says. I made this mistake during postpartum and found myself expecting my family & friends to know exactly how I felt, but they're not mind readers. The more I verbally asked for help with little or big tasks, the more my mental and emotional load lightened.

Paruolo wants you to look at "asking for support as strengthening your friendships through trust and vulnerability, instead of waiting until you're overwhelmed." By the time you reach that point, you'll be ready to enter rage or full-blown shut down mode and they're not fun.

Avoid unlocking their proverbial doors by scheduling "regular check-ins with trusted friends," suggests Paruolo. "This creates a sustainable support system and helps prevent emotional crisis points.

We have even more self-care stories for you to dive into if you need a mental and emotional boost!

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This Viral Unscripted 'Gilmore Girls' Moment Has Fans In A Tizzy

If you're a Gilmore Girls stan then you've probably analyzed every single frame of every single episode. But a viral video proved I don't know the show as well as I thought because one TikTok user caught an unscripted moment I'd never caught before! And it had me giggling and kicking my feet. Have you seen this interaction before?

Keep reading for the sweet Gilmore Girls moment between Milo Ventimiglia and Alexis Bledel.

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During Gilmore Girls season 3 episode 19, "Keg! Max!", TikTok user @notoriousahb caught a flirty moment between Alexis Bledel and Milo Ventimigilia when the camera was focusing on the other actors in the scene. Alexis is staring at Milo before tucking his hair behind his ear. And Milo gives her a small smile before snapping back into the scene. My heart is bursting!!

Apparently, fans totally picked up on their chemistry when rewatching. "There's a back and forth look before Rory and Jess are together in S2 at a town meeting that is SO bf/gf flirting lol," one user commented, while another says, "It was rumored that Milo (Jess) was sick that day and Alexis (Rory) was trying to comfort him."

Wait sweet! All in all, there's one comment that sums it all up: "THE SMIRK AT ALEXIS OH MY GOD 🖤." My thoughts exactly.

ICYMI, Milo and Alexis dated from the time Milo joined Gilmore Girls until 2006. And considering how electric their chemistry is onscreen, I'm sure they felt fireworks, like, as soon as they met. But don't worry, they're both doing just fine after their breakup.

Milo actually just tied the knot with Jarah Mariano and announced they're expecting a baby! And in 2017, Alexis won an Emmy for her role in The Handmaid's Tale.

“I’m very happy for her," Milo Ventimiglia told Daily Dish in 2017. "She’s always been a great actor and I think as long as she’s been in the business for her to be recognized. I’m very happy for her."

Have you ever noticed this moment between Jess and Rory before? Let us know your favorite Gilmore Girls moments on Facebook!

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Goodbye Beauty Blender, Hello Foundation Brush

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A lot of the girls are saying that the Beauty Blender is out and they are switching back to foundation brushes to blend their cream products. If you're done with the sponge, then this is a great brush to try out.

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A Tubing Mascara That Is Easy to Remove

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Wearing a tubing mascara will minimize damage to your lashes to help them grow longer and thicker throughout the season. This mascara has a brush with perfectly placed micro bristles to individually coat each lash without clumping.

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Maybelline Just Dropped These New Shadow Blocks in a Stacked Eye Shadow Trio

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These newly dropped Maybelline Shadow Blocks are great if you wear the same shadow look regularly or you need something compact for travel. Each block comes with three different shades which all work together for an overall look. They are really user-friendly and not overly pigmented so great for everyday use.

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This Rice Toner Gives You Glass Skin

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Korean skincare does it again: Get the coveted glass-skin look with this milky rice toner. With plant-based ingredients, this daily toner helps balance the skin's water and oil levels for the perfect amount of glow.

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This All-In-One Balm Heals Everything

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I don't pretend to understand it, but this all-in-one healing skin cream truly does it all. From restoring dry, cracked skin, to healing eczema and burns, to improving acne and redness, this magical formula is one you'll always want to have on hand. Reviews are filled with miracle stories like this one: "I have had a scrape on my foot for over 2 weeks that is now healing after two applications of this. This stuff is for real and is worth every penny!"

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Exfoliate and Refine the Skin With Medicube Zero Pore Pads 2.0

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Clogged pores require some seriously tough skincare. If you need to exfoliate and refine your skin, try out these Medicube Zero Pore Pads 2.0. This product is perfect for those concerned about enlarged pores, seeking smoother skin, battling greasy skin, or troubled by blackheads and whiteheads.

