10 Things I Learned In My 20s That Are Making My 30s Better

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My best friends and I always have conversations about who we were in our 20s compared to being in our 30s. Needless to say, considering we're no longer sweating profusely in house parties until 5 a.m. or nursing wild hangovers that left us crouching near toilets the next morning, hilarity often gives way to gratitude. Yeah, we're willing to admit we were fun, hot messes 12 years ago. We're still fun, but we're a little more refined in this season of adulthood.

The beautiful thing about aging is how much growth accompanies it. I'm calmer, more patient, and less prone to pettiness when I feel offended (thanks therapy). Seriously, my self-improvement makes me want to hug the confused, scared, and insecure girl I was in my 20s.

Since I physically can't do that, I like reflecting on the differences I've noticed about myself in my 30s compared to my 20s. I wouldn't say I'm a completely different person, but at the same time there are plenty of changes.

P.S. I'm still learning how to embrace change so circle back when I'm almost 40.

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I Thought I Still Had To Be The 'Good Girl'

My mom used to get a ton of comments about how well-behaved my sister and I were, but I didn't know I was internalizing them until it was too late. I used to thrive on not being considered a disappointment by church members, people at school, and adults in public. All of that praise made the moments I did make mistakes or do typical kid stuff feel like I was a complete failure.

Every comment about how rude, selfish, and sexual kids my age were emphasized they were things I felt like I had to avoid. I was the girl who didn't care about boys or dating until I did. I was also the girl who participated in purity culture and regaled my virginity as something sacred. Any rule there was, I followed them as much as possible.

But, I eventually saw this left little room for "error." To add insult to injury, there were people who would make comments about my biological dad I tried not to embody. I didn't want anyone to think I'd head down the same path because they thought I looked or acted like him.

The thing about being the "good girl" is that people expect you to perform for them all the time. It's tiring and unrealistic to expect a young adult to fit into every expectation the world has because we're all bound to mess up. I know firsthand how it feels to make mistakes and think you're going to be canceled for the rest of your life because you failed in the eyes of others. It's a lonely and depressing feeling that can follow you unless you get to the root of it.

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Genuinely Liking Myself Felt Like An Uphill Battle

Being a people-pleaser is probably why I didn't even like myself. It's not that I didn't know who was, but I filtered between settings. Either I thought I wasn't enough or I believed I was too weird to be genuinely liked. There was also belief that my skin color wasn't the "right" shade and my hair wasn't the perfect length.

So, I was always baffled when someone showed interest in me. I thought they only showed interested in me out of pity or some crazy dare just like She's All That or Cruel Intentions. My mindset was, "If I don't like me, why would anyone else?"

My self-esteem was in the dirt and I was the one refusing to nuture it because I genuinely didn't know how.

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Finding "The One" Was My Roman Empire

Sigh. 20-something Jasmine was fixated on falling in love with "the one" because of all the Disney movies and TV shows I watched that revolved around adults in relationships. I searched for my perfect prince and even thought I'd found him right before I turned 20.

I started dating this guy and fell in love for the first time. It was one of those relationships where we talked all the time and experienced multiple moments of jealousy. Still, I thought he was going to be the person I married so I began molding myself to be everything he liked.

I changed the way I dressed, started listening to music he liked, and even dimmed my personality so I wouldn't be "too much" for him. And when we called off our engagement after he wanted an open relationship, I ended up asking him for forgiveness. 🫠

It took him being low-key verbally abusive for me to snap out of my self-imposed, "He's the one" fog. The day I grew a backbone and called him everything under the sun was the moment I stopped making falling in love my personality.

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I Assumed It'd Be Easy To Start My Career

I partially blame my love for Livin' Single, Sex and the City, and The Devil Wears Prada for believing I'd be able to become a career girl with little effort. Okay, that's not true. I knew I'd have to work hard, but I didn't realize that started a journalism career wasn't as easy as 1-2-3.

I assumed I'd be able to get my foot in the door, but felt crushed when I realized a lot of places wanted someone who had completed an internship. Since I was focused on fashion journalism and couldn't figure out my college trajectory for a while, I didn't know how I'd get my foot in the door while living in Georgia.

My mom wasn't a fan of me going to New York either, so I started giving up on starting a career. It seemed like I was placing too much stress on myself to hit a milestone by a certain age. So, I decided to cut my losses and worked at a law firm for 10 years. It's ironically the place I was able to learn the valuable lessons I'm now applying to my career.

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Believing Healthy Relationships Were Perfect

My little stint with my ex-boyfriend made me believe healthy relationships were the opposite of what we had; that they were perfect. You should've heard the way I started weaving in therapy speak to explain why healthy relationships were so great and full of boundaries, especially since I'd never been in one.

I had no idea that relationships still experience highs and lows, nor did I know how to navigate disagreements. I was still on edge from my last relationship because I'd think, "No man would ever speak down to me again." Can you imagine bringing this energy to a relationship with someone who's willing to work towards having something healthy?

Thank goodness for growth!

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I Expected Parents To Be Perfect

I'm not proud to admit this, but parents used to annoy me when I was in my 20s. I thought my generation had lied about what makes a great parent because it felt like there weren't any. If you ever wanted to meet someone who had their head up their a— about parenting, I was your gal 10 years ago.

Honestly, I said a lot of biased and downright awful things about parents when I didn't have a child. I used to judge parents for letting their kids scream in public and even judged my own parents for not knowing how to handle every situation the way I thought they should. The truth is, I thought parents were supposed to be the all-knowing heroes in their kids' stories. People who could handle anything life threw at them. It just never really occurred to me that parents were individuals who have their own trauma, desires, fears, etc.

Also, I milked the whole being child-free thing. I'd think things like, "That person is just miserable because they're stuck being a parent." As a mom with a toddler who has severe eczema, I cringe at how much of an entitled a—hole I used to sound like. I think it's partially why I understand the "childfree by choice" comments, but can't get with the crowd who tries to pit their choices above others'.

My Mindset In My 30s

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Getting Focused & Honing My Skills Helped Me Start My Career

I have no problem telling anyone who'll listen that I wasn't prepared to start my career in my 20s. I was wildly all over the place, had no self-esteem, and couldn't stay focused on one thing to save my life. Everything I'm doing in my career requires confidence, a willingness to accept constructive criticism, and extreme focus.

At any given time I'm juggling two assignments at once, preparing for an interview, or trying to organize my inbox so I can respond to emails. This is usually accompanied by keeping an eye on my toddler, so it's the perfect time for me to handle so many responsibilities since I get to work from home.

What helped me get to this point is learning how to recognize when I was getting overwhelmed by things instead of spiraling. I haven't mastered it, but I'm able to notice when I need to take a step back to redirect myself. Sometimes this looks like going for a walk, taking a quick shower, or focusing on things I can see, touch, hear, and smell.

The other thing I credit with helping me prepare for my career is practicing like I already had it. I started blogging in 2014 and would interview other content creators like I was already getting paid to do it. This prep, along with seeking out remote internships or publications I could write for, helped me truly understand what my current role entails.

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Going To Therapy Helped Me Accept And Love Myself

I'm still learning how to love me in every season of life, but I credit my mom for introducing me to therapy. I frequently tell her how much she saved my life because I don't know where I'd be without it. I've mentioned it before, but this is where I learned how to confront certain narratives I believed about myself.

From believing I had to perform for others' approval to questioning my worth as a young Black woman, I was able to start peeling back the layers of things I'd internalized from childhood. Once I did that, I could truly see myself and it was scary at first.

I'd spent so much time running away from who I am that I didn't know if I was capable of accepting what I saw. But, the therapists I worked with did such an amazing job of helping me do just that. I still have to recite a few affirmations in the mirror from time to time, but it feels good to rely less on the opinions of others.

I can actually hear my own voice in my head instead of past bullies or adults who didn't realize how harmful their "jokes" were. That's priceless to me in my 30s.