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This Hydrating Liquid Blush Has a Buildable Color

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This liquid blush is a sheer formula to give you a natural flush of color with a watercolor finish. It also hydrates and plumps your skin with hyaluronic acid. The buildable creamy blush can be blended with your fingers.

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Keep It Simple With the Naked3 Mini Eyeshadow Palette

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This beginner-friendly Naked3 mini eyeshadow palette is perfect for creating neutral eyeshadow looks that will always look good together. Just blend the different colors together and get creative.

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This Peppermint Shampoo Can Boost Growth

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The keratine protein found in this shampoo can protect against loss and breakage and create stronger strands. It can also promote faster growth and increase the hair's natural volume.

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Get The Longest Lashes Ever With This New Mascara

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Who doesn't want gorgeous long lashes? Forget the extensions and get this new Surreal Extensions Washable Mascara from Maybelline's Falsies line. This 2-in-1 lengthening and volumizing formula will have everyone thinking you're wearing false eyelashes, minus the hassle of actually wearing them. One reviewer raves, "This mascara has surpassed all others!!! It truly makes my stubby little lashes look a lot longer! And because it’s waterproof it doesn’t smear— yet comes off easily... I’m excited to finally have longer lashes and not just thicker ones!"

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A Lip Tint With a Velvet Finish

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When it comes to lip products, is there anything better than a super-pigmented, velvety pop of color? This liquid lip tint applies smoothly and lasts all day, giving your lips a velvety-smooth finish without feeling sticky or clumpy. The precision applicator lets you create your preferred look.

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This Rosemary Spray To Upgrade Your Hair Care

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If you've been scrolling on TikTok then you've definitely seen this Rosemary Spray that has a ton of different benefits. Whether used for dietary, skin, or hair purposes, users might appreciate its organic and pure formulation that is guaranteed to provide your skin, hair and body with a ton of benefits.

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A Mini Travel Kit of Beauty Essentials for Hydrated Skin

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This mini travel kit is a great way to sample products that are sure to give you a hydration boost. The set includes a variety of skincare essentials, from a hyaluronic cream to an avocado cleanser, so it's easier than ever to figure out what works best for you. One reviewer says, "I can tell you 100% these live up to the hype and will buy this again."

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Enhance Your Skin's Natural Glow With Glotion

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Discover the hidden gem in your beauty arsenal - L'Oreal's Glotion, a natural glow enhancer that outshines even the name brand competitors. This illuminator highlighter skin tint guarantees an all-day radiant glow that often goes unnoticed amidst its flashier counterparts. Don't be fooled by labels; this product is destined to become your new favorite. Its subtle yet transformative touch brings a luminous radiance to your complexion, effortlessly blending into your daily routine for an enviable glow that demands attention.

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Stay Prepared With a LED Travel Makeup Mirror

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Don't let makeup mishaps happen on the go! The LED Travel Makeup Mirror is your portable beauty companion. With dual-sided 1x and 7x magnification, it ensures you have a clear view of every detail. The built-in LED lights provide the perfect illumination for flawless makeup application, even in dimly lit environments. Compact and lightweight, it fits effortlessly into your travel bag, so you're never caught without proper lighting or a mirror.

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This High-End Facial Skincare Wand

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If you want to splurge on stocking stuffers this year, this Facial Skincare Wand is a must. It uses massage and red light therapy to reduce the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles, blemishes and puffiness.

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Your Lashes Will Thank You For Using This Mascara Primer

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Unveil the beauty secret that's been hiding in plain sight: the Volume Booster Lash Mascara Primer. This unsung hero is the key to achieving luscious lashes you never knew were possible. Enriched with the goodness of Mango Butter and Acai Oil, it goes beyond the ordinary, offering a nurturing touch to your lashes. Most people underestimate the transformative power of a mascara primer, but this one will make you a believer.

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Illuminate Your Skin with Peach Niacin Serum

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Revitalize your skin with this Anua Peach Niacin Serum, the perfect addition to your cart for an instant pick-me-up. This hydrating formula brightens your skin, making it an ideal companion for everyday routine or a luxurious treat during a full self-care day. Combat the gloominess of winter with the uplifting benefits of this serum, designed to bring a radiant glow to your complexion.