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Healthy Relationships Aren't Perfect...At All

I think there's still a huge belief that people who have relationships we admire must be perfect. As someone who's been actively working on having a healthy relationship with her fiancé, I'm here to tell you there's nothing perfect about it.

Do we curse at each other or physically fight? No, never have. Have we experienced moments of intense jealousy? Also no. But, we've had to learn how to navigate each other's traumas and personal quirks. We've certainly had to relearn how to prioritize each other after becoming parents which has been TOUGH. I'm talking two years of "I don't really like you at all right now."

If I was in my 20s, I probably would've left because I wouldn't have wanted to deal with anything that didn't feel perfect. I mean, who wants to be willingly stressed out by their partner when both people are dealing with something new and are sleep-deprived + scared?

But I've realized it's not enough to say you want to have a healthy relationship with someone. Setting boundaries, learning to communicate, and being accountable takes work. The reality is that you're not always going to be on the same page with someone you love, and it's okay to agree to disagree.

My fiancé and I have 10 years under our belts so we've had a chance to navigate our 20s together. There's been a lot of growth and apologizing. We both feel that we're doing a great job, even when we have 10 minutes where we really don't want to talk to each other.

That's the other beautiful thing about healthy relationships being imperfect. You start picking up on each other's cues and can say things like, "I'm going to sit over here for a bit and I'll come back once I calm down," instead of having so many big arguments.

It feels good to say I don't need my fiancé or myself to be perfect. We have love, respect, a desire to learn, and a commitment to navigating all the changes that occur in life. That's more than enough.

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Becoming A Mom Opened My Eyes About A Lot

When I made the decision to be okay with my pregnancy in 2020, my feelings were crushed by someone close to me during my first trimester. I'd already started panicking about my past comments about parents, but I was also worried about how society would see me once it realized I was about to become a mom.

It was heartbreaking to feel like I was already being attacked for how I was choosing to think about my child. I didn't think it was a conversation I'd need to have because I assumed that person would accept my choices the way I'd always accepted theirs. That fateful interaction made me realize how easy it is for people to put their truths and identities on a pedestal over others. Sometimes it's unintentional, but it doesn't hurt any less.

It also made me start examining my own internalized biases. Eventually I started freeing myself from the idea that people are supposed to be one way vs. the other. I also gave myself permission to understand that people will say and do things no matter how I feel. That any of us could follow every last "rule" imposed on us and someone would still have an issue with me. Basically, my people-pleasing ways started to disappear over time.
The other thing I truly understand is that parents aren't perfect. This is not me glorifying imperfections to the point I think I can get away with anything, but it is an acknowledgement. Yes, I've been in and out of therapy since I was 20. Yes, I have the tools and resources to be more self-aware. But, none of this means I've arrived at the pinnacle of perfection. If you ask me, I don't even think it exists anymore.
Perhaps the best thing I've learned since becoming a mom is how hard parenting is. There's not enough planning, money, or love in the world that can make it a breeze. It's the literal act of being responsible for someone outside of yourself and I think doing it on a daily basis means it'll always be accompanied by mistakes, just like anything else we do in life. But it's oh so worth it.

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Has anyone else felt like their mid-year reset skipped them...or is that just me? Truthfully, my mental health started teetering towards the beginning of the year while my self-care has taken a swan dive into a forgotten abyss.

In an attempt to redirect myself, I've hit pause on rom-coms and thriller books so I can have more time for peaceful introspection. It turns out escapism is fun until you realize how much you've been neglecting yourself.

There are so many titles out there, but these 15 self-care books are the most brilliant ones I've come across!

P.S. Some of these books are in heavy rotation! Keep them handy for the days you're feeling down!

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Consider This: Reflections for Finding Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab (October 15, 2024)

Therapist and bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab captured my attention with her titles Set Boundaries, Find Peace and Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships so much that I always have them on my desk. It's one of the reasons I'm so excited to dive into her new book, Consider This: Reflections for Finding Peace, next month!

It's almost as if she has secret intel, with all the precious nuggets she'll share that will help us center ourselves during tough moments. From friendly reminders to loving, but firm nudges, Tawwab provides guidance on everything from boundaries to finding joy during every moment.

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Slowing: Discover Wonder, Beauty, and Creativity Through Slow Living by Rachel Schwartzmann

Author and Slow Stories podcast host Rachel Schwartzmann is here to remind us to slow TF down. Between receiving new information at the speed of light and having busy schedules, it's no wonder we're so stressed! Instead of being controlled by work and business, Schwartzmann wants us to reimagine the way we live and create.

She has poignant essays about the positive effects of slowing down — plus, she introduces readers to other voices who have insight about their own experiences with doing so! There are even "guided practices" to help reignite our introspection and creativity through journaling.

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The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power by Katherine Morgan Schafler

Perfectionists, we've been summoned with a guide that wants to give us permission to stop trying to control everything. It's so funny — this book landed on my radar after stressing about how I haven't felt in control for a long time. See how life works?

Anyway, psychotherapist Morgan Schafler knows we've been spoon-fed ideology about having balance in our lives, and feels like it's actually not helpful in the long run. She even helps categorize different versions of perfectionism: classic, intense, Parisian, messy, and procrastinator. Yes, that's right. Your procrastinating habit is rooted in perfectionism.

Instead of telling you to get rid of a part of who you are, Schafler breaks down why we respond to things a certain way and teaches how to live life so that our perfectionism doesn't necessarily control every single thing we do.

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The Secret Language of the Body by Jennifer Mann and Karden Rabin

Do you know the role our nervous systems plays in our bodies? It's basically our in-house communication center for messages between our brains and bodies. It's what triggers or flight or fight mode, which comes in handy if we're trying to escape a bristly bear in the woods, but does nothing for us if we're upset someone cut us in line at Starbucks. Little moments like that lead to nervous system dysregulation and can cause a lot of pain.

Mind-body practitioners Jen Mann and Karden Rabin wrote The Secret Language of the Body as way to help us understand what truly goes on in our nervous systems. They dive into topics like somatic therapy, Polyvagal theory, and how our minds and bodies are connected so we can stop living in survival mode.

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The Joy of Saying No by Natalie Lue

You know what's even harder to navigate life with besides perfectionism? It's being a people pleaser and considering everyone else's feelings before you think about your own.

The Joy of Saying No aims to explain how this is often rooted in our childhoods from being known as the good kid to the one who believes overachieving makes them more likable. It's true these roles served a function, but they can also stop us from being who we are as adults. Natalie Lue wants to help us recognize how we continue to operate in people-pleasing mode via six steps so we can reset our connection to others.

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Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski, PhD and Amelia Nagoski, DMA

I'm going to talk about this book forever! It's one of my go-to reads when I'm experiencing so much burnout I can barely think straight. Sisters Emily Nagoski, Phd and Amelia Nagoski, DMA know that burnout isn't a new phenomenon — nor are they claiming it is. What they do know is too many women continue to experience it and are determined to help us change course.

There's lessons about how to move through our natural biological stress cycles, check in with our brains when we're frustrated, and get intimate with our inner critics who live to remind us that we're not doing enough. It's written so beautifully that you'll feel like you're talking to a friend who majored in psychology, but still has the same down-to-earth attitude you first encountered as kids.

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The Sugar Jar: Create Boundaries, Embrace Self-Healing, and Enjoy the Sweet Things in Life by Yasmine Cheyenne

Yasmine Cheyenne's Sugar Jar metaphor is one of the easiest ways for us to realize how depleted we can become if we're not managing our boundaries and healing. From leaving our proverbial jars open, we become subject to energy vampires and moments we don't recognize we need to replenish ourselves until we're on the brink of burnout.

She teaches us how to understand what makes us feel exhausted, how we can press reset, and break up with our own negative habits. Also, she taps into our people-pleasing tendencies so we can find healthier ways to show up for ourselves and others.

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What It Takes to Heal: How Transforming Ourselves Can Change the World by Prentis Hemphill

Prentis Hemphill knows the past few years have left everyone feeling off balance which is why What It Takes to Heal was written. It's a call-to-arms to remind us that our healing isn't optional if we want to move forward in the world.

You'll learn how to pay attention to how our body responds to certain things, including our own habits, and you'll figure out how to stop bearing the weight of emotional burdens. But instead of being in isolation, Hemphill encourages you to embrace being part of a community.

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Sacred Self-Care: Daily Practices for Nurturing Our Whole Selves by Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes

Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes is offering helpful insights for how to being nurturing ourselves in Sacred Self-Care. As a psychologist, pastor, and activist, she's seen how hard it is for people to maintain a self-care practice that helps them navigate life.

As such, she's developed a seven-week guide filled with practices and activities that hone in on our emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual health. With each passing day, you'll receive journal prompts and scriptures that will help set the tone for the day. It's like a devotional from a psychologist's perspective and that can be great if you rely on both therapy as well as religion to get through your days.

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You Are Only Just Beginning: Lessons for the Journey Ahead by Morgan Harper Nichols

Morgan Harper Nichols hasn't shied away from sharing her story and encouraging words with others on Instagram which is why it makes sense she's written You Are Only Just Beginning: Lessons for the Journey Ahead. She wants to help us embrace adventurous moments while sharing reminders that hard moments are temporary.

Sometimes all we need is a little courage to keep going when things feel bleak.

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The Book of Moods: How I Turned My Worst Emotions Into My Best Life by Lauren Martin

Have you ever felt burdened by mood swings? If so, I completely understand because I often question my own and so did author Lauren Martin. She hit a wall a few years ago even though it seemed like her life was perfect on the surface. No matter what she did, she couldn't shake feeling inferior of irritable. It wasn't only she crossed paths with another successful stranger who felt the same that Lauren begin to seek to understand her emotions.

The Book of Moods: How I Turned My Worse Emotions Into My Best Life is a recollection of Lauren's journey and how she learned to find peace. She talks about varying triggers everyone has faced and blends her own wisdom with science-backed evidence to help us make informed decisions.

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Self-Care for Moms by Sara Robinson, MA

Moms are often praised for our ability to be self-sacrificing and resilient in the face of hardship, but I'd be lying if I said it felt like people seem to forget we're human. We do care a lot and have the warm nurturing nature everyone talks about, but we also have our limits lest we fall victim to burnout.

Self-Care for Moms offers over 100 activities designed to remind moms how to pour into ourselves daily. Whether it's a 5-minute phone call or hour lunch with a friend sans kids, it's time for us to reclaim the way we care for ourselves.

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How We Heal: Uncover Your Power and Set Yourself Free by Alexandra Elle

Alexandra Elle has shared her moving anecdotes with the internet since Tumblr, eventually becoming a bestselling author who continues to remind us to come home to ourselves. In How We Heal, she aims to help us rediscover peace by focusing on healing.

Broken into four parts, you'll find everything from journal prompts to meditations that tackle our innermost emotions. She even shares bits of her personal experiences so you feel less alone.

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Dare to Feel: The Transformational Path of the Heart by Alexandra Roxo

If you're on the other spectrum of emotions that includes burying them, Dare to Feel encourages you to do the opposite. Although you may feel repulsed by the idea of cracking your heart open, trust that it's metaphorical. This is an invitation to connect with yourself, life, and others past a superficial level. You'll come across poems, meditations, and more that help you fall in love with being in tune with your emotions in this moving book.

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Girl On Fire: How to Choose Yourself, Burn the Rule Book, and Blaze Your Own Trail in Life and Business by Cara Alwill Leyba

What's self-care without a reminder that you are THAT GIRL? Instead of questioning your worth, Girl on Fire wants you to start remembering who you truly are.

From encouraging you to not see other women as competition to offering tips for how to navigate the vision you have in your heart, you'll learn how not to let life and business get you down.

You'll feel empowered by the end of Girl on Fire and that's the point!

Still feeling stuck? We have more self improvement books to help you navigate the rest of 2024!

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Emily Henry has been at the top of her game for quite a few years now, and she isn't slowing down anytime soon. In addition to a Beach Read movie, Book Lovers movie, and a Funny Story movie, we're getting ANOTHER movie based on her books: People We Meet On Vacation! (Seriously, Em, when do you sleep?)

The movie might take place in the summer, but Emily Henry is really set on making it as cozy as possible. "Nancy Meyers’ writing and directing is lovely, but her sets are what make you want to be inside of that movie," she tells Variety. "Same thing with Nora Ephron — it’s Nora Ephron’s New York, not quite real New York, and it feels so magical and aesthetic. When you have that feeling of the first nip of fall, you want to watch You’ve Got Mail. That’s something they all know I’m really big on.”

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I'm losing my mind over these set leaks from People We Meet On Vacation for one very specific reason — Tom Blyth and Emily Bader's outfits match the book cover! I'm thinking this is a scene from the very end of the movie (given the fact the kiss is giving "happy ending" vibes). It also answers a questions fans have had since the casting was announced: it looks like Emily is keeping her dark hair instead of dying it blonde!

Who's in the People We Meet On Vacation cast?

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We finally have the cast of People We Meet On Vacation! The movie will star My Lady Jane's Emily Bader as Poppy and The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes' Tom Blyth as Alex. The news was announced on August 2, 2024, and on September 18, we got more cast members!

Lucien Laviscount, Sarah Catherine Hook, Jameela Jamil, and Lukas Gage have also joined the cast, although their roles are being kept under wraps for now. My guess is we'll see Jameela as Poppy's boss Swapna, Sarah as Alex's ex Sarah Torval, Lukas as Alex's brother David, and Lucien as Alex's future brother-in-law Tham.

Is People We Meet on Vacation getting a movie?

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Yes, we're getting a People We Meet On Vacation movie! Brett Haley will direct, while Yulin Kuang will write the script. Deadline confirmed the adaptation in October 2022.

When is the People We Meet On Vacation movie coming out?

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The People We Meet On Vacation movie is in the very early stages of pre-production, which makes me think we'll see it in 2026. Considering the story is all about two friends going on a vacation together, I think this could be the perfect summer movie — it might even become a cult classic we want to watch every year! Keep checking back here for the latest news on the movie's release date.

What is People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry about?

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This Emily Henry book follows ex-best friends Poppy and Alex, who used to take a vacation together every summer. That is, until their friendship suffers a serious blow. When Poppy starts feeling stuck in her own life, she reaches back out to Alex and gets him to agree to a final trip. Now, they have one last chance to repair their relationship before it's too late.

Are any other Emily Henry books being made into movies?

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Yes! Beach Read,Book Lovers, Happy Place, and Funny Story are also being adapted! These stories have such good relationships, characters, and settings that I cannot wait to see onscreen. I'll go anywhere Emily Henry goes!

Follow us on Facebook for more news on Emily Henry's People We Meet On Vacation movie! Read up on Here's When You Can Read Emily Henry's New Book, Great Big Beautiful Life next.

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Learning how to get over a crush can be equal parts soul-crushing and infuriating because you've likely spent months daydreaming about someone. You probably graduated from thinking about the first unofficial meet cute you had with your crush to planning the day you introduce them to your parents. Maybe you even threw in a few — clears throat — moments that rival some of those Bridgerton scenes that you've memorized.

No matter where how unfiltered your romantic thoughts about a former crush were, getting over them hurts and can be really hard. But, there's hope for the love torn person who's struggling to move on!

Star Rose Bond

Trauma informed psychotherapist Star Rose Bond, LCSW has extensive knowledge about how to navigate tough moments in life without any snarky comments. Specializing in PTSD, she's a PEARL clinical supervisor and Co-Founder and CEO of Life Camp who has more than 15 years of experience. Here's what she suggests for getting over a crush.