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The Iconic Mini Mist Set

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Holiday gift sets for beauty and skincare is one of the easiest ways to give a good gift that won't break the bank. That's what you'll achieve when giving the classic Victoria's Secret PINK 4 Piece Mini Mist Gift Set, including their bestselling scents: Warm & Cozy, Fresh & Clean, Warm & Cozy Glow, and Fresh & Clean Glow.

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This Makeup Brush Set Comes With Everything And More

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Elevate your beauty routine with this Makeup Brush Set that comes with all of the essential brushes you need to blend, conceal and apply all of your favorite products. he soft, dense bristles ensure streak-free and consistent coverage, allowing you to achieve that desired professional finish every single time.

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Add an Electric Makeup Brush Cleaner to Your Beauty Routine

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This Electric Makeup Brush Cleaner, a game-changer in the world of beauty hygiene. This innovative device goes beyond the ordinary brush cleaning methods, offering a more effective way to remove bacteria and grime from your makeup brushes. Its powerful motor and specially designed cleaning heads ensure a thorough and efficient cleaning process, leaving your brushes not just visibly cleaner, but also free from hidden bacteria.

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This TULA Skin Care Eye Balm is the Worst Nightmare of Dark Circles

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Dark under eyes don't stand a chance. I absolutely adore this TULA Skin Care Eye Balm after long nights and the accompanying rough mornings. This eye balm cools, soothes, and brightens even the most stubborn of dark under eye areas. Small and lightweight, this eye cream is great for traveling or just a quick refresh on the go. If you want a truly cooling experience, keep this eye balm in you fridge overnight.

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Transform Your Look With This Peel & Reveal Lip Stain

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Surprise them with a long-lasting lip color that’s a hit on TikTok. Ideal for teens and adults, this lip color changes from an indigo shade to reveal the final color, ensuring a fun and unique makeup experience. It's smudge-proof, making it a fantastic gift for those who love experimenting with their makeup.

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Get The Shiniest Locks With This Collagen Hair Treatment

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Once you start using this collagen protein hair treatment, you'll wonder how you ever lived without it. Infused with collagen ceramide coating, this in-shower treatment leaves hair feeling softer, shinier and healthier than ever. As this reviewer says, "This treatment has brought about a noticeable and positive transformation in my hair. (Also the scent is AMAZING. Softness is a total 100/10.)"

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Winky Lux Flower Balm Leaves Your Lips Feeling Soft And Hydrated

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Thia Winky Lux flower balm is a vegan, tinted lip balm that adjusts to match your lips' natural pH levels, creating a perfect shade of pink. It features a nourishing formula that leaves your lips feeling soft and hydrated, and the real chrysanthemum flower inside adds a playful touch. Get ready to pucker up and enjoy a unique lip balm experience!

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This Shave Oil For Baby-Soft Skin

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Say goodbye to razor bumps and unwanted ingrown hairs after investing in this Shave Oil that is infused with invigorating scents of coconut and lime. This unique formulation not only ensures a smooth and close shave but also moisturizes and pampers your skin in the process. Say goodbye to post-shave dryness and irritation with this Amazon gem.

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Apply This Glow Serum Before Doing Your Makeup

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Hydrating, healthy and flawless are all understatements when it comes to this glow drop serum that releases hyaluronic acid, coconut water and electrolytes into your skin to give you the ultimate radiance. This boosting serum can give you a non-shimmer, dewy finish to your makeup look after each and every use. With it's lightly scented coconut flare and lightweight touch, you will fall in love with the first drop.

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Grow Your Lashes Naturally With Castor Oil

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Try the natural way to enhance your lashes and eyebrows with organic Castor Oil. This chemical-free solution is a game-changer for those seeking thicker, longer, and healthier-looking lashes and brows. Packed with essential nutrients and fatty acids, it nourishes hair follicles, promoting growth without any harmful additives. This organic option is gentle yet highly effective, ensuring that you achieve stunning results without compromising your eye health.

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A Brightening Eye Balm That Cools as It Brightens

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Sometimes, even when we get adequate sleep, our under-eye area tells a different story. Sure, we could use concealer and carry on with our day, but we've been looking for something that actually brightens and refreshes. This eye balm does just that. It gives the under-eye area a soft glow while refreshing and brightening. The probiotic formula leaves our skin feeling healthier than before, and we find ourselves reaching for it repeatedly.