What are the giveaway signs that someone has a crush on another person?

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We've all been with our friends when someone's words seems to get caught in their throat when an attractive person walks by. It could be someone everyone knows, or the bartender at the buzzy new spot that just opened up near you. Crushes could be anyone, and though you may know your friend like the back of your hand, it's not always easy to pinpoint if they have a crush on someone if they haven't verbally said anything. But Bond says there's a few ways you can tell.

"People pay more attention to the person they have a crush on, often seeking opportunities to be around them. They may feel nervous or anxious in the presence of their crush, sometimes resulting in awkward behavior." she says. This can look like babbling in a conversation or making a self-depreciating joke that confuses their crush.

She also says, "A person will frequently compliment their crush and try to make them feel good about themselves." This can look like paying attention to that person's life, hobbies, and opinions. "They often initiate conversations, text messages, or social media interactions," Bond says.

One behavior that's completely obvious is seeing someone exhibit "signs of jealousy if they see their crush with someone else," adds Bond.

Can it be distracting to have a crush?

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If you happen to have a crush on someone, you may find it odd that your friends have pointed out how often you talk about your crush. A small part of you could even ask yourself, "Is having a crush on this person becoming a distraction?"

Bond says, "Yes, having a crush can be very distracting. It can preoccupy a person’s thoughts, making it hard to focus on tasks at hand, whether it’s work, school, or other responsibilities."

Whether you can't get that person off your mind because you're imagining scenarios with your crush or wondering if they feel the same way you do, you could run the risk of temporarily forgetting reality.

"Managing these distractions is important to maintain productivity and well-being," Bond suggests.

Is it possible to have a crush on multiple people?

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I know we talk about twin flames and the invisible string theory, but Bond says it's possible to have a crush on multiple people at once.

"Crushes are often based on admiration, attraction, or emotional connection, and it’s normal for someone to experience these feelings towards more than one person at a time. However, the intensity and nature of each crush can vary," she shares.

The best example I have is someone who has a list of celebrity crushes. They can think everyone from Chris Evans to Timothée Chalamet is hot, but that doesn't mean they necessarily value one over the other.

Do you think people are supposed to date their crushes?

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This question is subjective because no one can really tell you that you shouldn't try to pursue a relationship with your crush. "Whether someone should date their crush depends on various factors, including mutual interest, compatibility, and timing," says Bond.

I know I'm incredibly glad that a lot of my crushes didn't lead anywhere because I later found out they weren't someone I truly wanted to be in a long-term relationship with.

Bond says, "While dating a crush can lead to a fulfilling relationship, it’s important to assess if both parties share similar values and goals. It’s also crucial to ensure that the feelings are reciprocated and that both individuals are ready for a relationship."

How can a person navigate being rejected by their crush?

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Being rejected by a crush can feel like a gut punch if you've been thinking about them on a daily basis. I'd be lying if I said that I've never experienced rejection — it can feel humiliating — so I understand if things feel shattered because your crush isn't interested in pursuing something romantic.

Bond says, "Navigating rejection can be challenging, but it’s important for emotional well-being." She wants you to keep the following in mind:

  • Allow yourself to feel and process the emotions that come with rejection.
  • Focus on activities that make you happy and help you relax.
  • Maintain a positive outlook and remind yourself that rejection is a part of life and not a reflection of your worth.

It's not the end of the world if your crush doesn't like you. It usually won't matter years from now!

If a person realizes their crush isn't the person they thought they were, how can they start getting over them?

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I briefly mentioned this early, but sometimes it's you who ends up rejecting your feelings about a crush. They could do several things that are on your 'ick' list, reminding you that crushes don't have to become more than that. But, how do you even get over the fact you romantically liked someone?

Bond says there are several steps you can take. They look like:

  • Accept that the person may not meet your expectations or ideals.
  • Limit contact and interactions with the person to reduce emotional attachment.
  • Engage in hobbies, activities, and self-improvement to shift focus away from the crush.
  • Talk to friends or a therapist about your feelings and get support.
  • Reflect on what you truly want in a relationship and how this person may not align with those values.

What would you say to someone who feels it's impossible to fully get over an ex?

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And if your ex happened to be the crush that you successfully entered into a relationship with? Well, the rules still apply. You have to give yourself time and understand that you can't rush the healing process.

Bond says, "Healing from a breakup takes time, and it’s okay to feel like it’s a long process. Allow yourself to feel and process all emotions related to the breakup without judgment."

She still wants you to find new activities and experiences to focus on because you'll like create positive memories that have nothing to do with your ex or former crush.

By focusing on personal growth and seeking support, it is possible to move forward and find happiness beyond a past relationship.

While you're learning how to get over a crush, here's over 10 self improvement books that'll help you focus on growing as a person.

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Halloween is on its way people! With just a handful of weeks to go, it's crunch time to find a costume and figure out what you'll be doing the night of October 31. Whether you're throwing a Halloween party and still need to figure out a food and drink recipes or you need a fun dish to bring to the one you're attending, these quick and easy Halloween snacks are here to help! After all, you don't want guests to be left hangry – that would be frightening. Have no fear! We have some last-minute Halloween snacks that are fast, festive, and tasty AF.

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Mummy Jalapeño Poppers

This savory Halloween snack can be made as spicy as your guests want it – just scoop a little or all of the jalapeño seeds out before stuffing these 'mummies' with cheese and wrapping them in store-bought crescent roll dough.

Brit + Co

Deviled Egg Brains

Your party pals will definitely be freaked out by this bite! Red food coloring aids in turning traditional deviled egg filling a spooky pink color.

Half Baked Harvest

Sweet and Salty Healthier Caramel Apples

Made without any processed sugar, these caramel apples require just a few ingredients: apples, maple syrup, honey, cream, vanilla, chocolate, and flaky salt.

A Spicy Perspective

Halloween Popcorn Mix

This candy-coated bowl of popcorn loads up on festive accoutrements like candy corn, pumpkins, and Halloween sprinkles.

Salt & Lavender

Halloween Puppy Chow

Add Halloween-themed sprinkles to some classic Chex mix for a spooky seasonal snack.

Handmade Charlotte

Monster Party Bark

Melt a few chocolate bars with some pretzels, candy eyes, and coconut flakes for a salty-sweet Halloween snack that will be ready in only three minutes.

Sally's Baking Addiction

Halloween Pretzel Bites

Just place small pieces of chocolate on top of pretzels, heat them long enough for the chocolate to soften, then lightly place a candy corn on top. Viola! Simple, tasty treats with a twist – and no tricks!

The Healthy Family and Home

Chipotle Pumpkin Hummus

We don't know anyone who doesn't love hummus. This quick dip can be served with crackers or veggies for a healthy Halloween party snack.

Crowded Kitchen

Halloween Pumpkin Covered Strawberries

If you have some strawberries on-hand, this recipe is made even easier. Just grab some orange candy melts and decorate away!

Polka Dot Chair

Caramel-Dipped Marshmallows

Simply dip marshmallows in caramel, then cover them in some cute holiday sprinkles for an easy treat that everyone won't stop snacking on.

Skinnytaste

Banana Boo Pops

Put a festive touch on the classic frozen chocolate “boo-nana" by giving them a ghostly makeover. The only heavy lifting you'll have to do for this recipe is let them sit in the freezer for a bit.

Delia Creates

Spiderweb Pretzels

Melt some chocolate, then swirl it over pretzel sticks for a spooky spiderweb-like snack. These could be served alone, or on a cake or ice cream.

Completely Delicious

Halloween Candy Bark

Whether you're using new or leftover Halloween candy, this bark recipe is super simple.

Home Made Interest

Apple Kabobs

Buy a package of pre-sliced apples, then dip them in chocolate and caramel for an easy alternative to a favorite Halloween pastime. Plus, they're just easier to eat!

Suburbia Unwrapped

Candy Corn Fruit Parfait

For a sweet treat that's still healthy, skip the candy corn and cut up some colorful fruit in its place.

This Wife Cooks

Sweet and Salty Pumpkin Seeds

For flavors both sweet and salty, these pumpkin seeds can be made in a jiffy.

Miss Candiquik

Strawberry Ghosts

Dip some strawberries in white chocolate, then give them chocolate chip eyes and a mouth for these cute and tasty snacks.

Bren Did

Tangerine Pumpkins

Peel a few tangerines and place a small piece of celery in the middle to make these tangerine pumpkins. Bonus: these can definitely double as the perfect kid's snack for school.

Feel Good Foodie

Witches' Brooms

To make these adorable 'brooms,' you'll push a pretzel in the end of a sliced string cheese stick.

Culinary Hill

Halloween Walnuts

These nutty little guys are the perfect snacking companion for the holiday.

Averie Cooks

Loaded Halloween Cream Cheese Brownies

These super soft and gooey brownies are the ultimate snack that'll melt in your mouth. They're perfect for anyone who has a sweet tooth and loves a combination of fudge, oreo cookies, and cream cheese. Plus, you'll taste a hint of vanilla extract in it that serves as a nice surprise!

Completely Delicious

Halloween Candy Bark

Looking for chill Halloween snacks to munch on throughout the day? Make this holiday candy bark that has all the makings of a trick-or-treat explosion. You'll need everything from bittersweet chocolate to your favorite Halloween candies for this fun recipe.

Kathryn's Kitchen Blog

Halloween Popcorn Mix

Got a taste for something that involves trail mix and popcorn? This Halloween snack has your name written all over it! It takes less than an hour to perfect and involves popcorn, a little sugar, honey, salt, and more delicious ingredients! In our mind, it's the perfect sweet and salty treat you'll want to recreate every season!

What are some of your favorite Halloween snacks? Let us know in the comments, and join our newsletter for more holiday inspiration!

This post has been updated with additional reporting by Meredith Holser.

Fall is here, and the perfect time to snag some unmissable Amazon finds is now, before October Prime Day kicks off! From cozy home essentials to stylish seasonal picks, these fall gems are the perfect way to elevate your space and wardrobe while taking advantage of early savings. Don’t wait—grab them before they’re gone.

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An Eyeshadow Pallet With Complimenting Colors

Amazon

This two-in-one eyeshadow palette is ideal for creating an autumn-themed sunset effect. It features a matte burnt orange shade that pairs beautifully with shimmery gold. With various color combinations available at an affordable price, you can easily pick up more than one.

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A Sweater Set Ideal for Mixing and Matching With Other Pieces

Amazon

The outfit possibilities with this sweater set are endless. It includes a classic button-up top that can be worn open or closed, paired with the cutest knit joggers. Dress up the top for a more formal look, or keep it casual with the matching joggers for a relaxed vibe.

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Throw on These Chic Riding Boots

Amazon

With memory foam and padded insoles, these riding boots are comfortable and fashionable. Wear them with skirts and dresses or over a pair of skinny jeans.

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Makeup Mousse That Will Cut Down Your Getting-Ready Time

Amazon

Simplify your makeup routine and give your skin a bronzed glow with this makeup mousse. It features a 4-in-1 formula that functions as a primer, foundation, concealer, and powder, with buildable coverage that easily hides dark spots and redness.

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Joggers You Can Lounge and Workout In

Amazon

If you want to stay cozy during an active day, this pair of joggers is an excellent choice. They feature a flattering tapered leg made from buttery soft and stretchy material. They're perfect for a quick workout or lounging around the house.

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A Stylish Anorak Jacket That Goes With Anything

Amazon

A classic anorak jacket makes any outfit feel complete, and this one does not disappoint. It's lightweight, so it works as a transitional piece from summer to fall. You can easily layer it over a t-shirt and sweater or wear it on its own depending on the weather. It comes in a variety of pretty fall colors, so you're sure to find one that suits your style.

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These Inviting Pumpkin Pillows

Amazon

This set of Pumpkin Pillows is a delightful must-have for your fall checklist. Place them on your sofa, armchairs, or bed to instantly transform your space into a cozy haven. These pillows not only offer comfort but also celebrate the spirit of the season, making them the perfect accent for any fall-themed gathering or quiet evening indoors.

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Add a Layer of Warmth With This Chunky Knit Blanket

Amazon

With hundreds of glowing reviews, this chunky knit blanket made from hand-knit merino wool is the ultimate cozy companion. Whether you’re snuggling up on the couch, bed, or chair, this blanket adds warmth and a touch of style to any space. Available in a variety of colors, it’s a must-have fall accessory.

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Be Trendy With a Bomber Jacket

Amazon

Women and men everywhere flock to a bomber jacket for a casual yet stylish look. It is a great transitional piece for the fall months with its lightweight design.

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Add These Must-Have Baggy Jeans to Your Cart

Amazon

You can create an endless amount of outfits with these baggy jeans. Wear them with oversized sweaters, bodysuits, tank tops, or a tuckable tee for casual vibes.

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A Lip Combo Set Inspired by Fall

Amazon

This chestnut lip combo set has all the steps you need for a stunning fall lip look. It includes three separate pieces with dual-ended lip liners and lipstick combos. They’re stunning when worn alone with a matte finish or can easily be layered with a shimmery gloss.

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A Cinnamon Lipstick That Works as a Liner

Amazon

Dark and dramatic lip colors are a fall essential, and this lipstick is a perfect choice. Priced affordably at just $5, it comes in multiple stunning shades. Its non-tacky formula works as both a lipstick and liner, and you can easily layer gloss on top for added shine.

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A Pair of Trousers That Are Casual and Cool

Amazon

These ultra-comfortable trousers are great for beach days in the summer and styling with your favorite fall essentials for a warmer, cozier look when the weather gets cooler. They have an elastic drawstring, so they feel like lightweight sweatpants, and we are all about the added pockets. Think of these like an upgraded pair of sweatpants that you can wear nearly anywhere.

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A Skin Enhancer to Keep Up With the Summer Tan

Amazon

Give your complexion a flawless summer glow with this vitamin-infused skin enhancer. It's similar to a tinted moisturizer but features a light-reflecting formula that illuminates the high points of your face and bronzes the low points.

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Be Casual With a Crewneck Sweater

Amazon

Every closet needs to be filled with classic and wearable sweaters. This crewneck sweater is easy to pair with jeans, trousers, or skirts for an easy look.

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A Velvet Dress That Feels Like Luxury

Amazon

This gorgeous velvet dress is the epitome of fall vibes. The fabric is ultra-soft, and the colors are swoon-worthy. Choose from a variety of gorgeous shades, from teal blue to burnt orange. Easily dress it up with heels or create a casual look with fall booties. Whatever you choose, you're sure to feel like a million bucks in this stunning dress.

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A Slouchy-Knit Cardigan That's Perfect for Layering

Amazon

We're all for a cardigan that basically feels like a robe, and this one is perfect for layering over tank tops and t-shirts to keep you warm this fall. The slouchy design makes it oh-so-cozy, and the gorgeous knit pattern is right on-trend. The color options couldn't be better suited for fall, from mustard yellow to rust red. Whether you prefer jeans or skirts and tights this fall, this gorgeous cardigan is sure to complement any look.

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Wide Leg Sweatpants With an Adjustable Waist

Amazon

Switch it up from your basic pair of joggers with these wide-leg sweatpants. They feature a baggy and flared design that looks stunning paired with your favorite slippers or sneakers. The thick, high-waisted band is perfect with a crop top or matching hoodie.

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A Lounge Set You Can Wear to the Office

Amazon

This high-quality lounge set gives the illusion of a classic business casual outfit while offering the comfort of being wrapped in your favorite blanket. It comes in a variety of colors, and with its trendy mock neckline, you'll be able to rock a convenient messy bun.