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This Trusty Hair Wax Stick

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The famous Hair Wax Stick is ideal for achieving the trendy slick back look and even more convenient for a quick touch-up on the go. Its non-greasy formula is versatile enough to tame flyaways or secure a sleek updo effortlessly. What's more, its compact size makes it purse-friendly, ensuring you have the power to perfect your hairstyle anytime, anywhere.

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A Set of Matte Lipsticks for All-Day Color

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When we're going about our busy day, it's easy to forget to reapply our lipstick. That's why we tend to look for long-lasting formulas, and this set of gorgeous matte lipsticks checks all the boxes. It includes six shades, so whether you're looking for a warm neutral or a deep burgundy, you'll have everything you need to create the perfect autumn-inspired look.

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Because Everyone Needs Self-Care

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Whether they are willing to admit it or not, guys love getting self-care products. This beard grooming kit has all the products and tools he needs to keep his facial hair and skin tip-top shape.

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This Pore Minimizer That Will Make You Look Airbrushed

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I have tried tons of different powders and foundations that are meant to minimize the look of my pores, but nothing had worked! It wasn't until I discovered this IT Cosmetics traslucent powder that was named "bye bye pores" due to it's magic work that can eliminate the size and appearance of your pores with just a little application.

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Blowout Primer That Makes All the Difference

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Blowout looks are the season's style, and this product will surely get you the volume and hold you desire. This Blowout Primer is your secret weapon for attaining the volume and hold that will turn heads. Formulated to defy humidity and conquer frizz, this essential primer ensures your carefully crafted hairstyle withstands the elements.

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Make Contouring Easy With This Bronzer Stick

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Getting a model-worthy contour doesn't have to be rocket science. This bronzing stick makes it easier than ever, with a built-in sponge tip and long lasting, creamy formula. This 5-star reviewer says, "Very easy to use, you don’t need a lot and can easily layer on more if needed. It blended out really well and still looked “natural”, which I love. I tend to lean more on sensitive skin products, but with this it felt light, didn’t irritate my skin or anything!"

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An Innovative Self Tan Gel

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Enhance every moment with the golden touch of a good tan because, let's face it, everything is better with a sun-kissed glow with this Self Tan Gel. Perfect for those who seek the glow without the fuss, our Self Tan Gel offers an easy application for a seamless, natural-looking tan.

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This Skin Care Set For the Clearest Skin

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Transform skincare routines with this Skin Care Set that includes Vitamin C Cream, Hyaluronic Acid Serum, and Niacinamide Serum, a powerhouse trio that brightens, hydrates, and reduces skin blemishes. Vegan, paraben-free, and cruelty-free, these products cater to all skin types. They're perfect for anyone looking to enhance their skincare regimen.

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This SPF Spray Is A Daily Essential

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We can't get enough of e.l.f. cosmetics' newest releases! This All Set For Sun sun protection and setting spray has SPF 45 and long lasting makeup protection for a flawless look that can withstand the sun. It's the perfect product to take on the go for a friendly reminder to reapply your sunscreen every couple of hours.

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Revive with These Brightening Eye Masks

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Amidst the hustle and bustle of the season, here's the secret to maintaining that well-rested glow – Brightening Eye Masks. Infused with caffeine, these little wonders tirelessly banish dark circles and puffiness, revealing your refreshed version. Not just a quick fix, these masks are also your ally in the battle against fine lines, preventing the onset of crow's feet. They not only work wonders but feel indulgent on your skin.

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Glossier Fragrance

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Gift your friend the best-selling fragrance of this year. Your friend can make a personal statement with this Glossier You, the ultimate personal fragrance that adapts to your unique body chemistry.

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You Have to Try This Mascara

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Prepare to bat those lashes confidently this Black Friday, as Amazon unveils trending mascaras, including the Covergirl Lash Blast Cleantopia Mascara. It's smudge-proof so you can rock long, luscious lashes all day. Beyond its tinted perfection, the mascara is infused with hydrating formulas, featuring ingredients like aloe leaf extract. Each application becomes a self-care ritual, pampering your lashes while enhancing their natural beauty.

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