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A Lounge Set That Is Cozy and Chic

Amazon

Looking chic this fall while staying as comfortable and cozy as possible means investing in high-quality lounge sets. This matching pair of wide-leg pants will go perfectly with any sneakers or boots and pair easily with a chic vest.

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This Ceramic Pumpkin Pot Is Perfect for Fall Treats

Amazon

Whip up a stew in this whimsical ceramic pumpkin pot. The dishwasher-safe and nonstick pot is versatile enough to serve everything from warming soups to delicious desserts. It also comes in white, blue, and red.

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A Cozy Sweater Set You'll Want to Wear Every Day

Amazon

There's something about fall vibes that make us want to wear our coziest, most relaxing pieces of clothing. As soon as we saw this adorable sweater set, we knew it had the potential to be the perfect addition to our closet, and let's be honest, it does not disappoint. The fabric is soft and stretchy, and the button detail is a super cute addition. It comes in a variety of gorgeous shades, from blue-green to blush pink, so you're sure to find one that suits your style.

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These Sweatpants Are on Another Level

Amazon

Discover the allure of these Sweatpants, which exude a level of sophistication that sets them apart. Their refined charm lies in the raw hem stitch detailing and substantial waistband, imparting an elevated touch to your loungewear. Step into a realm of class and comfort as you redefine your relaxed style with these exceptional lounge pants.

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A Milani Eyeshadow Palette With Deep Purple Tones

Amazon

This Milani eyeshadow palette features perfect purple-toned autumn colors to create stunning eyeshadow looks. It includes both shimmer and matte shades to make any eye color pop. With a total of six colors, ranging from deep purple to light pink, this palette has everything you need for a fall-inspired look.

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A Cable Knit Sweater That's Sure to Be an Instant Favorite

Amazon

When we laid eyes on this sweater, we knew it was going to be our next favorite. The pretty cable knit pattern is a classic statement that never goes out of style, and the soft knit fabric is perfect for cozying up in the fall. Choose from a variety of autumnal colors, from khaki to green, for a look you'll want to wear all fall. Throw it on over jeans and a t-shirt for an instantly elevated outfit that will surely make you feel your best.

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A Multi-Use Lip Pen That's Smudge-Proof

Amazon

Create the perfect lip combo with minimal effort using this lip pen. It acts as a liner, stain, and lipstick all in one. Made with a long-lasting formula that's resistant to water and smudging, it comes in a variety of colors, from nude to bold luxe.

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A Pumpkin Picking Candle Delivers the Perfect Cozy Fall Scent to Your Home

Amazon

The Pumpkin Picking Candle delivers the perfect cozy fall scent to your home, making it an ideal addition to your self-care routine. With its warm blend of pumpkin, cinnamon, and sweet vanilla, this candle invites relaxation and comfort, creating a calming atmosphere perfect for unwinding after a busy day. Light it up, settle in, and let the soothing fall aromas bring a little extra care and coziness into your space

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Yoga Pants With a Slightly Flared Bottom

Amazon

These yoga pants combine the best of leggings and flared lounge pants with a slim boot-cut design. Available in four different lengths and a variety of colors, they're perfect for pairing with your favorite sweatshirt.

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A Pair of Slippers That Are Ultra Cozy

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When the temperature gets cooler, the first thing we bring out of our closet is a cozy pair of slippers. There's nothing more likely to induce shivers than walking across cold hardwood floors, and these slippers keep our feet toasty and warm. They have a cozy polar fleece lining and a rubber sole, so you'll never have to worry about slipping and sliding across the floor.

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This Flattering Pea Coat

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This Pea Coat is crafted in a long length, it boasts a classic self-tie belt that suits various body shapes, ensuring a flattering fit. The coat features a solid color, long sleeves, and a lapel open front, embodying timeless sophistication and warmth. Embrace the elegance and practicality of this pea coat, perfect for enhancing your fall wardrobe.

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An Adorable Sweater Set That's Beyond Cozy

Amazon

This is another sweater set that has what it takes to become an instant wardrobe staple. The fabric is soft, breathable, and stretchy, so the comfort level is unmatched. Choose from a variety of cute colors and patterns for a laid-back look that feels luxurious.

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A Two-Piece Sweatsuit That Keeps You Toasty Warm

Amazon

This two-piece sweatsuit is the neutral wardrobe staple you'll want to wear every day. The ribbed fabric is super soft, and it's slightly oversized while still being comfortable enough to wear when going out into the world. It's great for throwing on to run errands or for lounging in the comfort of your own home, reading an excellent book with your favorite snacks in tow. The muted autumn shades make us want to buy one in every color.

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These Pajama Sets are So Soft and Cozy

Amazon

This Pajama Set is available in over 20 cozy color patterns. Crafted for warmth and relaxation, these pajamas ensure a cozy night's sleep during chilly fall nights. Elevate your sleepwear collection and stay comfortably warm in style, making it an essential addition to your fall checklist.

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A Skin Tint to Prioritize Hydration

Amazon

Keep your skin moisturized and glowing with this skin tint. Infused with hyaluronic acid to help diminish uneven skin tones, it offers full coverage that can easily be used as a primer or foundation on lightweight makeup days.

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These Ribbed Ceramic Vases Have an Elegant Minimalist Look

Amazon

These ceramic vases have a sleek ribbed texture and a matte white finish, giving them a minimalist look. Whether used on their own, with faux flowers, or fresh blooms, they add a stylish touch to your bookshelf, coffee table, fireplace, or as a centerpiece on your dining table.

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The Coziest Two-Piece Set That Comes in Multiple Colors

Amazon

It doesn’t get much simpler than throwing on this two-piece set and a pair of your favorite sneakers before heading out the door. The matching combo of the quarter-zip top and jogger sweatpants will keep you stylish while staying as comfortable as can be.

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Carry Your Stuff in a Vegan Leather Tote Bag

Amazon

Accessories are a necessity in any capsule wardrobe. This large vegan leather tote bag is great for commuting, traveling, or everyday use.

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A Pink Corrector for Your Undereyes

Amazon

Neutralize dark under-eye circles and cool tones with this pink corrector. It imparts a radiant pink glow that blends seamlessly with your blush. The long-wearing, crease-resistant formula ensures a flawless look throughout the day.

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A Cute Storage Basket for Your Cozy Blankets

Amazon

This cotton rope storage basket is great for storing blankets, pillows, cushions, toys, clothes, and towels. Its sturdy handles make it easy to move around and can also be folded flat when not in use.

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Cook Comfort Food to Perfection in This Pumpkin Dutch Oven

Amazon

Elevate your fall cooking with this pumpkin-shaped cocotte. Made from enameled cast iron, it’s as durable as it is stylish, whether you’re using it on the stove or pulling it straight from the oven. With its brass stem handle, it doubles as a decorative piece, making it a smart seasonal investment for your kitchen.

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A Moisturizer Made For Sensitive Skin

Amazon

Using a high-quality daily moisturizer is absolutely essential for mastering a perfect skincare routine. This moisturizer is infused with ceramides and hyaluronic acid to nourish your skin without causing any irritation.

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Everyone Needs a Pair of Boyfriend Jeans

Amazon

Make way for a fall wardrobe essential – these Boyfriend Jeans. Their high waistband isn't just stylish; it's universally flattering, making them a must-have addition to your autumn closet. With their timeless appeal and comfortable fit, these jeans are ready to become your go-to choice for effortless style this season.

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A Fleece Crewneck You’ll Want in Every Color

Amazon

Reliable pieces like this fleece crewneck are an absolute must-have to build your loungewear collection this season. It features a soft lining and an oversized fit that will keep you cozy on a chilly day. It comes in over 30 different styles, both plain and patterned, to match any pair of bottoms in your wardrobe.

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A Two-Piece Set Ideal for Lounging at Home

Amazon

This two-piece set is perfect for cozy movie days at home. Made from a floaty waffle knit material, it offers ultimate comfort. Available in both monochromatic and mix-and-match color options, it also has a coupon on Amazon right now

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A Striped Crewneck That Makes Any Outfit Chic

Amazon

This striped crewneck lets you feel like you're in your favorite pajama set while still looking stylish outside the house. It comes in a variety of colors, and it is perfect for wearing to your favorite football games this season with its sporty striped pattern.

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A Chunky-Knit Sweater in Pretty Autumn Shades

Amazon

This chunky-knit sweater is the coziest fall wardrobe staple, and we find ourselves wearing it all the time. The oversized fit makes us feel like we're bundled up in a cozy blanket, and the color selections couldn't be better. Choose from a variety of autumnal shades, from olive green to a dark, moody purple. This is an instant closet favorite you won't want to pass up on.

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Treat Yourself to a Comfortable Cardigan

Amazon

You can style this comfortable cardigan in more ways than one. Button it up all the way, halfway, or leave it open for a casual look.

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A Plumping Lip Balm That Matches Any Liner

Amazon

Hydrate your lips and make them appear naturally fuller with this plumping lip balm. Available in a variety of colors, from deep reds to sheer pinks, you can easily apply a similarly toned eyeshadow to complete your look.

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A Lip Stain That Plumps and Hydrates

Amazon

Opting for a lip stain is a great way to avoid frequent reapplications throughout the day. This lip stain has a long-lasting formula that plumps your lips with moisturizing ingredients. Available in a variety of colors, you can choose from single packs or buy a two or three-pack for added convenience.

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These Pants are so Versatile

Amazon

Indulge in unparalleled comfort with these Pants crafted from an incredibly flexible material. Elevate your loungewear game with their super comfy and flattering fit that promises a unique sensation. These wide-leg wonders boast chic side slit and tie-knotted cuff designs, accentuated by a high waist for a flowy, feminine silhouette. Two deep pockets add functionality and style to these pants, making them a must-have addition to your wardrobe.

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A Neck Serum to Add to Your Anti-Aging Skincare Routine

Amazon

Our neck is typically the first area to show signs of aging, making this influencer favorite neck serum a great investment. It helps firm the skin and provides a lifted appearance, minimizing fine lines and wrinkles.

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Use This Wrap Dress to Elevate Your Look

Amazon

Any fall wardrobe needs a cozy wrap dress. This option offers ribbed detailing, long sleeves, and a V-neck design.

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Quality and Quanitity Come in This 3 Pack of Tank Tops

Amazon

This 3 Pack of Tank Tops is destined to become your seasonal staple. Crafted from ribbed material, they exude a bougie allure that's perfect for the season. These versatile tops pair with any of your favorite jackets, offering an endless array of chic outfit possibilities. Upgrade your autumn style with this must-have trio that combines comfort and sophistication flawlessly.

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These Cargo Pants are In Style All Year

Amazon

These Cargo Pants ideal for adding a fresh twist to your style. The high waistband and relaxed fit ensure a flattering look on any body type. But these pants aren't just about aesthetics – they're also highly functional, featuring a total of 6 pockets to keep all your essentials organized while you're on the move. Explore the perfect blend of fashion and utility with these must-have cargo pants.

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Ugg Tasman Slippers for Indoor and Outdoor Wear

Amazon

These Ugg Tasman slippers are the perfect fall shoes to slip on with any pair of bottoms. You can wear them both indoors and outdoors, thanks to their soft lining and rubber soles. They come in a variety of colors to choose from.

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A Matching Pajama Set With Soft Material

Amazon

No fall wardrobe is complete without a cozy, matching pajama set. This set is designed with the perfect details for lounging at home and enjoying a restful night's sleep. Available in over 20 colors and patterns, its affordable price makes it easy to add more than one to your cart.

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An Autumn Spice Pallet With 9 Colors

Amazon

Create a gorgeous eyeshadow look that matches your favorite fall colors with this autumn spice palette. It features brown, orange, and pink tones to add a warm touch to your eyeshadow. Finish it off with brown mascara and a winged eyeliner for full glam.

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This Bougie Hoodie Will Be Your Best Friend This Fall

Amazon

Experience the internet's favorite trend with this Hoodie, expertly crafted from a luxuriously thick material that's been taking the online world by storm. Elevating your hoodie game, its superior quality injects a touch of sophistication into the familiar comfort of a hoodie. Embrace the buzz and upgrade your casual style effortlessly with this must-have piece that combines trend and refinement.

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A Cream Eyeliner That Comes in Multiple Shades

Amazon

There's no better time than fall to experiment with your eye makeup looks, and this cream eyeliner is the perfect way to do it. It’s great for adding a pop of color as a winged eyeliner or for lining your waterline to match your eyeshadow.

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A Liquid Blush and Bronzer for a Warm Finish

Amazon

Keep your face looking refreshed and vibrant with this liquid blush and bronzer. Combining two products into one, it gives your complexion a warm glow. Available in a variety of colors, you can choose from both pink and brown tones.

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Joggers With a Crossover Waist Band

Amazon

Add a touch of flair to your everyday sweatpants look with these high-waisted joggers. The crossover waistband gives you a cinched waist and pairs perfectly with your favorite crop top. They have a baggy fit throughout, offering a trendy Y2K vibe.

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For a Rustic, Cozy Feel, Boil Water With This Electric Kettle

Amazon

Looking to add a rustic, vintage touch to your kitchen? This kettle is the answer. Though it looks like a classic stovetop kettle, it’s electric, making it stylish and practical. The gooseneck design with cork accents is charming, while the quiet operation and automatic shut-off make it a modern essential for every kitchen.

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Cargo Sweatpants With Plenty of Pocket Space

Amazon

Cargo sweatpants are all the rage this season, and with this affordable pair on Amazon, there’s no better time to invest. The extra pockets are as stylish as they are convenient, offering ample storage space for all your essentials throughout the day.

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Put Your Phone on DND and Enjoy Some Quiet Time

Amazon

Bring back the art of conversation with this card game designed to spark meaningful discussions. Featuring over 300 questions, it's perfect for fall camping trips or cozy nights in with friends and family. Whether you want to reconnect or have fun, this game is a great way to spend those crisp autumn evenings.

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A Cream Blush Stick You Can Use Multiple Ways

Amazon

With this cream blush stick, you can ensure your lips, eyes, and cheeks match. It has a multi-use formula with a matte finish, allowing you to easily add shine with a highlighter and gloss. It’s available in a variety of tones that will complement your fall makeup.

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Add Comfort With This Hand-Knitted Ottoman

Amazon

Hand-knitted by skilled artisans, this round ottoman is the ultimate cozy addition to any living room. Made with lightweight cotton and filled like a bean bag, it’s easy to move around but still sturdy and comfy. Plus, with so many colors to choose from, you’re sure to find one that perfectly matches your fall decor.

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These Neutral Pillow Covers Go Well With Most Decor

Amazon

These pumpkin pillow covers are incredibly soft and silky. They have a neutral tone that complements most decor. You can also choose to get them in other colors if you want something a bit more daring.

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The L'Oreal Lumi Glotion for a Moisturized and Glowing Base

Amazon

Starting off your makeup routine with L'Oreal Lumi Glotion ensures your look lasts every single day. This product combines a highlighter and bronzer to prep your skin for the rest of your makeup, but it’s also stunning when worn alone.

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A Knit Sweater With Retro Flair

Amazon

This sweater is perfect for transitioning from summer to fall. The soft knit fabric is beyond cozy, and the adorable retro stripe pattern is right on-trend. Pair it with shorts for warmer fall days, and switch to jeans as the temperature gets cooler. The drop shoulder gives this sweater a relaxed fit, and the crew neck creates a tailored look you'll want to wear all fall.

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Elevate your outfit's elegance with the Shrug Cardigan

Amazon

This Shrug Cardigan will add sophistication to any outfit. The knit sleeves are the perfect touch to transform any look from mundane to fabulous. Keep rocking your beloved sleeveless tops even as the temperature drops – this cardigan is your go-to for adding style and warmth during the colder seasons.

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Stay Cool With a Stylish Trench Coat

Amazon

A trench coat is the easiest type of outerwear to wear this fall. It is a casual yet chic option that is lightweight and breezy.

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Lip Liner With the Perfect Nude Shade

Amazon

Create a signature lip color this fall with this TikTok favorite lip liner. Its new base pairs well with any of your favorite lipsticks or glosses and has a matte finish, perfect for overlining your lips with a natural look.

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Chunky Cardigan with Stylish Lantern Sleeves

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Time to level up your fall fashion game with this absolute gem – the cardigan that's about to take your simple jeans-and-top ensemble from zero to fall-chic hero in a heartbeat. The oversized fit brings the cute and trendy vibes, while those lantern sleeves sprinkle a touch of feminine charm, making it the perfect layering essential.

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A Trendy Cardigan With an Oversized Fit

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Having a cute cardigan on hand is essential for staying warm on a chilly day while keeping your outfit chic and cozy. You can wear it buttoned up as a top by itself or layer it over your favorite tank top.

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Stay Fashionable With a Turtleneck Sweater

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Add this turtleneck sweater to your closet for a timeless and classic look. Pick from muted colors such as beige, white, gray, brown, and black.

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A Sweater Set That Feels Like Pajamas

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Stay in style all season long with this chic sweater set. It includes a matching crewneck sweater and wide-leg pants made from high-quality knit material. It comes in six different colors with signature stripe detailing.

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A Brown Mascara to Compliment Warm Eyeshadows

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Brown mascara is a summer trend that's expected to get even more popular this fall. It’s perfect for giving your lashes a natural, defined appearance and blends well with warm eyeshadows. This one features a clump-resistant formula to keep your lashes looking beautiful and feathery.

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An Oversized Sweater With a Chic Collar

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The stripes and collared neckline on this oversized sweater will keep you looking stylish while staying cozy. It pairs beautifully with a monochromatic pair of sweatpants or leggings, and you can easily dress it up with some jewelry.

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A Swing Dress That's Dreamy to Wear

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This super cute swing dress is one of the comfiest items in our closet, and it's easy to see why. The cotton blend fabric is soft and breathable, and the drapey fit makes this dress feel flowy and fun to wear, while the long sleeves keep us feeling warm. Pair it with boots for an adorable fall look that's ready for the pumpkin patch.

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These Joggers are Sure to Catch Eyes.

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Get noticed with these Joggers that boast a stylish flared leg opening, setting them apart from the regular joggers. Pair them with a dressy top and heels for an upscale vibe, or opt for a more relaxed feel by teaming them up with flats and a comfy t-shirt. Versatility meets flair in these must-have pants.

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A Flowy Maxi Dress for the Ultimate Fall Vibes

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This flowy maxi dress has everything we look for in a fall dress. It comes in a variety of pretty fall colors, and the fit is beyond dreamy. The long sleeves mean you can wear it on its own and still stay warm on windy fall days, and the maxi length makes it perfect for dressing up or down. The subtle button detail adds a classic touch to this gorgeous fall dress.

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These Luxurious Memory Foam Slippers

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Embrace the ultimate in indoor coziness with these fuzzy Memory Foam Slippers. Crafted for both comfort and style, these slippers offer a plush, memory foam insole that pampers your feet with every step. The fuzzy, soft exterior provides warmth and a touch of luxury, making them the ideal footwear for chilly fall mornings and evenings. Whether you're lounging at home or stepping out to grab the mail, these slippers offer the perfect blend of comfort and convenience, making them a must-have on your fall checklist.

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This Charming Wool Bomber Jacket

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Prepare to fall in love with this Wool Bomber Jacket. Its varsity jacket build combined with a luxurious wool material gives it a truly unique and stylish appearance. Not only does it exude an air of sophistication, but it also offers practicality with its large pockets, ensuring you have both style and convenience at your fingertips.

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A Fleece Jacket That Feels Like a Sherpa Blanket

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This fleece jacket is made with adjustable detailing to complement any fall loungewear outfit. You can wear it cropped or at midline with its versatile waistband. The high neck design adds extra convenience for your updo, adding convenience to your getting-ready routine.

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These Trendy Fleece Joggers are Worth the Hype

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You have probably seen these Fleece Joggers being hyped up all over Tik Tok at some point, and rightfully so. These pants are a solid 10 on the quality scale, offering unparalleled comfort that lasts all day. Join the trend and experience cozy chicness like never before.

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Pillow Covers Add a Touch of Fall Charm

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These burnt orange Pillow Covers, a subtle yet captivating addition to your fall decor. This warm and inviting shade exudes the essence of autumn, making it a perfect choice for your home. Whether adorning your sofa or accentuating your bedroom, this pillow adds a cozy touch that beautifully complements the season's changing colors.

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This Gorgeous Orange Pampas Grass Bouquet

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It's time to transition your home decor for fall, and an Orange Pampas Grass Bouquet is the perfect choice. Swap out your summer blooms for this stunning arrangement, which captures the essence of autumn with its warm and rustic hues. The fluffy pampas grass and dried flowers bring a touch of nature's beauty indoors, making it an ideal centerpiece or accent piece. Embrace the changing seasons by adding this bouquet to your fall checklist.

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A Pencil Dress with a Tie-Waist

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This pencil dress is stylish and sophisticated, and it comes in a variety of pretty colors and stripe combinations. The fabric is soft, stretchy, and breathable, and the tie waist creates a classic silhouette that's beyond flattering. The long sleeves make it perfect for colder weather, and you can wear it on its own or with tights. This is a dress you'll want to reach for again and again.

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These Sweaters Are so Fun For Fall

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Infuse your outfit with personality using this high-neck Sweater, designed to bring patterned charm to your look. With a choice of 15 captivating patterns, this piece promises to be your style statement of the season. Elevate your fashion game with this effortlessly stylish sweater that lets you express yourself through an array of stunning designs.

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A Calligraphy Workbook That Helps You Build Skills

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There's something about fall that makes us want to take up a new hobby. Maybe it's the fact that for years, we were preparing to go back to school. This beautiful calligraphy workbook takes the guesswork out of hand lettering and helps you build skills to practice independently. It's perfect for beginners looking to gain confidence in calligraphy.

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A Collared Sweater Dress for Preppy Fall Vibes

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This collared sweater dress is giving major academic vibes, and we're here for it. Whenever autumn comes around, we can't resist checking out our local library for our next page-turner, and this dress is just the thing to wear. It's soft, cozy, and has a vintage, preppy vibe that's perfect for fall. Pair it with leggings to stay cozy on cooler days.

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An Oversized Turtleneck Sweater Dress That's Beyond Chic

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We are big fans of adding items to our wardrobe that are basically an all-in-one outfit, and this chic sweater dress checks all of the boxes. The oversized fit couldn't be comfier, and the relaxed turtleneck keeps us feeling warm and cozy on cold, overcast days. Pair it with tights and high boots for a sophisticated look that never goes out of style.

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A Plumping Lip Cream Infused With Vitamin E

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Keep your lips looking glossy and full with this plumping lip cream. Made with a peptide and vitamin E formula to prevent chapped lips, it comes in over 30 shades to choose from. It’s essential to finish off your fall beauty looks.

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A Flattering Batwing Sweater That Matches Any Vibe

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This batwing sweater is a great investment for creating multiple outfits from one simple purchase. It features a thick ribbed material that pairs well with your favorite lounge pants but can also be dressed up with anything, from dress pants to jeans.

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